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Speaker 4:
[01:35] Hey, welcome to Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or X, follow me at Strict Anonymous. If you want to be on the show, it's called Strictly Anonymous because I change everybody's voices and everyone's name. So if you have an interesting, naughty secret life or even just regular, not so naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, if you're out and proud, that's cool too. You can be on the show. I also look for like health related stories now. I have a sexual health Saturdays. So if you have any kind of interesting health story, I love stuff like that, health and fitness story, you could send me an email at strictlyanonymouspodcast.gmail.com or just go to my website strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on Be on the Show. If you have a naughty confession that you want to leave on my confessions hotline, you could do that 24-7. The number is 347-420-3579. That's 347-420-3579. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode and I talk about them. The rest of them all go up on my Patreon. My Patreon is a great place. Listen, if you're annoyed with these beginning intros and you don't want to hear F-ing ads and you want to see hot picks of all the females who have called into my show plus take part in all of the polls and questions and contests we have over on my Patreon, join my Patreon for just $7 a month. That's like super cheap. I also throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord. My Discord is great. We're having the annual dick pic contest coming up. So you want to join so you could take part in the infamous dick pic contest. Last year we did the dick pic contest. We got like 250 dick pics. Winner is going to get 300 bucks. So if you want to join that, you got to get into my Discord. I do throw in complimentary access to my private Discord. If you join my Patreon, like I said, it's just $7 a month and you could cancel it anytime or you could buy my book. I have a book. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. It's like 17 stories from my show told in the third person. They're quick, short stories. Think like Penthouse Forum Letters or Naughty True Stories. All in one book. If you get my book on Amazon or wherever you buy books, you could get it. Send me a screenshot of your order and I'll also give you complimentary access to my private Discord. My Discord is effing great. That's where you could go in and post your own stuff. My Discord is super fun. People get very naughty on there. We have lots of contests, tons of different channels with all kinds of content. But it is private and I only give links to either my guests. If you call into the show, you get a link to my Discord or get my book or join my Patreon. You get it from all that. Last thing I want to tell you about is, if you are looking to get into the lifestyle, the site I recommend to everybody is sdc.com. sdc.com is like the world's largest online adult dating site, but it's so much more than a dating site. It's more than a pickup place. You go on there, you're going to learn everything about the lifestyle. They have live events. They have educational stuff that you could learn on there. They also will tell you where all the gangbangs and bringer clubs and orgies and parties that are going on in your area and your neighborhood. Or if you're traveling, you could find out what's going on there too. That's what's great about SDC. It's like a one stop shop for the lifestyle. And if you use my code 37712, you're going to get a free trial. So you could check it out. So go to sdc.com, use code 37712, or just go to the description and click on the link. All the links, everything I told you about including my Patreon is in the description. So anyway, today I have on Fun Charlie, and she was fun to talk to. She's got a super interesting story. She's done a lot in a short time because really her entry into the lifestyle didn't start until COVID. She was in a long-term relationship. She was married and she got divorced, and then she started to do all the things that her and her guy talked about doing but never did. And she went up meeting a guy on a site and he got her into the lifestyle, and she got into BDSM, and she talks all about it. She talks about that first night, all the first that she did, threesomes, she got into couple swapping. She does call herself a unicorn. She did a lot of unicorning, if you call it that, in the lifestyle. She talks about all of it. She gives very specific hot stories. She talks about the things that happened while she's in the lifestyle that were great. She talks about the couples that she met. And she also talks about the things that weren't so great. She went into the lifestyle with, in a relationship, and that relationship didn't work out. And she talks about why it didn't. And she also talks about why being a unicorn sometimes can be lonely. I've heard that before. She explains that as well. She's in a new relationship now. We talk about that and who she's with is super interesting. But her whole story is fascinating. Eventually she wound up doing OnlyFans because she loves being in the lifestyle. She loves everything that she does. And so that was a natural fit for her and she's on there. She gives a shout out to her OnlyFans. You'll hear that in the episode and all of the information for her will be in the description. She's super hot. I have pics of her over on my Patreon, but all of her links, like I said, are in the description. You're going to love her story. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Fun Charlie. Hi, Fun Charlie. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today?

Speaker 5:
[07:04] I'm good. Thank you for having me.

Speaker 4:
[07:05] No, thanks for calling in. Listen, the way I met you, Fun Charlie, a little backstory which was funny, is I was taping with Doc Chocolate, who was recently on my show. He's got his own podcast. He's a content creator and we were about to tape, and then he starts talking about this chick that's over in the bed. I'm sure you guys just fucked or I don't know if you got done doing content or whatever, but that's how I met you. You were at Doc Chocolate's house in his bed when I spoke with him. I was like, why not come on my show? You are in the lifestyle. You're a unicorn. You're also a content creator too, which I think is cool. Why not? I'm assuming the lifestyle and being a unicorn and having all this kind of crazy sex we're going to talk about came before. And then you just decided to do content creating because that's what started to be the thing to do, right?

Speaker 5:
[07:57] Absolutely.

Speaker 4:
[07:57] Years ago. And so you did that. So let's we'll work up to that. You do have an OnlyFans, right? Is it Fun Charlie?

Speaker 5:
[08:04] It is Fun underscore Charlie underscore XXX.

Speaker 4:
[08:08] Okay, cool. We'll give a shout out again at the end. But anyone driving, don't worry about all the links and everything. It's going to be in the description, right? And like I said, we'll work up to how you started that and why. But let's go all the way back. I'm just going to call you Charlie right now. You're a unicorn, which means you're a female that likes hooking up with couples, how did you get in the lifestyle first? Did you become a unicorn first? I don't know what started first or where it started and when.

Speaker 5:
[08:34] The chicken or the egg? Yeah. So I was married for about 18 years and divorced and spent like four years on my own, trying to figure things out, settling things.

Speaker 4:
[08:45] Were you vanilla in your marriage?

Speaker 5:
[08:47] Yes, we were very vanilla. But when I left, it was kind of a weird thing. It was a toxic marriage. So after I left, all the things that he wanted me to be into, that I would have eventually gotten into myself, but it was more from a forced aspect, I all of a sudden became very interested in and into.

Speaker 4:
[09:11] Oh my God, you're like me, you're a contrarian. When he wanted you to do it, you're like, fuck you. But then when you're free to do it on your own, you're like, I'm going to try that.

Speaker 5:
[09:19] Exactly, exactly. I like that. Oh my God. There was like this feeling that he was asking me to do something, and then once I did that, he would try to see what else I would do. Each thing would be more degrading and more what he wanted, nothing what I wanted. Even me trying to figure out what I wanted, it wasn't going to get done because he wasn't into what I wanted, he was into what he wanted. And so I lived by myself during the pandemic, which gave me a lot of time on my hands. And I took a deep dive into kind of what I liked. I kind of went into the BDSM lifestyle because I already had spanking and choking and hair pulling and stuff like that. And I was like, okay, let me see if there's anything to that, if I'm just kind of a visitor, or do I like all that stuff kind of more hardcore? So I did, I took, there's a lot of tests. There's one really good one, bdsmtest.org. That's a very good, very thorough one. And it gave me a very good idea of what I liked, what I might try to get into and stuff like that. And that kind of led me to online forums. And I got into online dating a little bit. I was, I was trying to avoid that. I just was not into the apps and stuff, but I did get on one and I met someone. We met on OkCupid, OkCupid at the time. I've heard it's changed a little bit since then. But at the time, you could answer all these sex questions.

Speaker 4:
[10:52] Yeah, I remember that.

Speaker 5:
[10:53] Yeah, and connect with someone else who liked the same type of sex you did. And that's how I met my partner or my ex-partner. And I was complaining about my experiences with vanilla guys and and vanilla meaning not in the lifestyle.

Speaker 4:
[11:11] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[11:12] And he was like, well, you need to get into the lifestyle. And I'm like, well, what's that? He's like the swinging lifestyle. I was like, you mean key parties? And he's no, that's like 70s old stuff. And he's like, no, this is totally different. And he explained it. And I was like, OK, sign me up. You know, you've got people who understand that you want to have sex and it's fun. And there are rules and etiquette. And, you know, for the most part, people want to be safe with sex. And that's one of one of my big things with vanilla guys trying to get them to wear a condom is like, it's insane.

Speaker 4:
[11:46] That's what I always say, because a lot of times I get people making really sort of to me to be judgmental, rude comments to my people in the lifestyle, like, do they use condoms? I'm always like newsflash. No one uses fucking condoms and probably they use them more than the regular people. OK, because I fucked a lot of guys in my life. Most people, and I'm a hypochondriac, so I'm very into safe sex. I'm always like, that's the best partner to get another hypochondriac because those are the people that put it on, right? Everybody else doesn't want to fucking use a condom and they don't. OK, it's just the way that it is. So this guy though tells you like you ask about that and he tells you it's all good, like you have control over all of that and that was super important to you. So it was appealing to get into this. So what happened after he tells you about everything?

Speaker 5:
[12:34] So we meet and have a date and then we have a really great, like we were meeting as friends with benefits, neither one of us wanted a relationship, so he came down for a weekend and we had a great first weekend, and we played and it was just like, OK, awesome, this is great. After I would say a few weekends of that, a few maybe a month or two of him, because we lived a few hours apart, we accidentally met because I forgot to change the distance. So but he was like, hey, there's this lifestyle pool party, I'd love for you to go. And I'm like, OK, let's do it. I'm just going to jump in. And I'm so glad he came to pick me up because I think I would have taken out driving up there. But he came to get me. We had a really cool. It was a very it was a great first experience. The people were awesome. I got to do a lot of firsts. And before this, I did have some experience with nude nudists. So I wasn't totally afraid of being nude in front of people. And I wasn't weirded out by people being nude in front of me. I just had not seen sex in front of me. That wasn't me.

Speaker 4:
[13:46] What were the firsts that you encountered that night then? So being naked wasn't a first in front of people. But what was your first?

Speaker 5:
[13:53] Well, being naked in front of that many people was definitely a first. But I got to watch people fucking. I got to... we each other in front of people.

Speaker 4:
[14:06] Yeah, that's hot, right?

Speaker 5:
[14:07] We just didn't join in. Yeah, it was just like, okay, he's baby stepping me. We're doing this slow. But then that night, so we left a little earlier from that party than we normally would have because that was more of a play party, late night running party. But we had plans that night with another couple. But then the woman dropped out. So it was the three of us and I'm like, well, we can still have fun. And so I had my first MFM for three hours that night and had a blast. And so it was like the first day into the lifestyle was like a huge awesome beginning and I was like, sign me up this is this is amazing. And I think for a lot of people in the lifestyle, once you find it, it's like this is filling a huge void in my life that I didn't know was there. And now it's like I feel complete.

Speaker 4:
[15:01] Like I found my people.

Speaker 5:
[15:03] Yeah, yeah, it was definitely an awakening. It was for sure. And I grew up very strict Catholic family and it was very kind of pushed upon us that life doesn't start until you get married. And, you know, there was kind of an idea like you can be slutty, but you have to be that with your husband. And so I was on this like major quest to find my husband. Like do this, but, you know, that's not the only reason you want to get married. So that did not go well. But yeah, so finally, I'm getting to be...

Speaker 4:
[15:38] And your dumb, dumb husband. No, I'm sorry. But like your dumb, dumb husband didn't know how to cash in on that. He had like the best imagine like woman in front of him. If he only knew how to play you right. Like what not to do with a girl, because you were like down and ready and he just did everything to turn you off, right?

Speaker 5:
[15:57] So yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 4:
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Speaker 4:
[19:42] Now, I'm assuming because you're a unicorn that you'll hook up with women too. Was that like your first time doing that that first night or just you're like the two guys?

Speaker 5:
[19:49] No. So yeah, so that was my first time being actually. Yeah, it was my first time with two guys. I hadn't, I still had not at that point. I didn't know I was fully by then.

Speaker 6:
[20:00] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[20:01] And it took me another, I'd say almost a year in the lifestyle to really like, I had, I had, I think up to that point, I had played with women a little bit. Nothing more than kissing or whatever.

Speaker 4:
[20:17] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[20:17] And, but I don't know, I think most women, it's just if you are not sure and the goal is, okay, I'll know when I eat a pussy.

Speaker 6:
[20:28] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[20:28] When I go down to somebody, I'll know that'll be my telltale.

Speaker 4:
[20:33] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[20:33] And it's so daunting at first and it took me forever to get the courage up to do it. And then when I did it, it was with a friend and I was just like in the moment and I was just like, I'm going for it. And I was like, fuck yeah, I'm totally by and I'm really good at this and it was really fun. And so yeah, so since then it's been like, oh yes, this is the whole thing for me. And then that's when I started kind of pursuing couples.

Speaker 4:
[20:57] But let's go back to the guy experience. He did the two guys, that was the first time, right? And now did the guys do each other or was it? No, it's MFM, right? So no guy on guy action or anything like that.

Speaker 5:
[21:09] Yeah, it was MFM so they didn't touch each other. Now the guys I was with, they're fluid so that usually means that they're not opposed to dicks touching for the sake of DVP or DP and stuff like that.

Speaker 4:
[21:21] Did you do that with them?

Speaker 5:
[21:22] Not that night, but I did have anal for the first time. Willingly, not, I say willingly. I wasn't ever forced into anal, but it was coercive, you know, please do me a favor, begging anal, very reluctant anal. But this was the first time I had done it because I wanted to do it and I was like, fuck yes, I love anal. Yeah. So I was like, that was probably more than half of the night and blow jobs and spit roasted and just, that is my jam. Like I really love, I found that I really love being the only woman with two men. That's like some kind of a power trip situation, I think. But yeah, I really liked that dynamic and that was, I was like, hell yeah, let's do this. He was eager to set anything up for me that I was willing and wanting to do, of course, because-

Speaker 4:
[22:10] Oh yeah, he had the jackpot on OKCupid 2. Exactly. Right? So what happened after that? Did you and him just continue to play in the lifestyle together? Did you continue to hook up with him or did you go solo?

Speaker 5:
[22:22] So I lived two hours away for a little bit longer and he would hook me up occasionally with people that he knew closer to me. And it was kind of a cool dynamic. But then I moved closer to him and then we started dating and going to everything as couples. And I still worked, I still did my own thing as a unicorn separately, but we also did things as a couple and swapped and went to parties and stuff like that. And that was a lot of fun. It was, it was nice of a little bit of both worlds because I really like being a unicorn, but it does get lonely and the lifestyle is set up very well much for couples. So yeah, I do like the couple dynamic.

Speaker 4:
[23:09] Yeah, that's interesting because I remember having, I had a lot of unicorns on and then I had one on who spoke to the negatives about being a unicorn and how like sometimes couples because they're in the primary relationship, they don't really understand or take into consideration that unicorns feelings, right? She just brought up this whole other side of things that I was like, Oh, I couldn't, I would never even have thought of that. And I bet you the people that do that have, it's not their intention, but they don't even consider it. But when you hear it, you're like, Oh, why wouldn't we consider it? And you should consider it. People don't know how to fucking trade a unicorn.

Speaker 5:
[23:49] Yes. And that is really the problem when people are like, when unicorns and other people are like, don't say unicorn hunting, that is the basis for unicorn hunting. You're not caring about the, you're not seeing them as a person, you're seeing them as a sex toy. And we are people, and especially if we're single, you need to recognize that we don't have that other person to lean on. We don't have that other person to get our emotional needs met. So especially if you start trying to date a unicorn, it's that's a very uneven, it starts out uneven. So as long as that is considered and thought out, I think it can work really well, but a lot of couples don't think about that base. They only have their uses in mind. They only have their thoughts and their needs in mind. And they're not thinking, they're thinking, oh, we're in this and we get to fuck this couple. So everything is fine. But no, it's very emotional and you get, I pick my couples very carefully. And it's still, you still, you can't be totally 100% sure that negative things aren't going to happen. But I think being picky is the first course, first step to make sure that bad things aren't happening. But yeah, it's still gonna happen.

Speaker 4:
[25:10] Yeah, of course. And I think sometimes the best way to figure out what you do want is to figure, is to sort of experience what you don't, right? A lot of times that's just the way life happens, right? You can't sort of foresee everything ahead of you, right? But you know from experience, I'm assuming. So now, because you do say, you did say, I mean, you're not in a relationship, you weren't in a relationship at that time, but that guy was kind of like a partner for you, right? Like a booty call guy that you were sort of seeing sometimes that whole year while you were like doing all your stuff. When you became a unicorn, were you still seeing him?

Speaker 5:
[25:41] So yeah. So the first six months in the lifestyle, we were friends with benefits and he was hooking me up and kind of leading me through the lifestyle, but we were still not dating. Then we started dating, I would say six months into knowing each other and were together for about two and a half years and did a lot of stuff in the lifestyle. I learned a lot. I played on my own as a unicorn, but I also did a ton of couple of stuff. Which I think also gives me a good perspective as a unicorn. I can see the things that are happening between the couple. I've been there. I know what that feels like. I'm a little bit more able to be considerate of those feelings and stuff. But honestly, the couple really has to be very honest with the unicorn. Otherwise, things can go badly fast. Excuse me, fast, because if you're not giving a heads up that you are having an issue, if you got any jealousy problems, if it's been a problem in the past, the unicorn can treat you differently and will treat you differently, and check in a lot more if they know that you are apprehensive about this. It's either one of you. Please be honest. I'll just be honest and everybody can have fun. You're not going to ruin a fun time by telling someone that you maybe take this slow, that you're really going to have a bad time if you don't, and they go, oh, balls out. They've been in this for a while. They know what they're doing. Yeah.

Speaker 4:
[27:17] No, Charlie, these are all the things that can go wrong and do go wrong because people don't know this shit. You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 5:
[27:23] Yes.

Speaker 4:
[27:23] That's why I always think these stories are super important. Let me ask you a quick question though, because you did tell me, oh, I love the MFM stuff. That's kind of like my fave for some reason. You do love the couple swapping, but you do call yourself a unicorn. Why do you label yourself a unicorn? Is it because that's what you did when you were a content creator, or is there something about that?

Speaker 5:
[27:46] Well, yeah, it's tricky because certain people you ask will say that because if I'm in a relationship, which I am again now, but we do play separately, totally separately. So he still considers himself a bull. I still consider myself a unicorn, but we also play in the lifestyle as a couple. So it depends on what we're doing.

Speaker 4:
[28:09] Is Doc Chocolate your guy? I could edit that out. You could tell me that's your guy. He told me he's dating someone, but he couldn't tell me who it was or some shit like that. That's you.

Speaker 5:
[28:20] Yes, it is.

Speaker 4:
[28:22] Are you guys out and proud or do I have to edit this out?

Speaker 5:
[28:25] I'll ask. We were trying to figure that out and we weren't making any big announcements, but people are going to figure it out. Yes.

Speaker 4:
[28:33] So you're with him, he's a bull, and you consider yourself a unicorn because what you do solo mostly is like hook up with couples.

Speaker 5:
[28:40] Mostly. Now, yeah, and that's or I'll just go. I've gotten to the point where I will go to the clubs alone, but I know only because I know other unicorns and I know other people. But yeah, I go in and out. Sometimes I go through phases where I want to play with couples and I go through phases where I'm like, I don't know if I want to deal with that because there is an extra level of anxiety and trying to figure them out and not step on any toes and stuff. So yeah, we've been doing a couple thing lately. I haven't been doing many couples by myself lately. So I'm more in the couples mode at the moment.

Speaker 4:
[29:21] But that's your current partner now and we'll work up to him. But let's go back a little bit to the beginning. So you're with that guy, you date him for two years. Now the whole time while you guys were playing together, did you have the same kind of setup that you have now that like you guys played together, you played solo, right? That's how it went with him too?

Speaker 5:
[29:37] Yeah, so it started out as us playing together mostly. And then he, okay, so he wanted a lot more solo time. I was still, so this was also my first non-monogamous. I was very much into non-monogamy before him, but I had not actually had the experiences. So we were taking it slow on that course. But I did, I would say another year and a half, I would say after I figured out that I was totally bi, that's when I probably started venturing out into couple, into doing couples, not full blast, but I would occasionally, if I found a couple that I liked or somebody hit me up that I might be interested, then I would pursue them. But yeah, so it wasn't as open. I'm probably way, we're way more open than I've ever been, but it's also a different dynamic with the current person.

Speaker 4:
[30:34] Yeah, I get that. And now with that guy, because he played solo, you guys played together, I'm assuming, did you get off seeing him with other women? Did you realize, oh, that's like super hot to see him? Or was it kind of like it didn't matter? Or because I call that being a cuck queen, right? I don't think that you have to be like tied up to be like having a cuck thing going down. I just, girls, I sort of like seeing their guy fuck other girls. I call them cuck queens.

Speaker 5:
[30:58] Okay, I like it. No, so no, I did not start out that way. He was very much that way. But this was my first non-monogamy and my first situation where we're, where I'm having sex with my partner or in the same room as my partner, which is not necessarily a normal non-monogamy thing. It is definitely a swinger thing. So it did not start out that way. I was very nervous about seeing him.

Speaker 4:
[31:22] Of course, yeah.

Speaker 5:
[31:23] It was, it was scary, but I did get used to it. And I, I started to kind of, I'm very much, I can change, I can lessen something. And I think a lot of people can do this if they put their mind to it. But you can change something in your head if you just practice. If I just practice wanting to see him have sex with somebody else, I feel it's way more comfortable for me to watch him. Now, we had a lot of ups and downs that, and the communication wasn't there with us, so it was rocky and trust was broken. So it was a little, it was very different for me than him as far as me feeling comfortable watching him and watching him do solo stuff and expand that. Because it was like always, with him, it was more of a being, he always wanted more than I was able to give and I could never catch up.

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[35:05] So that was a tricky situation and there were so many good times and so many fun times. But as an overall dynamic, it's very difficult, especially when you meet somebody and you're trying to do lifestyle from the very beginning. I'm very jealous and very aware of how great a team people have when they're married to their person and then they come into the lifestyle. You've known that person for so long. You've got trust down to a T. You guys are teammates and as long as you guys are in a good relationship and you're just wanting to add some more spice, like it's like you guys have great sex and you just want to have great sex with other people and add this, then you are in the right place.

Speaker 4:
[35:52] So with that guy, did it end because of the... Would you say it ended because of your communication problems and stuff?

Speaker 5:
[36:00] Absolutely. We were not seeing eye to eye on communication and that was the biggest part of everything. I am someone who definitely, I need to talk things out to an extreme, so that I, and especially now. I've had all my experiences with him, so I'm a little raw and trying to heal all of those. Then I got into a new relationship and it's okay. Just a heads up, I'm broken on these things and while my brain wants these things, my emotions are a little crazy over these things, so be considerate and just have some patience with me because, but that's the thing is just like talking that stuff through.

Speaker 4:
[36:48] Over-talking.

Speaker 5:
[36:48] It's so freaking important. Yes, it's just so, so important and learning, also learning how to give your partner the reassurance that they need is huge.

Speaker 4:
[37:00] I always say a little reassurance goes so fucking far.

Speaker 5:
[37:04] So far.

Speaker 4:
[37:05] Why couples and people in relationships sometimes are so fucking stingy with that? It blows my mind, right? It's because it's like a game changer. Yet so many people don't want to, it's like a tit for tat or petty thing. I don't know why, but that little thing goes so fucking far. You would still be with your guy if you had gotten it, right? That's what he wasn't giving you. That's what you needed. You were probably telling him, communicating, and he wasn't giving you what you needed, which is reassurance that he's still there, everything's gonna be okay, and you should be allowed. And to me, and listen, just like these other guys that you're with, that other guy was just not well suited to be in a relationship with someone in a lifestyle. Maybe he's a great solo lifestyle guy, but- He is. Right, solo.

Speaker 5:
[37:51] That is very much, yes.

Speaker 4:
[37:52] But I know guys, plenty of guys, that are professional lifestyle people in a couple. There's so many guys that would, that are smart enough to know, to do all that. So I feel like you're just haven't met the right person, and hopefully the guy you're with now is that right person, but there's plenty of them out there. You know what I mean? And I think- Yes. Any guy would be stupid not to be that way, because when you get a girl like you or anyone, I always say this, like, why would you look a gift towards in the mouth? It really is, at the end of the day, in the lifestyle, it's a woman's world. I mean, you have to go, and she does kind of rule it, right? And when she doesn't, look, it doesn't work out, because I think the woman is more likely to maybe have some feelings, we're wired a little bit differently, when if you don't tend to that, it's not gonna be good, and it's gonna be your fault.

Speaker 5:
[38:41] Exactly, yes. And to that point, I've also ran into, so I'm on all these forums for lifestyle and stuff, and people write in, and I have seen so many, it's got there, the thing that I think a lot of women are afraid of, especially unicorns, it's like, you can get into a relationship where the guy is using you just to be as a couple, because it's hard for a single guy to get to function well in the lifestyle, so they latch on to women and it's, are you using me just to get other women or are you actually wanting to be with me and do this together? And that's a huge hurdle of trying to figure out sometimes when you do get with someone in the lifestyle.

Speaker 4:
[39:27] Oh, that's interesting. Yeah, I could see. Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[39:30] But yeah, there's a lot of guys that don't know what the hell they're doing.

Speaker 4:
[39:34] Yeah, with dum-dums, I call them dum-dums. So, okay, so now, okay, you've done, you eventually, like you said, did DVP, I know you did spit-roasting the first time. Have you ever done gangbangs? What are some of the things that you did over all those years of being in the lifestyle?

Speaker 5:
[39:50] In the lifestyle? Okay, so I've never done DVP. I've done DP multiple times, which I love that. But yeah, so I did, I really liked the group stuff. I really, so what I found is I, especially as a couple, I am very bad at meeting people from online and then go in person. I'm usually the last person to go, yes, I want to fuck these people. So I really hate the pressure. So if we got to a point where it's like, okay, if we want to meet a couple, we're going to invite them to either like a club or something to where there's other people they can fuck just in case it doesn't happen. Because I just, yeah, I'm really in person person. So if I haven't met you, if I haven't smelled you, I need to know what you smell and stuff. So that was something that I figured out. But I also do really like the spontaneous situations. I really do not like setting up play dates. For some reason, I like just for things to happen. And some of the best group things have happened in spontaneous situations. You cannot plan that shit out. And so yeah, I would say group stuff and to where there's like, I mean, there was one night where we went to a meet and greet and everybody ended up, it was like four couples, two unicorns ended up in someone's hotel room and we all fucked for hours. And it was like, you could not have set that up. You couldn't have, I mean, you may have, you maybe could have, but there would have been people canceling and get backing out and stuff. But when it's spontaneous like that, it's really hard to argue that that's not a better situation. But yeah, so some girl on girl stuff.

Speaker 4:
[41:34] Do you two solo girls, like just you and a girl or is it always typically with a couple?

Speaker 5:
[41:38] It's you, I would, we would end up with like unicorns and stuff, but there's always usually like I'm bi and I would say I'm on the, I would say 40 percent bi because I, there's usually a dick I need to end with a dick. Just like I need a dick in the mix. I haven't had girl on girl only experiences, but I've been and I don't know what you call it. It's not pegging when you get fucked by a girl on a woman. But yeah, I've done that a couple of times. It's okay. It's not my favorite thing, but we've done FFMs, MFMs. I have not done many. I've done like almost a partial MMF, which is hot too in its own aspect. Yeah.

Speaker 4:
[42:21] Are you into that? Because a lot of girls wind up seeing it. Because I've heard from a lot of women and some of them were like, they were never into it. Some of them were like, yeah, I was totally into that. I think it's hot. But some of them, even the ones who were like, I never looked at it or never thought that they would. When they actually saw it in real life, they were like, holy shit. It was like the biggest turn on. Like when you have seen it, did you get turned on?

Speaker 5:
[42:42] Yes, absolutely. Yeah. It's definitely a turn on. And I was like, oh, I didn't know I was going to be into that. But yeah, absolutely. Yeah.

Speaker 4:
[42:48] That's interesting.

Speaker 5:
[42:49] Yeah. You learn so many things that you're just, and God, with the lifestyle and especially crossed with BDSM, on a Monday, you could be like, oh, there's no way I'm going to be into that. And then by Friday, you're like, I might try that out.

Speaker 4:
[43:01] No way. I forgot about your whole BDSM angle. Are you a sub or a dom?

Speaker 5:
[43:06] Yeah. I'm a switch technically, but I am much more comfortable in the sub than the dom. When I dom, I do it and it's fun for five minutes, and then I run out of things to do and I'm like, I don't want to think anymore.

Speaker 4:
[43:21] Oh, my God. How far have you taken it as a sub?

Speaker 5:
[43:25] I have gone as far as looking for a dom for regular play stuff. I was not interested in the 24-hour lifestyle, giving up all. Yeah, that doesn't interest me.

Speaker 4:
[43:38] People don't understand there's a lot of mental stuff that goes down sometimes. In those relationships, that's what you mean, right? You didn't want to sign up for all of that.

Speaker 5:
[43:46] Yes. No. Mainly because I have not met one person that has presented it ethically to me. I have not met a man at least that has talked about or presented things and didn't show any red flags basically. So I was definitely not interested in any 24-hour all day every day. But I did dabble a few with my last partner. We did dabble with finding a couple of doms and played some and learned some stuff that I liked and didn't like. But yeah, so there's a weird mix there. I would say there's a good percentage of people that in the lifestyle that are into BDSM, but then there are definitely people that are split, that are absolutely don't want anything to do with it.

Speaker 4:
[44:34] Yeah, for sure. I mean, they typically tend to be two different places, right? Like even the meet and greet is for leg swingers and munches or meet and greets for BDSM people, right? I mean, it's kind of like two separate worlds. Because there's BDSM nights at a swinger party, right? But typically, they're not intertwined that much.

Speaker 5:
[44:52] No, I would say at a club more. Places like Secret's, that's where I frequented. They've got a dungeon and there are more BDSM people there, I would think, or that I have noticed than other parties and stuff like that. So I think it depends on where you're going to.

Speaker 4:
[45:10] How much pain are you into?

Speaker 5:
[45:13] I love, so I found out during the pandemic that being raised by an authoritarian is definitely a situation that can make a masochist and I've found that I am definitely a masochist and very confused at the beginning of how in the world I could be because I don't like all pain, but turns out masochists don't like all pain. They like specific types of pain and not all masochists like the same kind of pain and I'm very much a thuddy person. I like the impact. I can take that all day long. You can go pretty freaking hard on me with thuddy stuff, but if you do stingy stuff, I am a little baby.

Speaker 4:
[45:52] I can see how that there's a difference and you figured that out through trying stuff.

Speaker 5:
[45:57] Yes. Yeah. You just start trying and I honestly, during the pandemic, I did it on my own. I did it myself. I started, there's all kinds of kitchen utensils you can hit yourself with to see if you like stinging or thuddy.

Speaker 4:
[46:10] What's a thuddy versus a stinging?

Speaker 5:
[46:13] Thuddy is more like a flogger, heavy thud spanking, like a heavy spoon or as soon as you get hit, it's like a hard impact, it's more thuddy.

Speaker 4:
[46:33] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[46:33] If it is a light, I would say like whips and tiny devices.

Speaker 4:
[46:39] Stingy.

Speaker 5:
[46:39] Yeah, or more stingy. Those things are like, oh, that hurts immediately. I'm like, nope, I'm out, stop. But thuddy, I like it and I do it. There's some other medical reasons also, like I was in a car accident, so I've got fibromyalgia and I've got a lot of nerve issues, and there are a lot of people that get into blogging to help reset those nerve communications to your brain. Yes, yes, and it has, and it can really reset that, and it's very interesting.

Speaker 4:
[47:14] Yeah, that is super interesting, but it makes sense mechanically.

Speaker 5:
[47:17] It does.

Speaker 4:
[47:18] Really, if you think about it, right? Because nerves can always rejuvenate. Sometimes they just take really long and they need help sometimes, and that helps it.

Speaker 5:
[47:27] Exactly. There's a big discussion about fibro and how it is a miscommunication between those nerves and the brain. And so flogging, especially, there are people that may have it down to a specific, you flog me this way, this way, this way for five minutes, and this way you do it. And they've got it down to where they puts their fibro into recession or remission for weeks on end. And it's insane.

Speaker 4:
[47:51] Yeah, it's so fascinating. I could talk to you about that for an hour. I love medical stuff.

Speaker 5:
[47:55] You know, right?

Speaker 4:
[47:56] Let's go on. So, okay, so you break up with that guy. I mean, we're talking about a very short time here, as you even mentioned before, like, I still have that trauma and everything, because it's not like you're 10 years out of that relationship, you're still stuck on him. I mean, you only started in the pandemic, then met him, you were with him for two and a half years. When does the whole content creating and then meeting your new guy take place?

Speaker 5:
[48:17] Okay. So at the end of the last relationship, and I say trauma and it was traumatic, but we did have a lot of really good, actually still friends with him. We're still talking and friendly. He's like the first guy that brought me in the lifestyle. It's hard to end that without just saying goodbye and not staying with at least a friendship in that regard. But so yeah, I think you get to a point and you're like, I'm doing this and this is so much fun and I feel like I could do this for content. I already had an OnlyFans, but I wasn't showing my face. I was still trying to figure out if I could do it, if I was going to be good at it or whatever. Then my partner and I were still together and we went to a lifestyle meet and greet and met a couple and they were like, oh my God, we're doing this, it's working for us, we're making great money. Let's come to a dinner and we'll talk about it and whatever. We did and they were like, you've got to do this, you'd be great at it. They come to a shoot house, we've got a shoot coming this weekend, we run a shoot house, you don't have to do anything or you can shoot a couple of things and see how you do. That's what I did and they showed me the ropes a little and I took to it very well and was like immediately, yeah, this is freaking awesome, I want to get paid to do this. That started me, I mean, I started showing my face on Twitter and that was just in February.

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Speaker 5:
[50:24] Of this year, yeah. Of no way.

Speaker 4:
[50:25] But wait a second. I mean, that's like super loaded that you're going to show your face, right? Because all your friends might know. I don't know if you have another daytime gig. What was that decision like? Had you been out and proud about the fact that you were in the lifestyle before, or was like now you're revealing everything from nothing?

Speaker 5:
[50:43] So yeah, actually, yeah. So no, I didn't have, so I had a long history of illnesses and stuff. So I didn't have a ton of friends that I was like, vanilla friends that I was worried about. I did have a few family members that I was like, that may not be the greatest. But at this point, I, because of other health issues, I was having, I was having a hard time like working outside of my house on a regular basis and needed to work for myself. And then I was like, okay, but I can also do this and paying myself to take care of myself, which was my deal. I was like, yeah. And then they came along and I was like, okay. So I didn't have to worry about having a big career that could have been outed. I didn't have to worry.

Speaker 4:
[51:28] No kids, right?

Speaker 5:
[51:28] I didn't have kids. Okay. No kids. So I didn't have to worry about that. I had a family member or two, but it was like, I got to do what I got to do and I got to make money. So I'm going to just, I just did it. I was just like, screw it. I've done it for a year with no face. It was kind of working for me, but not really. And then that happened and it was like, okay, I'm going to do this. And I did it. And within a month after my face was on Twitter, my pussy was out on Twitter and everything else was like, I am out there. And there's, there is definitely a freedom that comes with that. It's what is someone, no one can do anything to me now.

Speaker 3:
[52:07] What are they going to do?

Speaker 5:
[52:08] Put me out, put me up naked on, I've been doing way more worse things than being naked on the Internet. So at this point, I feel very, it feels very invincible to a point and free. Yeah.

Speaker 3:
[52:20] Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[52:20] It was very neat. So yeah, as soon as it, I started doing that and they kept showing me a little bit and a little bit. And I was like, oh my God, this is great. It's working. And there's so much more marketing and I have a graphic design background. So I was using all of my schooling and stuff. But that's what I find actually, it's so there everyone has school. Most of the people I run into have some kind of schooling that they are using. They're like, they come from a marketing background, design background, business background. It's like all over the place, but everybody's using the knowledge that they have. And the people that are doing well with it.

Speaker 4:
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Speaker 5:
[53:16] 90% of it is.

Speaker 4:
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Speaker 5:
[54:03] Yes, exactly. It's an insane amount of work. Yeah, I still wasn't doing, and it's overwhelming too because there's so much information online and stuff and that's actually, so I was with them for about a month or so and then there was this Telegram group that I was trying to get into because there's a lot of creators swapping tips and stuff and I got into that and I hit up the guy that runs it and we got to talking and he's got a podcast and so he's, be my podcast, you're in the lifestyle, this is perfect. I was like great and then we did the podcast and hit it off really well and he was like, let's do a Zoom date and I was like, I didn't know people did that still. Okay. So we both had our glasses of alcohol and we just chatted for four hours and the first night and we did a couple more times and he was just very open and we had a lot of similar experiences with the lifestyle and what went wrong in our last relationships with the lifestyle and we had a very clear picture of what we wanted in the future and that was very similar. I still was adamant because I had just gotten out of a relationship not too long before and I was like, I am not falling for this person and I am not getting a relationship. But yeah, he was awesome and won me over, so now we're dating. But we have done a couple lifestyle things already and it has been a completely different experience.

Speaker 4:
[55:43] But do you like him yet? That's what I was going to say. So you already have feelings for him and I don't know really the timeline, how long you've been with him. But with this guy, it's different in that even though you have serious feelings for him, you're seeing him doing stuff and you're cool with it. It's all good.

Speaker 5:
[56:02] I am so much. It's a totally different thing when you've got open communication from the very beginning and he's been very clear about, he is with me and I come first and he backs it up and it's not just talk. It's that's what has happened. If I have an issue or if he has an issue, we're able to bring it up and resolve it within a few minutes instead of blowing up and fights and all this stuff.

Speaker 4:
[56:31] Listen, I think the difference between your guy now and your other guy is he was a guy, like you said, he had been in the lifestyle in a relationship. Right? And you had to the other guy was always a solo guy, right? And that's why this guy is more considerate. You know what I mean? I think he's that's the kind of guy you want to be with, like he's already navigated, right? The lifestyle as in a relationship, he's not like a single guy in there.

Speaker 5:
[56:55] Well, the other guy was also in a relationship, but you know, it didn't, yeah. And I guarantee you it probably ended the same, for the same reasons because the communication issue. And unfortunately, it's probably going to be that way for most of his relationships. But yes, it is definitely. And the thing about, and I just, we're recording, right?

Speaker 4:
[57:18] Yeah, but I could add it out if you want to say something.

Speaker 5:
[57:21] Oh, Doc's cool with leaving in the part. We didn't want anyone to know until we knew we were good as far as if we're going to be in the relationship for good or if we announce it and then a week later, we're like, oh, we're not going to be together. And it was embarrassing. It's okay to leave it in. Yeah.

Speaker 4:
[57:37] All right. But let me just add, like, all right, because we're going to wrap it up anyway in five or 10 minutes. But let me just say something that brings that back since now that I know. So, okay, I think it's different because, listen, I know who you're with, right? We were going to edit it out of the podcast, but you were told you could leave it in. So we left it in the part where we added. It is Doc Chocolate and I know because I just interviewed him that he was in the lifestyle before with a partner. That's how he started. So he's like a professional. More probably more knows the lifestyle with a partner than not. Because so I think you're in good hands now.

Speaker 5:
[58:11] Yeah, no. And actually he was with his partner, but they didn't play together. And so he had a different dynamic, but he did have other partners that he played with at parties, that he'd go to parties with. Yes, and I think he's also seen a lot of other situations that didn't work and why they didn't work and stuff. And yes, very considerate and very communicative. And that was the biggest thing, the communication. And being able to talk about your feelings and stuff, that's huge. You gotta be aware of how you're feeling about stuff so we can work it out.

Speaker 4:
[58:43] And Quince, listen, it sounds like you navigated for some time solo. Do you prefer being in a relationship in the lifestyle?

Speaker 5:
[58:53] I do. I get lonely as a unicorn. But also, I have also realized that if I have a night of really intense sex, the next day, I really need to have a person to be touching and to get that. I'm very much a touchy person. And if I don't have somebody the next day, I drop badly. And I've found some things to mitigate that. But I definitely, I really like the teamwork and the going in as a team and having like a social, a person that is my social buffer.

Speaker 4:
[59:29] Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5:
[59:30] I'm not a big social person. So going to a party and having somebody who's very extroverted and able to do a lot of the talking for me is huge.

Speaker 4:
[59:40] Yeah, no, I love that. I didn't know when he's like, oh, I got this girl here. I just thought it was like, maybe you guys just filmed a scene, but you know. Yeah, it started that way. Yeah, I feel like I could talk to you for another hour and get so much information. I'll probably have you back on when we talk just like about unicorns and navigating the lifestyle. I'll do girl talk episodes. But why don't you do me a favor and give like a shout out to all your stuff again, so people could find you and just to tell people what they see and get on your OnlyFans.

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[60:07] Thank you. Yeah, so my OnlyFans is Fun, underscore Charlie, underscore XXX. And at this point, you get a video a day. And I usually release like one full length collab a week. Sometimes it's a couple, sometimes, but mostly it's like once a week. And then I also am checking in and post pictures and random stuff. And then my Twitter and Instagram are both FunCharlie420. And then I also have funcharlie.com that you can find all of those links also.

Speaker 4:
[60:41] Great. So send me whatever you want me to put in the description, right? So people can find you. And thanks so much for calling in. And if you can, for my Patreon, if you could send me like hot pics for my Patreon. I love that you're out and proud. Definitely. You don't have to be anonymous, right? Because you're not anonymous.

Speaker 5:
[60:57] For sure.

Speaker 4:
[60:58] But for my Patreon, like nothing x-rated, right? So like, if you send me topless, I put something over.

Speaker 5:
[61:02] Safe for work and sexy.

Speaker 4:
[61:03] Kind of, but yeah, hot ones. And then I'll also give you free access if you want to my Discord. I have over 2,500 people on my Patreon. And then those people are also on my Discord. So you could also go on there. I'll give you free access. You could get in for free. And when your episode airs, I'll let you know you could go in and you could put like clips and stuff in your OnlyFans. Like what's great about Discord is you could upload whatever you want over there. So you could do like a video or you could post like more hardcore stuff. And then you could put your OnlyFans link in your profile and people could go. So I don't mind you doing that for coming on my show. But send me the pics though for me as soon as possible so I have them. I hoard my girl episodes because I never blow my load with my female episodes. I release one a week on Mondays. So you'll be on a Monday. I don't know when but you'll be on soon. Girl episodes always make it up. But I'll let you know when it's going to go up. But send me those pics as soon as you can so at least I know I have them. Okay. All right. Awesome. Thanks so much. And I'll have you back on in the future for Girl Talk episode. I feel like we could talk about some topics. Absolutely.

Speaker 5:
[62:10] Thank you so much. It was great.

Speaker 4:
[62:11] No, you were fun. Thanks Fun Charlie for calling in.

Speaker 5:
[62:15] Thanks for having me. Talk to you later.

Speaker 4:
[62:16] Bye.

Speaker 5:
[62:17] Bye-bye.

Speaker 4:
[62:18] Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available, not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out till August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. There's a hot wife story, there's a cuck queen story, there's a cuck story, there's a gang bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories, and they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person, and I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse Letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them, they're really short chapters, easy read. You could read one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in e-back format, paperback format. And finally, the audio book is available. Coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you'd get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you could win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total Strictly Anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you gotta do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictlyanonymouspodcasts.gmail.com. That's strictlyanonymouspodcasts.gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.

Speaker 3:
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Speaker 4:
[65:05] Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out till August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. There's a hot wife story, there's a cuck queen story, there's a cuck story, there's a gang bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories and they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person, and I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse Letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them, they're really short chapters, easy read. You could read one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in e-back format, paperback format, and finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you could win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total Strictly Anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audio book, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictlyanonymouspodcasts.gmail.com. That's strictlyanonymouspodcasts.gmail.com, and I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.