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Speaker 1:
[00:00] Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley and Tanya Rad, an IHeartRadio and two-time People's Choice Award-winning podcast.
Speaker 2:
[00:11] Hello, everybody.
Speaker 3:
[00:14] We are scrubbing in.
Speaker 2:
[00:16] Scrub-a-dub-dub in the tub-tub-tub.
Speaker 3:
[00:19] Wow. How are you doing?
Speaker 2:
[00:24] I'm doing great. How are you doing?
Speaker 3:
[00:25] I'm doing great. How's tender Tanya?
Speaker 2:
[00:28] Tender as ever. You know what tender Tanya loves? A nap.
Speaker 3:
[00:32] Oh. Just midday?
Speaker 2:
[00:35] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[00:36] When you hit the nap cycle.
Speaker 2:
[00:38] Whenever I feel like it.
Speaker 3:
[00:40] Oh, that's new. Because I feel like used to if you had nap time.
Speaker 2:
[00:45] I would just push through.
Speaker 3:
[00:46] Or you'd go work out instead of nap or something.
Speaker 2:
[00:49] Not this phase, not tender Tanya. Chicken tender Tanya. How are you doing?
Speaker 3:
[00:54] I'm good. I'm great. Absolutely wonderful.
Speaker 2:
[00:58] Love to hear it.
Speaker 3:
[00:59] Yeah. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2:
[01:02] I'm going to work on my speech this weekend.
Speaker 3:
[01:06] Speech for what?
Speaker 2:
[01:07] My award I'm getting next week.
Speaker 3:
[01:09] Next week?
Speaker 2:
[01:10] Yeah. You're giving me the award.
Speaker 3:
[01:12] You told me. What day?
Speaker 2:
[01:16] The 29th of April.
Speaker 3:
[01:19] Oh, just kidding. I do have it in my calendar. For some reason, I thought I had it for May, because I remember thinking when you asked me what kind of food I wanted, I thought that's so far out. So I think I thought it was in May, but I have it in my calendar, it's the 29th, so we're all good. Okay.
Speaker 2:
[01:33] I was like-
Speaker 3:
[01:34] Are you writing your speech?
Speaker 2:
[01:36] Somebody is the one responsible giving it to me, so we need your participation in that.
Speaker 3:
[01:41] I'll be there, don't worry. It's in my calendar. Great. So you're writing your speech for that?
Speaker 2:
[01:46] Yeah, I'm going to work on it this weekend.
Speaker 3:
[01:47] Your acceptance speech?
Speaker 2:
[01:48] Yeah. It's been a minute since I gave a speech.
Speaker 3:
[01:52] Yeah, I'd be very stressed to give a speech.
Speaker 2:
[01:54] Yeah, I'm a little stressed.
Speaker 3:
[01:56] You're really good at that, though.
Speaker 2:
[01:58] I am? When have you watched me give a speech?
Speaker 3:
[02:00] No, just speaking in front of people.
Speaker 2:
[02:02] Oh, okay.
Speaker 3:
[02:03] Right? I would say you're really good at that.
Speaker 2:
[02:05] Thanks. I don't know that I am. When have you seen me speak in front of a crowd?
Speaker 3:
[02:10] Isn't that kind of your job when you go to present at IHeart Awards and stuff?
Speaker 2:
[02:16] So, like, here we're behind a microphone. When you're doing, like, TV stuff, you're just talking to, like, one person in the camera, man. It's not really, like, crowds around. There's crowds around, but you're not, like, talking to the crowd. You know what I mean?
Speaker 3:
[02:33] You are talking to the crowd.
Speaker 2:
[02:34] But they're, like, in the ether. I don't see them.
Speaker 4:
[02:38] I'm with Tanya on this. It's very different. Talking on the radio is very different from talking in front of a crowd.
Speaker 3:
[02:42] Talking on the radio, I'm talking about being on a stage in front of a crowd at an event.
Speaker 2:
[02:46] Oh, oh, oh, oh, like if we're gonna introduce, like, Olivia Rodrigo or something. Oh, yeah, okay, but I'm not giving a speech. I go out, I say, hey, here's Olivia Rodrigo. Cheers, cheers, cheers, goodbye.
Speaker 3:
[02:54] Oh. Will you have a teleprompter of this thing?
Speaker 2:
[02:57] I, that's a great question I'm gonna ask.
Speaker 4:
[02:59] Pardon me, what's the award?
Speaker 2:
[03:01] Thank you so much for asking, Easton. I am getting the-
Speaker 3:
[03:03] I didn't know if it was, if you were allowed to say.
Speaker 2:
[03:05] Oh, no, I posted about it. Oh. Thank you, Mark.
Speaker 4:
[03:09] You don't have to wait till the end, go ahead.
Speaker 2:
[03:11] I am being honored with the Content Creator of the Year Oh, wow. Content Creator of the Year Award by the Organization for Social Media Safety. Wow.
Speaker 4:
[03:23] Congratulations.
Speaker 3:
[03:25] Thank you.
Speaker 4:
[03:27] Social Media Safety.
Speaker 3:
[03:28] Yeah, what is that?
Speaker 2:
[03:29] Because I'm like responsible and I'm a role model on social media, I'm being honored.
Speaker 3:
[03:35] Wow.
Speaker 4:
[03:35] All ages can follow Tanya Rad without fear of problematic posts.
Speaker 3:
[03:41] Which is why she's in with the 13-year-old.
Speaker 2:
[03:44] Yeah. I'm just living. Living.
Speaker 3:
[03:48] So proud of you. You are a role model.
Speaker 2:
[03:50] Thank you so much. I know I'm very honored and so I don't really know how long I have to speak, but first on the docket to figure out how long it needs to be. Wait till you get the hook and they start playing you off. Yeah. Could you imagine they start playing a song, playing me off the stage?
Speaker 3:
[04:08] What is my job? I have to speak in front of people, right?
Speaker 2:
[04:11] Yeah. You have to give me the award.
Speaker 3:
[04:13] I know, but am I writing a speech?
Speaker 2:
[04:16] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[04:17] Well, why haven't you told me that?
Speaker 2:
[04:19] No, you'll be fine. I got you.
Speaker 3:
[04:22] Okay.
Speaker 2:
[04:22] Yeah. You can tweak it how you'd like, but you're going to have something to read.
Speaker 3:
[04:28] Okay. Great.
Speaker 2:
[04:30] Don't you fret my little pet.
Speaker 3:
[04:31] Don't make it too long.
Speaker 2:
[04:32] No, no, no. Just a quick stint on stage for you.
Speaker 3:
[04:36] I'm simply a vessel carrying the award.
Speaker 2:
[04:39] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[04:40] I'm honored to give you your award.
Speaker 2:
[04:42] Wow. Thank you.
Speaker 3:
[04:43] As a role model to everyone and anyone.
Speaker 2:
[04:46] Thank you. I will say it's funny because I was asking people if they wanted chicken or vegetarian option for their meal. I was like, the only person I knew for sure was not picking the chicken was Becca Tilley. I was like, yeah.
Speaker 3:
[04:58] Keep it away from me.
Speaker 2:
[04:59] Vegetarian option for you. Who's all coming? My parents, Robbie's parents, Robbie Yu, Sophia Pau and my sister-in-law.
Speaker 3:
[05:10] Wow. So fun. This is so exciting.
Speaker 2:
[05:12] Congratulations. Thank you.
Speaker 3:
[05:14] I'm very excited for you. I'm very excited to present.
Speaker 2:
[05:17] Thank you.
Speaker 3:
[05:19] Shall we get into some Dear Banya?
Speaker 2:
[05:21] We shall.
Speaker 4:
[05:23] Here we go from Anonymous. I recently overheard my husband on our outdoor camera complaining to a friend about our lack of intimacy. Ouch. He suggested to his friend that it's because I'm insecure about my body. And while that is a factor, the truth is that I simply have no sex drive right now. I am the default parent and partner. I work full time. I handle all the grocery shopping, the cooking, the laundry. My entire life revolves around my family. I feel unappreciated and like I've lost my sense of self. I am 34. He's 38. We have three kids ranging from 14 to 8. And we've been together 13 years. I'm not sure how to approach them about this. And any advice you have would be appreciated.
Speaker 3:
[06:00] First of all, I'm sorry you had to witness that. That's tough.
Speaker 2:
[06:04] I know. That would make me so sad.
Speaker 3:
[06:06] It made me sad. And there's also this part that's like sometimes people just vent. And, you know, it was just really unfortunate that he said it and she saw him and heard him saying it.
Speaker 2:
[06:19] I don't think it was necessarily wrong of him to... Like that's what your friends are for. Like you confide in them, like you want advice. But having to hear that was probably really rough.
Speaker 3:
[06:34] Yeah, I personally think you should just say, hey, I feel really uncomfortable even having to have this conversation. But I unfortunately heard you talking about our lack of intimacy with your friend and I want to figure out how to to like figure this out together. And it really hurt me. But I, you know, I understand that you were just venting. But I want you to know, first of all, that hurt me. And second of all, I feel like I take on so much of the role for our kids and for you and the house. And I don't really have capacity in that area, which leads to us not having physical intimacy. And I want to get back to where we do have that. But I think I need some help because I have too much on my plate. I think you just need to be honest about why you aren't in that place right now.
Speaker 2:
[07:27] But she did say that it's because she's insecure about her body. And she said that is a factor. So that is also a factor.
Speaker 3:
[07:35] Yeah, and I think realistically, if you have more capacity and help, you could probably focus on yourself a little bit more and taking care of yourself to where you maybe had a little more confidence in your body.
Speaker 2:
[07:47] Yeah, I think you need to use this as a major, major pivoting point in your relationship because you can say, I saw you on the outdoor camera and I heard you talking to Jack or whatever your friend's name about this. A, it really hurt my feelings to hear you talking about me in that way and I know that that's your right but I really wish that these intimate conversations you didn't have with outside people, if that's what you want of him, I think that's a fair thing to say. And then I think you really have to work on getting help, asking him to do more or just kind of giving your needs because I think for women, I think, the physical aspect of things isn't just like a one and done. I think guys can just be just like physical, whereas like women just have so much on their minds. And like there's nothing sexier than like a guy taking out the trash or like, do you know what I mean? Like there's no better for play than taking on a task that you're usually in charge of.
Speaker 3:
[08:54] And I also think there's things like she mentioned she handles nearly all the grocery shopping, cooking and laundry. And I think that those those things, in my opinion, should be divided. Like if he's working and out of the house while you're at home with the kids, then he can stop by the grocery store and pick up groceries on his way home. Like there's got to be a way of balancing that out to where you do have a little more capacity to give to your relationship. But I think it's I think when you have kids and I mean, Mark, you're the only one who can speak to this in terms of like raising kids. I think it's just hard and you have to like work to have the intimacy with your partner.
Speaker 4:
[09:34] Yeah. It's just got to be between the two of you. I don't think it's great that he's talking about this with his buddies. I know that you can vent to your friends or whatever, but I think when he starts talking about his wife's body image, that seems like it crosses the line for me. Also, how often you have sex with your wife. I think that's also, that's nobody's business, I don't think.
Speaker 3:
[09:53] But my thing is, I would hate to see this, and I'm actually on the same page as you, but I also think it's unrealistic to think that if you're having a struggle, you're not venting to your best friend. I think him bringing in like, she's insecure about her body, he could have not done that.
Speaker 2:
[10:10] I always think about how I would handle situations, and I feel like I tell my best friends everything, so it's hard for me to say, don't share. But we're also girls, yeah. It is different with girls.
Speaker 3:
[10:23] I do think he should have left your insecurities out of it if he needed to just say, yeah, I'm just fresh. Gosh, I don't know.
Speaker 2:
[10:30] But maybe he was genuinely asking his friend for help or advice. Have you ever been through this? How did you handle it, you know? I wanna give him the benefit of the doubt, because you said you've been married, you've been together for 13 years, so clearly you think very highly of him. I also just think too, and again, we don't really know the dynamic, but if one person in the relationship works, I think that sometimes there's this, I don't wanna say it's unfair, but there's all work, and then you do everything for the house. So you do get the groceries, you do the laundry, you do the cooking, you do the cleaning, you do the driving of the kids. And maybe that was their agreement, and so he doesn't know any better, unless she speaks up and says, I can't do it all, I need some help. That, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3:
[11:19] I think having, this is where I have an opinion on it, because I do think there's that mindset of like, I'm going home and I'm providing financially by having a job outside of the house. But taking care of kids alone, without doing all the chores and grocery shopping and all that, just taking care of the kids alone is a full-time job. So they both have their full-time jobs, and then she's taking on the laundry and the cooking, the cleaning, watering the plants, taking the dog out. So I don't think it's fair to go, well, I'm making the money outside the house, so you take care of everything because it's like, well, she's keeping three kids alive, making sure they're fed and taking care of probably where they need to be. Then also doing the things that you all should be doing as a partnership that is part of the house. But I think it's just a conversation you need to have, I also think you need to make sure that you have time for yourself because I'm sure you get totally lost in giving anything to yourself in the midst of kids and husband and all.
Speaker 2:
[12:20] Do small things to make yourself feel better about yourself, whatever that is. I know this is going to sound so stupid, but anytime I shave my legs and my crotch, I feel like a million bucks.
Speaker 3:
[12:30] Okay, so the advice here.
Speaker 2:
[12:34] Give yourself a full body shave, shave your legs and your crotch, and you will feel better. No, but what I'm giving that example for me, that makes me feel better when I do that. So it's like whatever that is for you, if it's getting your eyebrows done, if it's like getting a new perfume, if it's, I don't know, whatever it is. I feel like do little things that are gonna make you feel good about you all the while having these conversations and trying to offload.
Speaker 3:
[13:00] And I also think taking the pressure off of, obviously, you are in control of yourself and your body, but also knowing that he loves you and just wants, probably just wants to have physical intimacy with you. And he's not, you're thinking about your body, but he just wants you.
Speaker 2:
[13:20] Definitely.
Speaker 3:
[13:22] But we're rooting for you.
Speaker 2:
[13:23] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[13:24] But take care of yourself and love yourself.
Speaker 2:
[13:26] And ask your 14 year old to help around.
Speaker 3:
[13:28] Yeah, yeah. 14. 14 is a page where things can be helping.
Speaker 2:
[13:33] Have him do some laundry.
Speaker 3:
[13:33] I don't know about cooking, but laundry and some light chores are definitely doable.
Speaker 2:
[13:39] Making some beds, mopping some floors, squeegeeing some, what are those called? Showers.
Speaker 3:
[13:49] Yeah. All right. On to the next.
Speaker 4:
[13:52] Here we go on to the next. You know what? Actually, let's tease the next.
Speaker 3:
[13:56] Oh my God.
Speaker 4:
[13:56] Dilemma is working from home and continuing to work from home or going back to work in a really nice situation, but then having to have childcare. That's not provided by you. That's the dilemma coming up next. We're back.
Speaker 3:
[14:24] Nice.
Speaker 4:
[14:26] From Anonymous, I currently work remotely for a large company that offers lots of flexibility, which I know is a privilege, but I'm really unhappy. I don't enjoy my work, my team, my boss, or the company anymore. Recently, I was presented with an opportunity to smaller, well-established company, and I feel like everything's been, it's everything I've been missing. The culture seems great, the brand is strong, every interview has been amazing. I'm heading into the final round, and I can really see myself there. Catch is, I would need to be in the office four days a week. The commute is only 15 minutes, but I have two small kids. With this new job, they would need before and after school care, and I'm feeling a lot of guilt about that. Deep down, I really want this job, but I keep wondering if I'm being selfish for choosing my own happiness and career over being more available to my kids. Would love your thoughts, am I overthinking this, or is this just one of those tough seasons of life decisions?
Speaker 3:
[15:15] I think that a happy mom is the greatest thing you can give your kids.
Speaker 2:
[15:20] I agree, a happy mom is better than a hands-on mom.
Speaker 3:
[15:23] Yeah, I think you are in a place where you're miserable and you're staying miserable for the kids, but it's actually not benefiting them in the grand scheme of things, because you're miserable.
Speaker 2:
[15:35] There's this, I don't know if it's Emma Greed or Greedy. I think it's Greed, Emma Greed. She's been all over the press. This past week, she has a book out and she's like the co-founder or whatever, all these crazy like Skims, Good American. She's launched, she's boss, business woman. She's been getting a lot of heat because she said something about being like a three-hour mom because she's super focused on work, but she's like, when I'm with my kids, I'm super present and then when I'm at work, I'm super present. I feel like my biggest thing that you said here is you're feeling a lot of guilt and I feel like guilt is the worst thing to feel because you're not listening to your own, your own instinct is telling you one thing, but you feel like society or pressure is telling you something else or you're feeling guilty about it. I feel like you already said this, you see yourself there, your current job is making you miserable, and this job is everything that you want, but you're feeling guilty about it and I just feel like you need to lean into your intuition. I feel like you already know the answer. If you can find child care and this job is going to be better for you and make you happier, I think it's a slam dunk.
Speaker 3:
[16:50] What I would do if I was in your position just to give you peace of mind is try and find child care help that you feel really good about and start researching that to see if you can find somewhere that makes you feel good about your kids being in there and that way.
Speaker 2:
[17:07] If you don't, that's a sign.
Speaker 3:
[17:10] Yeah, if you don't find anywhere that you feel comfortable sending them to. But I also think the kids are going to be like, get to be with other kids and someone that you trust, and that's okay. This might just be a hard season and you might grow in the company and have more days where you can work from home and things might change in terms of what the schedule looks like or how much child care you need. But I think you staying unhappy just does them a disservice.
Speaker 2:
[17:35] 100 percent, because then you're going to be unhappy and bad mood.
Speaker 3:
[17:40] And then what kind of mom are you able to show up as? We have to give.
Speaker 2:
[17:43] Yeah. Do you think men feel guilty doing this? No. Respectfully.
Speaker 4:
[17:50] That's a good point, Tanya.
Speaker 2:
[17:52] Yeah, they don't.
Speaker 4:
[17:54] They don't and you shouldn't either. There are no studies that say that kids whose mom stays home all day are better than the kids whose mom works. That's not a thing. These kids are going to be fine. And honestly, who knows? At preschool care, after school care, they might make great friends. They might love it. They might thrive. You don't know.
Speaker 2:
[18:13] Yeah, there's no studies. Show me the studies.
Speaker 4:
[18:16] Show us.
Speaker 2:
[18:17] Show us.
Speaker 4:
[18:18] You hate these people you work with.
Speaker 3:
[18:21] Every single aspect of the job you hate.
Speaker 2:
[18:24] Except just that she gets to work from home.
Speaker 4:
[18:26] I'm really unhappy. Like she just lays it out there. When you say that, I mean, that's it.
Speaker 2:
[18:30] Yeah. The writing's on the wall.
Speaker 4:
[18:32] Next one. These are all anonymous. So just keep that in mind. We have a big international trip plan this May to celebrate our anniversary. After that, we're really excited to start trying to conceive. I turned 30 this year. My husband's in his mid-30s. Here's where we're stuck. We've been invited by family to go on a basically free trip to Ireland at the end of August 2027. What an opportunity, but the timing is tricky. I'd like to start trying soon and see what happens. Maybe we'd be able to bring the little one with us. But if things don't line up, it could mean pausing, trying to conceive for almost a year, trying to time everything precisely, and that feels stressful. I'd be open to trying again shortly before the trip and I'd be traveling early in pregnancy, but my husband doesn't like the idea of pausing, putting that kind of pressure on the timeline. I'm torn. What would you do in our situation? And Tanya, do you find it difficult to make future plans while in TTC mode?
Speaker 2:
[19:25] Yes, I do. No, but in all honesty, I feel like, and I was given this advice when we kind of started, because I too was doing these things, these calculations of like, okay, well, if we start here, then you could get pregnant then, and then you have this and da-da-da. Here's the thing, you never know how long it's going to take until you start trying and you just never know. So I think if you guys are ready to have kids and that's the phase of life that you're in, I think you start now and you buy refundable tickets for this trip at the end of 2027. And if you can't go, then you have the refundable tickets. Because basically what she was saying is, it's like an all expense, basically free. So just buy the tickets, get refundable tickets. And then I think my personal opinion is don't wait. Yeah, I know she's 30, but they're basically saying they're ready now.
Speaker 3:
[20:22] So it's like, yeah, you just can't base life. If you're wanting to have a baby, you cannot predict how long that will take. You have no control over that, essentially. So you can't pause life in the things that you want for. You just can't do that. You have to just live your life. And a free trip to Ireland sounds amazing.
Speaker 2:
[20:48] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[20:49] However, maybe you'll have a newborn baby, and that sounds amazing too.
Speaker 2:
[20:55] And also, what if you don't take the trip, say no thank you, because you're trying, and then you're trying, trying, trying, trying, trying, you're still not pregnant by then, and then you're going to really regret not going on that trip? Am I wrong?
Speaker 3:
[21:14] No, but my thought process is, I'm trying to figure out the math here, that if they started trying, if they got pregnant fast.
Speaker 2:
[21:23] Right, like one shot.
Speaker 3:
[21:24] Yeah, then you would have a baby no matter what. Like, you'd have a newborn at the very, right?
Speaker 2:
[21:32] Yeah, then they would be traveling with...
Speaker 3:
[21:34] Like a three month old.
Speaker 2:
[21:35] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[21:36] I'm like, can't do the math. My brain's like, not working. Anyways, I'm just saying, I would say if you're ready for that and you're ready to start trying, go for it. And I would say yes to the trip. And if they're able to get refundable tickets, awesome. And if they're not, then say, hey, and maybe y'all can do your own little trip somewhere. Maybe not a free trip to Ireland, but you can go away for that time or something.
Speaker 2:
[22:00] Yeah. I know it sounds like whatever they say, hindsight 2020, but we waited until after our honeymoon because I was like, I want to drink on our honeymoon and get drunk and have fun. And I kind of regret that. I'm like, why did we wait at all? You know, so.
Speaker 3:
[22:20] But I also, I'm kind of, if you're, she seems like she's willing to wait because it seems like she wants to go to Ireland.
Speaker 2:
[22:29] But her husband doesn't want to.
Speaker 3:
[22:30] Well, whose body is carrying the baby?
Speaker 2:
[22:32] Well, it takes two to tango.
Speaker 3:
[22:34] Yeah, well, she doesn't need to tango. It sounds like till after Ireland or right before Ireland.
Speaker 2:
[22:39] But he wants to tango.
Speaker 3:
[22:40] Well, he don't always get what he wants.
Speaker 2:
[22:42] Well, relationships are compromised.
Speaker 3:
[22:44] And she's willing to compromise and say, I'm willing to try right before we go to Ireland so that if anything, I'd be newly pregnant in Ireland. She's just saying, can we push when we start trying? Few months. So I've changed my mind, actually, now that I'm thinking about this.
Speaker 2:
[22:59] Oh, wow, full 360.
Speaker 3:
[23:00] I think that if you aren't opposed to waiting and you want to have one last big trip to Ireland for free before y'all have a baby, why not?
Speaker 2:
[23:09] Why not wait?
Speaker 3:
[23:10] Go for it.
Speaker 2:
[23:11] You're saying why not wait?
Speaker 3:
[23:12] Why not wait a year before you start trying again?
Speaker 2:
[23:15] And I'm saying don't. So pick your path.
Speaker 4:
[23:18] I'm with Tanya. Pull the goalie and let fate decide.
Speaker 2:
[23:21] Yeah.
Speaker 3:
[23:23] Okay, so the Dear Banya segment was briefed today because Tanya is feeling confident about another week of the birthday game.
Speaker 2:
[23:34] Give the girl one W.
Speaker 3:
[23:36] She's ready for more.
Speaker 2:
[23:37] She's ready for more. Let's go, baby.
Speaker 3:
[24:02] So, did you feel just like, what kind of high did you feel winning? How long did the high last from the birthday game?
Speaker 2:
[24:09] So, I don't do drugs, so I can't quite really give you a correlation, but I felt like I was high on something. Like, I was flying.
Speaker 3:
[24:19] Floating.
Speaker 2:
[24:20] Floating. Levitating.
Speaker 3:
[24:22] All right. Well, let's see if you can go round two.
Speaker 4:
[24:25] And there's another wild card in here as we have Easton.
Speaker 3:
[24:29] Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4:
[24:30] So, last time it was just one on one. Now, there's three competitors.
Speaker 3:
[24:33] That's right.
Speaker 4:
[24:33] And so, we'll see how it goes.
Speaker 2:
[24:35] It'll make the win sweeter.
Speaker 4:
[24:37] It'll make it that much sweeter. So, no high, low this week. It's just you each give a number. Whoever's closest is the winner. If you are equally close, whoever went over loses. Understood?
Speaker 2:
[24:47] Understood, understood. Thank you, thank you. Can you just be a little bit more aware of what age they're turning today? Because I've had some fake outs in the past that were really like daggers to my heart.
Speaker 4:
[24:57] No, I think I'm good on this one.
Speaker 2:
[24:59] Okay.
Speaker 4:
[24:59] Here we go. Today's birthdays, we'll start with those from today. Gigi Hadid has a birthday today. How old is Gigi Hadid today, Tanya?
Speaker 2:
[25:08] As the winner, I get to go first?
Speaker 3:
[25:09] Well, I think it's just order.
Speaker 4:
[25:11] I think you go left or right, just because that's where I'm sitting.
Speaker 3:
[25:13] But sure, yeah, yeah, yeah, winner, winner.
Speaker 2:
[25:15] I'm going to say 29.
Speaker 4:
[25:16] 29 for Gigi Hadid. Becca?
Speaker 3:
[25:19] 32.
Speaker 4:
[25:20] 32 and Easton?
Speaker 3:
[25:22] 31.
Speaker 4:
[25:23] 31 is the correct answer.
Speaker 2:
[25:26] He's 30 plus?
Speaker 4:
[25:29] Easton may have an advantage on this one because he's such a wrestling super fan. John Cena has a birthday today. John Cena.
Speaker 2:
[25:36] But it goes to Becca now, doesn't it?
Speaker 4:
[25:37] This is Becca going first, yes.
Speaker 3:
[25:39] I couldn't.
Speaker 4:
[25:39] He is the peacemaker on HBO Max. You know John Cena, don't you?
Speaker 3:
[25:43] I know him. I just, do I know his age?
Speaker 2:
[25:48] He could be 20, he could be 70. I have no idea.
Speaker 3:
[25:50] 54.
Speaker 4:
[25:51] 54, Easton.
Speaker 3:
[25:52] I think John Cena is 48 years old.
Speaker 4:
[25:54] 48, Tanya.
Speaker 2:
[25:55] 52.
Speaker 4:
[25:56] He is turning 49 today, Easton, off to a 2-0 lead. Tanya may have the advantage on this one because she had a little crush on him once upon a time. Dev Patel. Oh, wow. Dev Patel was, he had what Tanya was seeking at one point in her life. Easton, how old is Dev Patel today? Dev Patel. Dicted character actor, Dev Patel. Dev Patel is 39 years old. 39, Tanya.
Speaker 2:
[26:22] Are you Googling anything over there?
Speaker 4:
[26:25] This phone died.
Speaker 2:
[26:26] I am plugging it in to charge it.
Speaker 3:
[26:28] Would you say 39?
Speaker 4:
[26:29] I said 39. 39, Tanya.
Speaker 2:
[26:31] 45.
Speaker 4:
[26:32] 45, Becca.
Speaker 3:
[26:35] I'm going to go 40.
Speaker 4:
[26:37] I'm going to go 40. He is 36 and Easton has a 3-0 lead and is on the brink of victory already.
Speaker 2:
[26:44] He is 36? Dev Patel is younger than me?
Speaker 4:
[26:47] Yes, that's right.
Speaker 2:
[26:48] This is absolutely insane.
Speaker 4:
[26:51] All right, Tanya, back to you. You'll kick this one off. How old is America's sweetheart Kelly Clarkson? Everybody loves Kelly Clarkson. How old is Kelly Clarkson? Tomorrow actually, not today. How old is she turning? 45. 45, Becca?
Speaker 3:
[27:06] 41.
Speaker 4:
[27:06] 41, Easton. I think 43. Ooh, she is turning 44. And by the rules, Easton is the champ. This is the best day of my entire life. Wow, it's a clean sweep. Only one number could have done it for you there, Easton, because Tanya was only off by one, but Easton pulled it out. Very impressive. That was so sad.
Speaker 3:
[27:30] Are you okay? That was tough.
Speaker 4:
[27:32] All right, here we go. I have three more here.
Speaker 2:
[27:35] But we can't win.
Speaker 4:
[27:37] Here do you want them? Just you two for the second place.
Speaker 2:
[27:40] We're here for the second place. Second place is the first loser.
Speaker 3:
[27:43] She's not competitive, everyone.
Speaker 2:
[27:44] Please remember, pull the clips. Is there any other game we could play?
Speaker 3:
[27:49] I don't know.
Speaker 2:
[27:50] Let's do Rock, Paper, Scissors.
Speaker 4:
[27:51] Okay. For second place, we'll play Rock, Paper, Scissors.
Speaker 2:
[27:55] No kidding, we can keep going.
Speaker 4:
[27:56] Audio game. All right, I got a couple more names here. This weekend is a big birthday for Renee Zellweger. Renee Zellweger. Becca, you go first on Renee Zellweger.
Speaker 2:
[28:06] Oh.
Speaker 4:
[28:08] And then Tanya, you'll say higher or lower because it's just one on one.
Speaker 3:
[28:10] Renee is... Well, I'm gonna guess she is 48.
Speaker 4:
[28:16] 48, higher or lower.
Speaker 2:
[28:18] Higher.
Speaker 4:
[28:18] She is turning 57, as a matter of fact.
Speaker 2:
[28:21] I was gonna guess 60.
Speaker 3:
[28:22] Queen.
Speaker 4:
[28:23] Yeah, very flattering of you. Tanya, back to you. Channing Tatum. Birthday this weekend for Channing Tatum. How old is she turning?
Speaker 2:
[28:35] Channing Tatum.
Speaker 1:
[28:36] Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 2:
[28:37] 45.
Speaker 4:
[28:38] 45, Becca.
Speaker 2:
[28:39] My sweet talk.
Speaker 4:
[28:40] Higher or lower than 45? 46.
Speaker 3:
[28:43] Oh my God. The tongue shaking is so scary when you do that. I kind of need a slo-mo, but also don't want to ever see it.
Speaker 2:
[28:59] It will haunt you in your dreams at night.
Speaker 3:
[29:03] Congrats, Tanya.
Speaker 4:
[29:05] Way to go, everybody.
Speaker 3:
[29:06] Thank you all for coming.
Speaker 2:
[29:07] You went from the top to the bottom.
Speaker 3:
[29:10] Quick. Quick. Two weeks and she's out.
Speaker 2:
[29:12] Here's the thing about life.
Speaker 3:
[29:14] Life happens fast.
Speaker 2:
[29:15] Fast.
Speaker 3:
[29:15] Yeah. Well, we are leaving for today. And the thing is, if you ever have some dear Banya or game suggestions at this point, we'll take them. You can email us at scrubbinginatheheartmedia.com or-
Speaker 2:
[29:31] Yeah, please email us.
Speaker 3:
[29:33] Or DM us at scrubbinginpod on Instagram. Yeah. And we hope you all have a wonderful weekend. We love you so much. Bye. Bye.