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Speaker 1:
[00:00] It's Marcus In The Morning, we're back with Second Date Update. You know this, we've got Tyler on the phone. Good morning, Tyler.

Speaker 2:
[00:05] Hey, morning, what's up, guys?

Speaker 1:
[00:06] What's up? We want to talk about this ghosting, your date, Nicole. I gotta be honest with you, the prevailing attitude I'm getting these days is like, well, it's just one date, it's not really a ghost, but it still hurts, you know? Still stings.

Speaker 2:
[00:22] I mean, I thought we were getting along really well, you know?

Speaker 1:
[00:25] Right, all right, so according to your DM, you guys met up in Redwood City, so tell me about it, how did it go?

Speaker 2:
[00:34] Well, it just felt great, really natural. I mean, we shared a lot of laughs, and at the end of the night, we hugged, you know, nothing crazy, but it felt really nice. Okay.

Speaker 1:
[00:48] And she has disappeared since, I just want to confirm. You haven't heard from her at all?

Speaker 2:
[00:52] No, not at all.

Speaker 1:
[00:53] All right. What I'll do is, and you know this, we'll have you mute your phone so you can listen in, but I'll give her a call and see how she thought the date went. We'll get her perspective, okay?

Speaker 2:
[01:02] All right, cool. Thanks a lot.

Speaker 1:
[01:03] All right, cross your fingers for a second date. All right, we're going to call this date Nicole, figure out why she ghosted. Go ahead and take a deep breath and mute your phone so you can listen in. Here we go.

Speaker 3:
[01:19] Hello?

Speaker 1:
[01:20] Hi, is this Nicole?

Speaker 3:
[01:23] Uh, yeah, who's this?

Speaker 1:
[01:24] Sorry, good morning. This is Marcus Colling from Star 101-3. Please tell me I didn't wake you up.

Speaker 3:
[01:30] Um, no, what, what, what's, what is this?

Speaker 1:
[01:34] Um, so, we're a radio station here in San Francisco. I do the morning show, and I'm wondering if you have a sec to be on the air. I can explain.

Speaker 3:
[01:44] Uh, sure.

Speaker 1:
[01:47] So, we do a thing called Second Date Update, and I understand you have been on a date with a guy named Tyler, and he's feeling like maybe you're ghosting him. And I just, we're just trying to figure out, like, honestly, like, what did my guy do wrong? Did he do something wrong? Are you just been busy? Do you have a second?

Speaker 3:
[02:05] Yeah, yeah, for sure. Um, yeah, Tyler was really nice.

Speaker 1:
[02:09] Okay, how did the date go, though?

Speaker 3:
[02:12] It was okay. I mean, he treated me well, but I don't know, one thing was kind of off as the night went on.

Speaker 1:
[02:19] Okay.

Speaker 3:
[02:21] He kind of kept name dropping all night.

Speaker 1:
[02:24] How do you mean?

Speaker 3:
[02:25] And every, okay, so every story circled back to someone really impressive, like some founder he knew or a DJ he met, or a friend who just sold his company. And then he'd mentioned that he was backstage somewhere. And it like wasn't just once or twice. It was a lot. It was consistently.

Speaker 1:
[02:45] So you're trying to tell a story, and then he's just kind of jumping in with his own story. Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 3:
[02:50] Exactly. I'd mentioned something, and he'd hop in and be like, oh, well, this famous person I know did this and blah, blah, blah. And it was just a lot.

Speaker 1:
[02:57] Okay. And wow, that's wild.

Speaker 2:
[03:01] I thought I was just sharing my life.

Speaker 1:
[03:03] All right. So part of this, sorry, Nicole, is that Tyler is actually on the phone with us right now. Good morning. So Tyler, Tyler, did you?

Speaker 2:
[03:15] Yeah, no.

Speaker 1:
[03:16] Did you interrupt the lady?

Speaker 2:
[03:18] No, I mean, I don't feel like I did. I really felt like, okay, like that's just kind of like the friends I have and like the circles that I run in. I don't really feel like I'm name dropping or like bragging or anything. I mean, doesn't that what people do on a date? They just like talk about their lives.

Speaker 3:
[03:38] It didn't feel like you were talking about your life, though. It felt like you were trying to impress me instead of getting to know me.

Speaker 2:
[03:45] I mean, I felt like, you know, like I said, that's just the company I keep. That's just the way I talk. I mean, I thought that we were just connecting.

Speaker 3:
[03:54] Connecting? No, that's connecting is asking questions, not stacking different credentials. Like it felt like you were just trying to one up me.

Speaker 2:
[04:03] All right. Well, that's not how I felt about it at all. It's not my fault that I actually like have fun when I go out. I go to cool parties. My friends are are interesting and successful people.

Speaker 3:
[04:15] OK, cool. Well, I don't want to date a highlight reel, so thanks.

Speaker 1:
[04:19] Got it. All right. You guys, hang on, hang on. That's going nowhere fast. OK, Star 101 3 Second Date Update.