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Speaker 1:
[00:10] What's good, everybody? Welcome back to Talk With Flee. Another week, another dollar. We appreciate you guys for tuning in. You know, my man Sins in the Building, P.T.'s here today, my man Larry. We got a lot of things to get to, but I just want to start the show with saying a couple things. Well, really one thing before I bring everybody else in. Now, I'm sitting out here tonight, and Kevin Hart just walked past, and I sat there with Kevin Hart and we talked for about three, four minutes. And I said, Kev, could you come in and do the show? Just give me a minute. He said, absolutely not. I said, Kev, I just need one question. He said, no, no, I'm not doing it, Cam. I know what's going on. You think I don't see what's going on. This is the most dangerous show in the world that you got going on right now. You think you're gonna get me in there and ask me how I feel about Kanye sucking dick? No, I've seen it, Cam. No, absolutely not. I'm not walking in there. And this is the most dangerous show in the world, man. So I wish I would walk in there so you can ask me some shit like that. Absolutely not. We'll schedule it the right way. You know I love you. But no, I see what you got going on. I'm proud of you. But I will not walk in there and I had to respect it. I couldn't do nothing else but respect it. I said, yeah, that may be one of the questions that I asked you. He's correct. He asked, no, I didn't. That's a who know a. So shout out to my, Kevin Hart, man, because I didn't look at it like that. From the outside looking in, shit is wild up here, man. It's kind of wild up here, man. But we just be in ourself at the same time. What's going on, fellas? Everybody ice in. What's good, man? What's up? What's up, man? Everything good, man. I can't complain, man. I want to start the show off the day before we get to sin acts and some punches.

Speaker 2:
[02:14] Speaking of the devil, Kevin Hart.

Speaker 3:
[02:16] Come on in here, Kev.

Speaker 1:
[02:18] Kev, come in here.

Speaker 2:
[02:19] One question.

Speaker 1:
[02:20] Just one question. Kev, please. Please. Just one question.

Speaker 2:
[02:23] Please.

Speaker 1:
[02:24] Kev, please. I just need one question. One question. One question. He's coming in. He's coming in. One question. One question. Get him in here. Open that damn door. Open that damn door. Open the door. Open the door. Get Kevin in here, man. We just was talking about Kev. PT is up. PT is up. Just one question, Kev. It's just one question, Kev. I appreciate it. Thank you. It's one question. I already, I did the intro. Don't up my kev.

Speaker 3:
[02:54] No, no.

Speaker 1:
[02:55] Let Kev sit up here. No, no. Don't. All right. We got to get a mic. We got to get you a mic. You can sit there. The mic's over here. One question. One question. We got to get you one question. One question. Let me think. I wasn't prepared for this. We got to get Kev one question. You get one, Cam. We get one question. We get one question. Can I get two? I'll push it. All right. Because I want to ask you something. I didn't like what you did to my man when you said, damn.

Speaker 4:
[03:22] Okay.

Speaker 1:
[03:23] Why would you do that to him when he set his age and you say, damn?

Speaker 4:
[03:27] It's a real reaction.

Speaker 1:
[03:28] It wasn't real. Kev, I know you.

Speaker 4:
[03:30] You know, I'm shocked at the age of some. And, you know, Don definitely looked his age. I wasn't ready to hear it.

Speaker 1:
[03:39] Okay.

Speaker 4:
[03:40] Right. So that was just a real reaction.

Speaker 1:
[03:41] Okay.

Speaker 4:
[03:42] Damn. Right. But then I immediately retracted it.

Speaker 1:
[03:44] Right.

Speaker 4:
[03:45] Which made it right. Okay. One more.

Speaker 1:
[03:46] Right.

Speaker 4:
[03:47] By the way, this is great.

Speaker 1:
[03:49] This is absolutely. And listen, I appreciate it. You know what's crazy, Kev? And I'm not going to ask you this question, but I'm doing the intro to my show and I was explaining to the people and I said, I was just talking to Kev and he said, I know what's going on. I'm not walking in there. I just said this. I said, he said, I'm very aware of what you asked on the show, so I'm going to be mindful. I'm going to ask a real question on behalf of both of us. Okay. Your very first movie you did, I was actually in it. When you see Dame Dash today, what do you think? Yo, yo, yo. Yo, yo. Yo, yo, yo. Yo, yo, yo. Yo, what's up? Yo, Killa, love you too, bro. Love you guys, man.

Speaker 2:
[04:31] Love you guys, man.

Speaker 1:
[04:33] Love you guys, man. Appreciate you. Yo, that was a real question. Well, you see. We love it, we love it. Damn.

Speaker 2:
[04:56] And that wasn't planned.

Speaker 1:
[04:58] That was a real question. We tried to because we did our first movie together, Paper Soldiers. You know, it was me and Kevin. His first movie. I was my first, my second movie. I did. I don't know. I thought it was legit question. I thought, all right, question. We did the first movie together. That's a fair question, guys, right? I wasn't crazy.

Speaker 2:
[05:29] That was a really good question.

Speaker 1:
[05:30] Very good question, man. And it wasn't no slight neither, you know, because you know who's going to go off. Well, fuck both of y'all. both of y'all, Lord. And if it wasn't for me, just out there, when Kevin dissed it. No, I just want to, it was genuine for me. It was genuine. It was genuine. I guess we'll move on. It's the most dangerous show in the world, I guess. I don't know, man. Oh, man, shout out to my, Kev Hart. First of all, jokes aside, even though I wasn't joking, I just want to say, realistically, watching him, and it's really the truth, I've seen him do his first movie, and the grind, the grind that he puts in. Because we take advantage of people's grind, right? When you sit there and you see LeBron James hit a game when he shot, Steph Curry hit a game when he shot, or Jalen Hurst threw a touchdown, or Patrick Mahomes won a Super Bowl. We just see what goes on at the moment. You don't know the hours that go in to somebody perfecting their craft. And Kevin puts the hours in. He has a great team with him. His team was here as well. They just walked in with him. But when you see him knockout movie after movie after movie, you don't know the nights that he doesn't get a lot of rest. You don't know when he has to go to bed at 11, 12 o'clock, and then has to get up at 6 a.m. to shoot. And then you see him knockout movies with The Rock. You see him knockout movies with Ice Cube. You see him knockout movies starring himself and do stand-up, selling our mouths at Square Garden. So I just want to salute him, because the grind a lot of time goes unnoticed from a lot of people. We just see the product, the finished product. We see the fried chicken. Once it's there, they eat fried chicken. You don't know you got to kill the chicken, pluck the feathers, clean the motherfucker, hope it ain't got salmonella in the mother. It's a lot that goes into it. So salute to my, Kevin Hart, because it's grinded the last however many years. It's probably over 20 now, we're going on 20, that he's been killing it out there. Congratulations to him. Moving on, man. So I wanted to get you guys' opinion. We kind of talked about this on the days we did a shout out to my brother, Mace. Anthony Edwards has a situation going on right now where he gave his girlfriend, or pardon me, not his girlfriend, his child's mother a million dollars. To buy her out for the whole child support. He didn't want nothing to do with the child. He wanted nothing to do with her. He bought her out for a million. She said, cool. And now she's trying to come back to get more money. I have my opinion. I'll give you guys my opinion first. What I said on It Is What It Is was like, look, I thought that he killed it. He's make $60 million a year between endorsements, and not even all his endorsements, between Adidas and the NBA. And $60 million a year for the next five years, so he's going to make $300 million minimum in the next five years. To get somebody for a million dollars, you can't beat that. You can't beat it. It's the dollar menu. You know, it's dollar tree. It's, you can't beat that. I want to know what you guys thought. Do you think that he got over easy? Or do you think that he should pay more? Or do you think a deal is a deal? We'll start with you, PT. What do you think? A deal is a deal, or do you think he should be paying more?

Speaker 4:
[09:14] I think a deal is a deal. I think she wants to more because she wants to live the lifestyle. If he paid the upfront for the child and she took the one million for the baby, the million's for the baby, not for you.

Speaker 1:
[09:31] Right, so we did the math on it. Larry did it, actually. That equals out to $55,000 a year for the next 18 years? What do you think about it?

Speaker 2:
[09:41] Hey, listen, she signed the contract, she signed the agreement, that's it, butter. 50 said have a baby by me girl, be a millionaire. He pay ahead of time. Once you sign that agreement, it's over. You can't come back and get more. You know what I'm saying? I think what she realized is the number probably sounded good, the attorney told her a million. And then when she started doing the math, you realize it's only $55,000 a year. It's not a lot of mean, it is. But if you're taking care of everybody, and who knows if she got other kids, we don't know what's going on.

Speaker 1:
[10:15] But he's only responsible for it.

Speaker 2:
[10:16] I know that. But I know that.

Speaker 1:
[10:18] But she has another baby with the rapper.

Speaker 2:
[10:20] Oh, well, yeah. But I don't know. Listen, no disrespect to any rappers out there. But I don't know what rappers...

Speaker 1:
[10:26] Let them ladies in. I want to ask their opinion. Church, let the ladies in.

Speaker 2:
[10:29] I don't know what rappers are getting.

Speaker 1:
[10:30] Let them ladies in, because I told them I want to ask them opinion. Come here for a minute. Come in for a minute. Yeah, come in. I want to ask you guys opinion. Yeah, come in. I just wanted to get your opinion. Where are you from?

Speaker 5:
[10:39] Chicago.

Speaker 1:
[10:40] Okay.

Speaker 5:
[10:40] That's him.

Speaker 1:
[10:41] I used to live in Chicago for a minute.

Speaker 5:
[10:42] I'm on the west side of Chicago.

Speaker 1:
[10:46] I live by Wrigley, but I used to say when she speaks to the west side of Chicago, I used to be on Van Buren and Pulaski. I used to be in K-Town a lot.

Speaker 6:
[10:54] I'm from the South Side.

Speaker 1:
[10:56] I used to be in the hundreds too. I was there when the projects was there though. I was there for a while. You know Anthony Edwards?

Speaker 6:
[11:04] The basketball player.

Speaker 1:
[11:05] Yeah. Are you familiar? Bring the mic closer to you. Are you all familiar with his situation?

Speaker 6:
[11:12] Which one?

Speaker 5:
[11:13] With him?

Speaker 1:
[11:14] I'm going to break it down to you. I'm going to ask y'all guys. So he had a female pregnant.

Speaker 5:
[11:21] Okay. I know he's on that.

Speaker 1:
[11:23] Okay. Right. So anyway, he said he didn't want Nathan to do a heart or the baby. Gave the girl a million dollars up front and said, here's your million dollars. She took it. She was cool with it. He makes 50, 60, probably makes 60 million a year. He's going to make 300 million dollars the next five years. He's going to be the first player probably in six years to make a million dollars a game. It's 82 games in a year. That's outside endorsements. Probably in the next six, seven years, he's going to make a million dollars a game. She's now mad. First of all, she's from Atlanta, from Georgia. Tried to move to California because California is a higher price on child support. And she's trying to get more money because she probably spent some of the money. Do you think that that's fair, the million dollars that she got that she agreed to? Or do you think he should give up more money being that he makes that much money? We'll start with you. What's your name again?

Speaker 5:
[12:18] Jenny.

Speaker 1:
[12:19] Jenny, what's your opinion on that?

Speaker 5:
[12:20] So my opinion on that is, I do think that it's messed up because she shouldn't have signed up for that. Like you shouldn't have took the money and said you were okay with that, especially because you already knew what it was. You knew his potential. You knew what was going on. You know what industry he is. You know he plays sports. So my thing is, you should have never took it if that was what you wanted to do. Because obviously, this is what you got into it for. I know who you're talking about. So I feel like this is what you do to show MO. So if that's what it is and this is what you wanted, why would you take the money in the first place? That was chump change. Like so, honestly, yeah, you played yourself.

Speaker 6:
[13:07] Yes, she did.

Speaker 5:
[13:08] I mean, because the contract is a contract, right? So it's a contract. You signed it and you said, I'm okay with that. I would have never accepted it.

Speaker 1:
[13:18] But do you think, yeah, these are like common sense. Do you think that he should give more money even though she signed the contract or you think that's your problem for something?

Speaker 5:
[13:27] I mean, what we're talking about, so we're talking about, like, I can't say what, I mean, I could say what I think, but I just kind of feel like he can if he wants to, but I mean-

Speaker 1:
[13:37] But he's fighting it. He's not, he's-

Speaker 5:
[13:40] He don't want to.

Speaker 1:
[13:40] Right, but do you-

Speaker 5:
[13:41] Yeah, I mean-

Speaker 1:
[13:42] What do you think?

Speaker 6:
[13:44] Y'all want to hear my opinion? Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5:
[13:46] I don't think-

Speaker 1:
[13:46] Yeah, well, let me hear your opinion.

Speaker 6:
[13:48] My opinion is, you knew what you signed up for when you had a baby with this man. We got options as women. Like, it's either I'm going to have a baby because I want to come up, or I'm going to abort the baby, and I don't want nothing to do with you. So I really felt like when she took the million dollars, that was you saying, like, okay, I'm gonna have a baby for a million dollars. Now, if they were in a relationship, and then I'm not that young lady, because I do understand I'm man, it could be a different side of the story. He could have really told this woman, like, you know, we could be a family, things change, and then went left. And you can settle for this. And she was like, maybe like, okay, you know, and took the million dollars, and she changed her mind, like, no, that's not enough, because she and her feelings, right? So as adults, and as a woman, I got a choice. So I really feel that it's two sides of the story, but when you signed that contract, you took that plea.

Speaker 5:
[14:45] That's a contract.

Speaker 6:
[14:46] That's a contract, and I really feel like that was a deal. So if I decided that, you know, I'm gonna sign a deal with you, and I signed my name, so this is all I get. But like you said, I would have never took that deal.

Speaker 5:
[15:01] I think that when women get out here on the prowl, and this is what you said you're gonna do, if it's a job, and it's your career, you got to educate yourself on what you're doing.

Speaker 6:
[15:11] And honestly, having a baby is not worth a million dollars. That's a lifetime thing though. So a million dollars, you can't get me to...

Speaker 5:
[15:18] If you want to have a baby, you want to have a baby, you want to raise your child. And most of the time, in a regular world, in a regular setting, without nobody in the industry with money, we as mothers say, I'm gonna have this baby, and I'm gonna do what I got to do regardless. And you just get out here, you do what you got to do. If he show up, he show up. Yeah, you want him to, but if he don't, it's what they say, mama's baby, daddy's maybe, right? So it's just different when you get with the industry, and you're doing all this stuff, but it's like, that's not realistic. That's not reality, and that's she living reality. Living in the real world.

Speaker 6:
[15:51] It's really bigger than what she saw at million dollars.

Speaker 5:
[15:54] It's not social media, it's real life. So you gotta get out here and just grind it out. You got a million dollars, most mamas don't even get that.

Speaker 6:
[16:00] I mean, a million dollars is a lot of money when you never made it before. Think about it.

Speaker 5:
[16:03] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[16:04] We did the math for it. If you're doing 18 years, it's $55,000 a year. But I wanna go back to something that you said, and you said, if this year, MO. Is this her MO? Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 5:
[16:17] I'm saying, yeah. I don't know her personally, but I'm just saying, and I can't judge nobody from social media, but I'm just saying my perspective and a lot of certain women.

Speaker 1:
[16:27] Why would you say this is her MO? Is this what she does? When you say this, yeah, MO.

Speaker 5:
[16:32] No, what I'm saying is I think that some women get out here on the search and this is what they do. They literally get up like it's a job and say, I am going to clock me a ball player, this or that. And then you're not ready for what come with that. What comes with that is that he could just tell you, I'm done, he could leave you, you're going to be on social media, it's going to be public.

Speaker 6:
[16:53] I was going to say, it's public information, yeah.

Speaker 5:
[16:55] He's going to fight you for it, he's going to make you sign a contract, he's going to pay you off. That's what comes with it. And he did not wife you. I don't think that that's what was the case with that situation.

Speaker 6:
[17:04] I just really feel as immature to choose money. Like, I don't get it. A baby is like a lifetime responsibility. Like, and she looking at it as a perspective as a mother, right? I'm not a mother, I don't have children yet, but I really feel like when I have kids, I'm not having no kids for no million dollars. That is a lifetime deal. And some people make a million dollars in a month. Some people make a million dollars in a year. I'm not signing up for that. I wouldn't, so, like she say, I agree with her.

Speaker 5:
[17:39] Your child don't know a father. You have nobody to say, oh, your daddy this, this is father, daughter this. Like you literally gotta go find you a place, step daddy or whatever. And you gotta hope you get that. And then he show up or adopt your child or whatever. So is it really worth it? Cause that now you inflict some type of trauma on your child.

Speaker 6:
[17:59] Absolutely.

Speaker 5:
[18:00] So is it worth that?

Speaker 1:
[18:01] Right.

Speaker 5:
[18:02] Just for some money?

Speaker 6:
[18:03] Yeah, no.

Speaker 5:
[18:04] You had a whole human life?

Speaker 1:
[18:06] And you know what? This is why I moved to Chicago. Cause y'all are beautiful and y'all have fucking the right common sense. Cause people don't be having common sense.

Speaker 5:
[18:19] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[18:19] And sometimes, you know, and I love my ladies audience, but sometimes girls just stick together just to be sticking together whether the girls is right or wrong.

Speaker 6:
[18:26] I'm not talking about friends.

Speaker 1:
[18:27] Yeah, there you go. And they be like, yo, where's the common sense? It's like this nigga right now that I want, he's been quiet, he's on the Zoom, he's my co-host. He likes making no sense a lot of times. And then he'll tell you too, he'll tell you too. When he's losing, he'll tell you, I don't want to make sense. And I say, I'd rather you say that, that I don't want to make sense. But you ladies have brought a lot of common sense to this topic. Let me ask you another question while you guys are here. Do you have boyfriends?

Speaker 6:
[18:54] No, I'm single.

Speaker 5:
[18:55] No.

Speaker 1:
[18:56] Okay. You don't say. I feel like.

Speaker 6:
[18:59] She said, is it me? No. No, it's not.

Speaker 1:
[19:05] You sound like, you sound like somebody might be nice to you. This is going to be seen. This is coming on. So, I'll give you one more chance to ask. Do you have a boyfriend?

Speaker 5:
[19:15] No. No.

Speaker 6:
[19:17] She said, Cam. N-O. No.

Speaker 1:
[19:21] There we go. The girls being girls. Don't let her get you fucked up. It sounds like it's a will be like, so really, you don't have a boyfriend now?

Speaker 6:
[19:30] Well, you told me that yesterday.

Speaker 1:
[19:33] Okay. So, now we don't got a boyfriend. That's what it sounds like from your perspective. But let me ask you ladies this. If you, what do you feel about females? So, they just announced the tour. Chris Brown and Usher is going on tour together.

Speaker 5:
[19:48] We going.

Speaker 6:
[19:49] We actually going. We going to multiple cities, by the way.

Speaker 5:
[19:52] We going here.

Speaker 6:
[19:53] We going there.

Speaker 1:
[19:53] Are y'all trying to clock y'all a singer?

Speaker 6:
[19:56] No, no. We enjoy music.

Speaker 1:
[20:00] I already see y'all vibe. I'm just teasing. I'm just around. I get y'all vibe. We can fuck around. I'll be y'all first cousin and shit. Fury.

Speaker 6:
[20:08] He was in Chicago.

Speaker 1:
[20:09] Right. So, what do you think about these ladies who go there with their boyfriends or their husbands and be tongue kissing?

Speaker 5:
[20:18] That's inappropriate. Let me tell you.

Speaker 6:
[20:19] Can I get y'all stories?

Speaker 1:
[20:20] Or giving cherries for the audience. Giving cherries in their mouth. Nick, we'll play a couple seconds of this as we're telling the story. Not now. I'm talking about for the edit.

Speaker 5:
[20:30] Okay.

Speaker 1:
[20:31] Usher putting cherries in different fruits in female's mouth, you know. Chris Brown tongue kissing. I seen a clip with Chris Brown tongue kissing or wet kissing, I'll say.

Speaker 5:
[20:42] That was good.

Speaker 1:
[20:43] And the husband's like this.

Speaker 6:
[20:45] And they was dry humping, I'm going to say.

Speaker 5:
[20:46] She kissed him in the mouth.

Speaker 1:
[20:48] Yeah, I seen a kiss in the mouth. And the husband's sitting there like, I bought these fucking $1,200 tickets for this shit.

Speaker 5:
[20:55] It was like the five Harbys. Yeah. What was that?

Speaker 1:
[20:58] What was that, and when Usher first started doing the concert, and the famous girl, her husband wanted to divorce her.

Speaker 5:
[21:08] Kiki Palmer.

Speaker 6:
[21:11] I think that was her father's children, or her boyfriend at the time. They was together.

Speaker 5:
[21:15] Yeah, they were.

Speaker 6:
[21:16] I went through the same similar thing. That's what I wanted to talk about.

Speaker 1:
[21:18] So I was engaged. Hold on, hold on real quick. Just because we, you know, we're doing a show. We're gonna make sure. So, I want to get these young ladies' opinion about this upcoming concert, and the concern from the fellas, not you guys, of who's gonna buy these tickets? Because imagine this, right? It's a whole conversation before you leave now. Hey, yo, listen. Stop. I'm telling you right now, get out and play yourself. Because now you don't even want to go. Because I know females who's seen them clips, and was like, oh well, I'm risking it. Because if Usher call me up there, you don't get to kiss Usher that many times. I'm going back home for you the rest of my life. You may only get to kiss Usher one more time. Ladies, tell me your story and how you feel about the situation for men and females who go through this. I would like to hear your story first though.

Speaker 6:
[22:10] So I was engaged when I went to go see Usher when he had his residency here.

Speaker 1:
[22:14] So this wasn't that long ago.

Speaker 6:
[22:16] That was, well I was like-

Speaker 5:
[22:17] Was engaged.

Speaker 1:
[22:18] That's what I said, was.

Speaker 6:
[22:19] No, when he first had it, no, was it a year? It was like two years ago.

Speaker 5:
[22:22] Yeah, but that wasn't that long ago.

Speaker 6:
[22:24] Well it wasn't, I'm not taking away from that, but it was two years ago.

Speaker 1:
[22:26] Was engaged, go ahead, because we gotta get to the whole number story.

Speaker 6:
[22:29] Okay, so after the Kiki Palmer, you brought it up?

Speaker 1:
[22:31] Yep.

Speaker 6:
[22:32] He called me the whole entire night.

Speaker 1:
[22:33] And this is after Kiki Palmer?

Speaker 6:
[22:35] After the Kiki Palmer, I had went.

Speaker 1:
[22:37] Okay.

Speaker 6:
[22:37] He called me the whole entire night, blew up my phone, I'm like, I'm in a concert. He said, I gotta make sure Usher and I in my fiance face. I'm just like, I'm literally sitting watching a show, he didn't come up to me yet.

Speaker 7:
[22:48] But now I'm thinking about it.

Speaker 1:
[22:49] Yeah, so you waiting for him to come up to you? Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[22:55] He'll be here in a minute, hold on, wait a minute.

Speaker 6:
[22:57] Because I'm gonna call and he'll hold on to my face, and he'll hang up and she'll come up to me. So I thought that was absurd like the whole entire time. And I wasn't even thinking about that, like, oh my gosh, Usher's gonna come up here and put a chair in my mouth or hug me and touch on me. I didn't even think like that. But it was the fact that the whole entire time, I had to turn my phone off like half way through the concert. Usher's a good show, by the way. Yeah, he is. He called me the whole entire time to make sure that Usher wasn't near me and touching on me. I said like, that's absurd. I'm like, I don't know. I just think that it's foolery. Now, I wasn't going to do anything to disrespect my fiancee. Like, Usher came to my face. I'm not about to be tongue kissing you. That is disrespectful.

Speaker 1:
[23:35] Would you have took the cherry?

Speaker 6:
[23:38] I would have took it in my hand.

Speaker 7:
[23:43] I don't know how to do that. You're watching.

Speaker 6:
[23:45] It's going to be in the shade room. Put it in my hand. He's calling me right now anyway. Put it in my hand, Usher. Just put it right there. Just put it in.

Speaker 1:
[23:52] What if he tell you, no, no, no?

Speaker 5:
[23:58] You would have went viral more for not accepting it and accepting it in your hand.

Speaker 6:
[24:03] It's like he's calling me the whole time. He better not touch me. I don't know. And vice versa. I don't feel like if my man or my fiance or my husband went to go see somebody, I would be insecure. But I don't know. I'm just so secure in myself. And I think that's what we don't talk about enough. As people, when you have a sense of security, you're not going to worry about stuff like that. Now, if the person is sloppy, they just sloppy. And this is what it is. Chris Brown, Usher. I like them too. But my thing is, I'm not going to do anything to embarrass myself public. I just feel like I care about my reputation, my brand. So it was crazy that I got to call the whole entire time I had to turn my phone off though. To me, that's just weird.

Speaker 1:
[24:50] I'm going to come back to you in a minute. What's your opinion on this?

Speaker 5:
[24:54] So I think it's disrespectful. If you got a man and you kissing Tunga down, Chris Brown, come on now. I mean, I know in her match life, so once in a lifetime, I guess that means that depends on how, like where your mindset is and what you feel like is something that's special for you in a lifetime. You know what I'm saying? I don't think, I think that's very disrespectful. I don't care how you look at it, who it is. That's disrespectful. If you got a man, you shouldn't be Tunga down Chris Brown. And I don't want Chris Brown Tunga in my mouth.

Speaker 6:
[25:25] Cause my thing is, your tongue been in everybody's mouth. Exactly.

Speaker 5:
[25:28] I'm just saying like I'm not, no shade, but you get a lot of chicks in one night. I don't want your Tunga in my mouth.

Speaker 1:
[25:36] What about the cherries?

Speaker 5:
[25:39] If you got a man, that's still disrespectful. It is.

Speaker 1:
[25:42] So let me ask you this, and I'm coming back to you real quick. Y'all are going to see these people. Neither one of y'all have a man. Are you taking the cherry this time?

Speaker 6:
[25:50] Yeah. I'm going to say, you can put it right here for me.

Speaker 1:
[25:54] That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5:
[25:56] I'm not really trying to eat the cherries.

Speaker 6:
[25:59] I'll put it right here.

Speaker 5:
[26:00] Just put it on me. That's just me though. You know what I'm saying? I try to go against the grain. I be wanting to be different.

Speaker 6:
[26:07] I mean, I'd like to have fun.

Speaker 5:
[26:09] I want to have fun, but to me, that's having fun. I don't want your cherries, Usher. You know what I'm saying? Because look, I'm going to be the only person that probably don't want Usher cherries.

Speaker 6:
[26:18] Well, y'all forgot when Sweetie, I was at the show when Sweetie was here. I remember that back then she was dating YG. Usher came up to him. No, she was respectful. She was like, and they made a narrative like, oh, Sweetie doesn't know who Usher is and the narrative. I'm just like, she's being respectful. One, she got a man. Her man is YG. Let's start there at the time. Two, she came to Usher concert, so she's came here to support them, but the main thing was they made it seem like, oh, she didn't know who she was, and she's being like fake because of the fact that she didn't know who he was. I'm just like this-

Speaker 5:
[26:54] That don't even make sense. Everybody know who Usher is.

Speaker 6:
[26:56] That's what I'm saying. And they said she won't interact with him because she didn't know who she, that wasn't the case. Just she's at this man's show. We all know who Usher is. We at this man's show. Okay? He's a performer. He's an entertainer. So I mean, she was respectful though.

Speaker 5:
[27:09] How would you feel if your girl took the cherry?

Speaker 1:
[27:13] I would have left out right then and there. First of all...

Speaker 5:
[27:16] Wait a minute.

Speaker 6:
[27:17] Let's hear this.

Speaker 5:
[27:18] No, that's some real shit. Oh, can we curse?

Speaker 7:
[27:20] Yeah, yeah, you curse.

Speaker 5:
[27:21] This is the most dangerous show in the world.

Speaker 8:
[27:23] Kevin Hart just walked out of sleep.

Speaker 5:
[27:25] That's some real shit though because I just feel like I don't even want no man who not gonna walk out. I don't want no man who gonna be accepting that. That's just me. If you could accept me taking the Usher from cherry, you're not the man for me.

Speaker 6:
[27:38] So if your man, y'all at a concert and that artist, that he like, I just make it up, Beyoncé, I love Beyoncé. You walking out when your man get a cherry from Beyoncé?

Speaker 5:
[27:49] No, I'm not doing that.

Speaker 6:
[27:49] Okay.

Speaker 5:
[27:50] That's a, I mean, for me, I'm gonna go and let him get his watch off a little bit.

Speaker 6:
[27:53] I'm gonna actually watch it.

Speaker 5:
[27:53] That's why I'm saying. I'm just saying it's a difference. I'm gonna pay with gender roles. Let me tell you something. I want enough people, I don't think we equally yoked. I don't want to be equally yoked with my man. Certain shit that I do, I don't want you to do, and vice versa. So no, it's not okay for me to take the cherry, but yeah, it's okay for you to go out here to fill on Beyonce a little bit. I'm cool and I'm secure. I'm not gonna hold it against you, but I do believe in that gender role. I'm okay. I'm gonna respect you. I want to be, I want a man's man. I don't want all this new stuff, and these little weak, look, I don't want that.

Speaker 6:
[28:29] I don't want that either. And I think it is roles. If you don't realize it, I hate the fact that we come to...

Speaker 1:
[28:33] I moved out there. So I'm telling you, they get it out there.

Speaker 6:
[28:37] I'm cool. No, I'm cool too, because I feel like it is roles, and people try to say, oh, we're equal. We're not equal.

Speaker 5:
[28:42] No, I'm not equal with no man.

Speaker 6:
[28:43] I'm not. It's jobs that men do that I will never do.

Speaker 5:
[28:47] I don't want to be equal with a man.

Speaker 1:
[28:49] I like that. Hold on a second. Cause I know you got a bunch of questions. This right here, I know he done applied to this here. Cause he, I already know he's loaded with questions for y'all, cause he's one of these, he's very jealous. Cause I'm not one of them. You can say passive aggressive, whatever you want to call it. I'm just not going to deal with it. You know what? He one of them niggas wondering, why? He the calling your phone not during the concert afterwards.

Speaker 6:
[29:15] No.

Speaker 5:
[29:16] You know why you like that, Ken? You an Aquarius.

Speaker 1:
[29:18] Yeah, that's a fact. I hope for sure.

Speaker 6:
[29:20] Y'all both Aquarius.

Speaker 8:
[29:20] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[29:22] Yeah. We ain't on that shit.

Speaker 5:
[29:23] We like, I just feel like it's a different vibe. You know what I'm saying? I don't care who. I just feel like, yeah.

Speaker 1:
[29:31] Sin, I'm going to let you ask your question. I want to ask her one more question. Why are you not engaged anymore?

Speaker 6:
[29:37] Why are we not engaged anymore? Where did we start? Okay, can I be? I could eat 100 donuts. Shit, you should have had your drink ready. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1:
[29:44] We're going to get you some drinks.

Speaker 6:
[29:45] So let me tell y'all. Okay. So I was at the time when I met my ex-fiance, I was 27. There was, I'm going to make it clear that it was a big age gap. Or was I 27? I don't know, 26, 27.

Speaker 1:
[30:01] Well, you met him, not when you got engaged.

Speaker 6:
[30:03] No, not when we got engaged. This was later. So he was older, at the time, it was like 48, 49. I didn't go hoes you. He came up to me, he treated me very well, and we had a good time from the moment, like we locked in instantly. Okay, fast forward. A year later is going good. Like, okay, cool. Two years later, it was more so like, okay, it was always like, he had to keep tabs on me. I'm not saying keep tabs on me, like writing it down. Like it was like he was always clocking me. I'm just like, that's weird. But I don't know if it was because it was a distance thing. I was in Vegas. He was here. He was back in Chicago. We met in Chicago. And then it was like a thing where I don't know. I just felt like it was just too much like, like control, like not control. Like he was trying to control me, like structure the relationship in a way where it was like, okay, it went from like, okay, I'm going to make you happy. You're my queen, blah, blah, blah. And it was like a switch. Like, no, we didn't talk about that. We didn't ask me that. Like, excuse me, I'm an adult. You an adult. I'm not keeping tabs on you. You're a grown man. I am a grown woman. And I just felt at the time like, okay, maybe we don't want the same thing. Cause at this time, like, okay, I'm turning 28 and turning 29, turning 30. We broke up when I turned 30. And I was just like, no, I don't want that. So my thing was it started off in a way, I'm not going to lie. I'll be real. I was healing. I had daddy issues. I like men that take care of me. I like men that make me feel like feminine. Men I can learn from. And I learned from him at the time, him being a business man. I was just a starting young business woman. So again, a relationship with Dynamics in the beginning, it was like, okay, I can grow from this. But later again, it just turned into something where it was just like, damn, is you my daddy? But also I had to realize that I had issues. I had to deal with like daddy issues. So I'm not going to lie. So it made me realize you laugh and I had to realize like, no, I had to realize like you need to fucking heal, Shia. Like you got issues for real. So after the relationship and I go lie, I respect him. I thank him for everything I went through, but just because it was like, I needed that experience in order to heal and start my healing journey to realize like, damn, you got some real ass daddy issues girl, like work on that shit.

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Speaker 1:
[33:04] I'm going to send you a song. It's this girl, she hasn't rapped no more. She kind of went in Detroit. She had a real hot song, Sean LaDawn from Detroit, Daddy Issues. It was real hot. She raps in her car. It was really dope.

Speaker 6:
[33:14] Okay, you got to send it to me.

Speaker 1:
[33:15] Send. Go ahead. I see you answer. You can't wait. Go ahead. What do you want to ask these young ladies?

Speaker 8:
[33:22] So in that whole thing, when you say you had daddy issues over there, I'm going to get back to some other questions, but you never mentioned anything that you really did wrong. What I did wrong? You never really took accountability. You already said that you was the princess or whatever, but you never really took accountability. I did so much did wrong.

Speaker 6:
[33:43] Well, I think what I went wrong at was, I think sticking in a relationship with him.

Speaker 8:
[33:51] No, no.

Speaker 6:
[33:53] He asked, why you cut your phone off in the middle of the usher coaster?

Speaker 8:
[34:00] No, what are you talking about?

Speaker 6:
[34:01] I didn't want to deal with that.

Speaker 5:
[34:03] But she did kind of like way say like it was her fault, though, because she did need to heal. She had daddy issues. So that's kind of saying you did a little something wrong because you went after the wrong dude.

Speaker 6:
[34:14] You was looking for something different. But back then, you got to realize, I didn't know.

Speaker 1:
[34:16] Let me, let me, let me, cause let me, let's just be more specific for saying. What was you doing? What was that he was mad at? Turning your phone off for Usher concert. That's what we got that. That he was mad. I'm just saying. Staying out later that he wanted you to stay out late. Which I'm just guessing. I don't know. But not bringing the car back. What did he not like when you told him about keeping tabs on you exactly? I think that's what Sin's trying to say. What did you do? Cause he's gonna take the male perspective.

Speaker 6:
[34:43] Oh, I can tell you what happened. Before that, he will always go out and he'll be out like three, four o'clock in the morning. And I was like, shit, if we are out after hours, we are out after hours. Now, I didn't necessarily come in the house four o'clock, five o'clock in the morning, but I didn't just appreciate the fact like if it's 12 or one o'clock and I even made it home yet at my end of my event. No, I'm turning off my phone.

Speaker 8:
[35:09] Were you letting people shoot at you in the DMs?

Speaker 6:
[35:12] I get DMs all day, every day.

Speaker 5:
[35:15] You don't have to let them. They don't do that anyway. Because my thing is, DMs.

Speaker 8:
[35:19] Were you shooting back?

Speaker 5:
[35:21] What's that mean?

Speaker 6:
[35:22] What's that mean? I gotta hit people back.

Speaker 1:
[35:25] Were you entertaining people flirting with you?

Speaker 5:
[35:27] She's the man, this woman.

Speaker 6:
[35:28] Period.

Speaker 5:
[35:28] She was doing business.

Speaker 1:
[35:29] Basically, I'll translate for them.

Speaker 6:
[35:30] After hours.

Speaker 1:
[35:31] Were you entertaining people who were flirting with you?

Speaker 6:
[35:35] No, hell no. No, no, no. Not in the DMs. No.

Speaker 1:
[35:39] Well, where was it at?

Speaker 6:
[35:43] It was in person.

Speaker 5:
[35:43] It was on the south side. It was in person.

Speaker 6:
[35:45] It was in person. It was in person.

Speaker 8:
[35:52] I want to go back real quick. I heard one of y'all say a million dollars is chump change. So let me ask you a question, because I don't understand child support. I thought child support is for the child. A million dollars can't pay for school, can't pay for school, food.

Speaker 5:
[36:06] It depends on your lifestyle. It depends on the person's lifestyle. I mean, some people don't pay for school. But when you get, like, in that specific situation, that woman signed, she, I don't know, she signed up for the a la carte. So she might be trying to pay for private school and supreme baby food.

Speaker 6:
[36:27] I don't think she signed up for it.

Speaker 5:
[36:29] Cloth diapers with a service to come pick them up and clean the baby ass. I'm just saying, they signed up for other shit. And that's why I said, realistically, that's not happening in the real world. You're not getting all of that. She want a nanny. Why? You said why?

Speaker 8:
[36:46] But I thought child support is for the child. If any of our parents, if any of us in this room, if somebody gave them a million dollars to raise any of us, they'd be good with that.

Speaker 5:
[36:57] For us, but she, yeah, for us. But when she went into it, what I'm saying is that wasn't good for her. It would be, yeah, it's good for a lot of people. It wasn't good for her because she didn't go into it with that. She went into it with trying to look beyond that. I want a house. She wasn't looking probably to just pay for the kid. That's what I'm saying. Her thoughts was not paying for that kid. I just feel like certain women, they thought it's not even on the kid. The kid is really a prop at this point. It's not nothing about a child. It's not nothing about a human life. And that's where the problem comes in. Cause you bring these kids into the world and you have all of this bullshit you trying to get. You want a purse, you want all of this shit, and you're dealing with a human life.

Speaker 6:
[37:39] A G-Wagon.

Speaker 5:
[37:40] A real mama in the hood who don't have all of this shit. She's not thinking like that. She the one who driving a hoopty or really, she is taking less. She really is like dialing back on herself to provide for her child. That other stuff is superficial. That's what she went into it with though, with superficial thoughts, the superficial mindset. So yeah, for her, a million dollars probably wasn't enough.

Speaker 6:
[38:04] It wasn't because you got to think about it. This child, like you said, Cam, you did the math. You said it was 55, what did you say, $56,000 a year?

Speaker 1:
[38:11] Larry, what was the limit of the $55,000 a year for the child?

Speaker 6:
[38:14] 18 years, what would you say?

Speaker 5:
[38:16] That's a lot for a whole lot of mommas.

Speaker 6:
[38:18] Okay, it is. But think about it. Okay, after 18, if the child decided to go to college, college is high as hell. So my thing is, it really ain't enough.

Speaker 5:
[38:29] Yeah, for that person, for you thinking about that person who is making money to that degree and you mean somebody. But what I'm saying is, the average person who's just out here having kids, they are not getting nowhere near that at all.

Speaker 6:
[38:44] Because I'm just calculating that.

Speaker 8:
[38:47] Princess, Princess, when Homeboy, when y'all broke up, he took back whatever he gave you because it seemed like you said you were spoiled and he took back his ring and all that?

Speaker 6:
[38:56] No, he didn't. He didn't take it back.

Speaker 1:
[38:58] I'll do that Neva, Neva, once I'm done, I'll do that.

Speaker 6:
[39:01] He didn't take it back, but also, see, I didn't break up with him. He broke up with me. I didn't break up with him. That's what I'm saying. He broke up with me. So the way it ended, he broke off the engagement. And if we got even, even pettier, I don't even want to take out a story. He broke up with me because I went to Bali. That's another story.

Speaker 1:
[39:21] What you doing out there?

Speaker 8:
[39:22] You went to where?

Speaker 6:
[39:23] Bali, well, my god, it's the birthday. It was her birthday. It was her 30th birthday. I went to Bali.

Speaker 8:
[39:29] That's where them soccer players be going? That's where them soccer players be going?

Speaker 6:
[39:33] I didn't find a soccer player. Y'all were about the wrong thing. See, that's crazy. I literally been to Bali before.

Speaker 1:
[39:40] I'm on your side.

Speaker 6:
[39:41] Yeah, he broke up with me, literally. He said, the wedding is off. And I saw him, I said, okay.

Speaker 5:
[39:46] Did he tell you before you went, like if you go, it's done?

Speaker 6:
[39:50] No, he said, you're about to go to Bali, and I'm working and saving for a wedding. I was just like, what? I thought we both was working towards a wedding. Anyway, it was confusing, but it was really, it came down to it. His mama really called me while y'all laughing and told me he was jealous of me. So that's, let's talk about that though. Right. So your own mama calling, your woman saying he jealous of you. That's weird. Come on now. It gets weirder. It gets just more weird. So like I say, it just wasn't a relationship. I shouldn't have been here, period.

Speaker 1:
[40:23] Got it. That's it, son?

Speaker 8:
[40:27] Yeah.

Speaker 6:
[40:30] That's what I thought.

Speaker 8:
[40:33] Now I know a million dollars is chump change for kids. And you know, nobody does anything wrong. Yeah, I'm good. I'm good, man. I ain't got to.

Speaker 5:
[40:43] I didn't say a million dollars was chump change.

Speaker 8:
[40:46] Well, somebody did.

Speaker 6:
[40:48] Well, when you got a kid nowadays, that is chump change. I'm sorry.

Speaker 5:
[40:52] I mean...

Speaker 8:
[40:54] You count that man money.

Speaker 6:
[40:55] No, I'm not. But that's what I'm saying. I'm not standing up for no kid for a million dollars.

Speaker 5:
[41:00] In that situation, that was chump change because he got it. But she was willing to accept it.

Speaker 6:
[41:05] And that's what she did. And that was crazy. Because I would have never had nobody for a million dollars.

Speaker 5:
[41:09] You did all of that just to get a million dollars and say forget it and have a baby. That's a lifetime and to walk away.

Speaker 6:
[41:17] Do he want to be in this child's life? We ain't talk about that.

Speaker 5:
[41:20] He did. He said no.

Speaker 1:
[41:23] He don't want nothing to do with the child or her.

Speaker 6:
[41:25] I was just going to get an abortion, except the money.

Speaker 5:
[41:28] Look, I'm not going to lie though. He's not totally in the right though. Let's talk about that.

Speaker 6:
[41:32] Because he should never have sex with her.

Speaker 5:
[41:33] Besides the money and everything, you was fucking her wrong. And everybody know the consequences of fucking somebody wrong.

Speaker 6:
[41:39] You may have a baby.

Speaker 5:
[41:40] If you didn't want to have a baby with her, you shouldn't have did that because she had an option to say, I want to keep the baby. So let's talk about that part, too. Because he's going to cause some trauma in that kid's life as well. That kid is going to grow up and know, you're a public figure. You're famous. He's going to know my daddy didn't want to have shit to do with me. And that's messed up. So he messed up, too.

Speaker 6:
[41:59] Especially being black, though. Yeah, he messed up, too.

Speaker 5:
[42:02] Bill Cosby did that shit. And look at Karma. That shit ate his ass up.

Speaker 1:
[42:06] Karma alone. There's a few people whose public...

Speaker 5:
[42:09] I don't care how you feel in that moment. That shit gonna come back and bite you in your ass. You can't do that. You can't move like that. I don't care what you think you're getting away with. It's going to come back on. You cannot move like that. And that's up to do a kid like that. That kid didn't ask to be here. You chose to fuck her raw. She had a baby. And y'all both gotta deal with the consequences of that. You might not want to give her no more money. Y'all can figure that part out. But to just say, I don't want to have nothing to do with this kid. You just gonna go about your life. That's crazy.

Speaker 6:
[42:39] That's why you shouldn't have a sex of people you don't like.

Speaker 1:
[42:41] But just to add more context, I totally agree with you because everybody that I fuck with, we didn't have five of us, so all my niggas is good for her. Like we don't even fuck with no deadbeat dads.

Speaker 5:
[42:52] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[42:52] You know what I'm saying? And not just Anthony Edwards. I don't know his situation. I'm talking about the niggas we be around. Nobody doesn't be in their child's life. We don't even play that. So we totally agree with what you're saying. We just talking. So that's good that you brought that up. Because even if you don't want to be bothered with her, you still could be in the kid's life, regardless if you don't want to be bothered with her. So I'm totally 100% in agreement with what you would do.

Speaker 6:
[43:14] Do you have kids?

Speaker 1:
[43:15] One son.

Speaker 6:
[43:16] One son? How old is your son?

Speaker 1:
[43:17] 25.

Speaker 6:
[43:18] Okay, he gone.

Speaker 1:
[43:18] Yeah, he gone. It was rough.

Speaker 6:
[43:22] But no, he know his daddy, though.

Speaker 1:
[43:23] Oh, that with me from off the dribble.

Speaker 6:
[43:26] And that's just my word. That's just my word. I'm not gonna do it. That's crazy.

Speaker 1:
[43:30] That on my third album cover, that shit went platinum. That been with me since out the war. I'm just saying, me and his mom probably haven't been together since he was three or four. But that been with me every weekend since.

Speaker 5:
[43:43] Could you even imagine yourself saying, I ain't want nothing to do with him?

Speaker 1:
[43:46] No, not at all.

Speaker 5:
[43:47] Yeah, that's crazy to me. And even the next woman that he deal with as a woman, I could never deal with no man. I would beat his ass. Like I just go, I'm serious. I be trying to jump his ass like, hey girl, come over here, he here. I'm just for real, that's messed up. I can't deal with no man that you could look at me and myself like, yeah, I gave that bitch a million dollars. I said, I ain't want to with her. A lot of girls be like, okay, that's it, that's it. Because you getting something in that moment.

Speaker 6:
[44:15] That's not cool at all. It's a character flaw. And that's why I deal with people, how I deal with them and I don't deal with people. And I choose wisely. And that's the reason why I don't have kids, because I just feel like having kids is a big responsibility. And I'm a very responsible person, but at the same time, it's just like, why would I choose to have a life with somebody I don't even like? I don't even like you. I might not like that kid. No, I'm being 100. I might not, I don't even like you. I might not like this kid.

Speaker 5:
[44:45] Some women don't like the kid. And that be the problem too.

Speaker 6:
[44:48] And that's why I'm saying, though. And that's why they be going crazy and going through shit. And even Trena Key is fucked up and making more problems. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1:
[44:55] And then if you look like the too, it's up.

Speaker 6:
[44:57] Oh, you look just like your daddy. You know, like, no, I'm not dealing with people I don't like, period. And that's just why I'm mad at my life. I'm not dealing with you on no levels. Intimacy, friendship, business, personal. If I don't like you, I'm not messing with you. I just don't got time. Life too short. It's shorter than what we say. And why are we out here living like that? No, I'm not doing it. I'm sorry.

Speaker 1:
[45:19] Let me ask you ladies one more question. Since you guys here, because every time we have a female on the show, this want to bring up one of my ex-girlfriends that I don't speak to anymore. And like, I barely talk on the show because all my relationships are bad.

Speaker 6:
[45:36] All of your relationships are bad because he's an Aquarius. My daddy is an Aquarius.

Speaker 1:
[45:40] Oh, you know why? Because they want to be my friend. I don't get caught cheating.

Speaker 6:
[45:45] Because you a.

Speaker 1:
[45:46] I ain't get caught cheating. I ain't do nothing wrong. I just think that time ran its course.

Speaker 5:
[45:51] Yeah, and you just moved swiftly, and then you be so cool about it, and people don't understand why you so cool about it.

Speaker 6:
[45:56] But see, no, you gotta realize.

Speaker 5:
[45:58] I get it.

Speaker 6:
[45:58] Okay, but you an Aquarius. Man, my daddy is an Aquarius. I was raised by an Aquarius. First of all, Cam has a way to get people attached mentally and emotionally. A boy and a girl. No, don't get me started. I'm a Virgo shit. Don't get me started. I'm a Virgo. Let me tell you. They get you attached mentally and emotionally.

Speaker 5:
[46:20] You a Virgo too?

Speaker 6:
[46:22] Let me tell you. They get in your head. They play mind games. Let me tell you. Aquarius, y'all play mind games. Wait, wait, wait, wait.

Speaker 5:
[46:30] Y'all play mind games. You gonna be accountable?

Speaker 6:
[46:33] It's so good.

Speaker 1:
[46:34] See, before I cut, I want you to finish that, but she said, well, I'll be accountable. I can be accountable for being me. I don't know if it's...

Speaker 6:
[46:42] But you know what you do, though. You haven't changed your mind in the next day, though.

Speaker 1:
[46:45] But see the thing about it is...

Speaker 5:
[46:46] But that's not our fault.

Speaker 1:
[46:47] So when you say mind games...

Speaker 5:
[46:48] Girl, I feel like you should be able to do that. It's free will.

Speaker 1:
[46:51] When you say mind games, right...

Speaker 6:
[46:52] That shit is crazy.

Speaker 1:
[46:53] When you say mind games, right... So I'm sitting there assessing myself as you say this, right?

Speaker 6:
[46:57] Yeah, mind games. I can talk, I will hang out with you, and I bet I'll pick you out in like in a matter of 30 minutes.

Speaker 1:
[47:03] I'm sitting there assessing myself, and I'm like, what I do is it mind games or am I just being myself? Yeah, like I don't know if it's mind games. Because you know why?

Speaker 5:
[47:12] You feel like everybody should be like that.

Speaker 1:
[47:14] Yeah, exactly. Because you know why? You think what I do is I do give little tests out to see where you're at mentioning it.

Speaker 6:
[47:24] It's a quiz. Exactly.

Speaker 5:
[47:26] What would you do with a quiz?

Speaker 1:
[47:28] Yeah, I'm like, I'm going to let this trap.

Speaker 6:
[47:30] What is it, a life quiz, y'all do?

Speaker 5:
[47:32] No, it's like I'm going to be in a room, let me see if you're going to hang yourself.

Speaker 1:
[47:36] Yeah, yeah, that place shit.

Speaker 6:
[47:40] But let me tell you, I get it, I'm a Virgo, I know how to mentally and emotionally connect with people, but I ain't going to lie, I get y'all on it, I'm going to go, I'm going to see how far you going to take me, I'm going to see how far I can take you. But at some point, I be like, all right, this shit is going too far. Now you either going, you just ain't got it, you ain't there. Y'all would still do that shit with people who ain't even got it and ain't there, and y'all know that.

Speaker 1:
[48:02] What are you saying? Y'all ain't there?

Speaker 6:
[48:03] What do you mean?

Speaker 5:
[48:03] No, I think so. I think once I realized they don't got like, once I realized, yeah, you gone head. I just, I think I just, you know what it is.

Speaker 6:
[48:12] No, y'all was in a relationship. Y'all wanted to leave long time ago. Every impoverished I know, including my parent.

Speaker 5:
[48:21] But I believe I told you, I believe I tried to talk to you because we get communicators. We're actually very good beyond the surface level of communicating.

Speaker 6:
[48:29] Y'all are.

Speaker 5:
[48:30] And I think y'all are.

Speaker 6:
[48:31] No, they are. When they grow mature, they are.

Speaker 5:
[48:34] We don't want to just talk to you on the surface. We want to go deep with you. We trying to get to the root of the problem. And a lot of people can't understand that level of communication. So it's like once I go there and I try to talk to you about it, and I do all of these things, when you don't realize, it's not me still standing in a relationship, it's me saying, well, it's not gonna work.

Speaker 6:
[48:52] No, I get up and leave. This shit ain't working. I'm out. I don't care none of the consequences. I don't care about none of that shit. I told you what it was.

Speaker 5:
[48:59] You didn't leave after that day. I make up in my mind, I believe, but I still be there. That's why they think they got a chance.

Speaker 6:
[49:09] That's why they think they got a chance, because you haven't got up and left. You still there mentally, and they think you in their space, they got a chance with you.

Speaker 5:
[49:15] It's physically you there.

Speaker 6:
[49:16] I'm sorry, physically you there. And they still think they got a chance. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5:
[49:20] That's my fault for them thinking that.

Speaker 6:
[49:22] I'm leaving. I don't got time for this shit.

Speaker 1:
[49:24] See, you know, that's a good point. Both of you guys got a good point, because you're right. Mentally you check out, but you may still be there. And I'll do that sometime, mentally check out, but I'm planning my escape.

Speaker 6:
[49:35] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[49:35] You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 6:
[49:37] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[49:37] I'm gonna just leave you hanging. Like I'm just not gonna walk off.

Speaker 6:
[49:55] Don't call me. If y y'all see me right now, don't call me. Don't text me. You are out for life.

Speaker 1:
[50:00] Damn. And that's how they feel about me. And I be like, who am I?

Speaker 6:
[50:05] And that's why I promise you, if I had kids, it would be messed up because if we ended on bad terms, like I would really have to help have God help me, like deal with this person for the rest of my life. And I'd be like, OK, let me just call my mama. Just go drop that baby off to them, because I remember that time I would go over the side of that mother head still. And I'm working on me and I would be real. I'm not the person that's going to be like, oh, I'm perfect. No, I got shit to do. And I remember what you did. I'm still working on me and I'm not going to lie. I forgive people, but it take a little while. It take a little while.

Speaker 1:
[50:39] Yeah, I hear you.

Speaker 6:
[50:40] When Rick Ross say God forgives, I don't.

Speaker 1:
[50:45] I'm mentally, you know, sometimes I'm like, damn, how am I gonna get out of this? Cause I'm a nice person.

Speaker 5:
[50:49] That's the thing. So y'all look at it as being mean and like, no, I don't think it's mean, but I just think it's bullshit.

Speaker 6:
[50:56] You will be in there for a year mentally. I mean, I mean, I'm sorry, physically. And you checked out two years ago mentally. I'm not doing that shit. That is so draining. I'm trying to be nice. And it's, I'm not being nice. It's draining. It's exhausting. I can't be the best person. It is draining.

Speaker 5:
[51:09] I can be draining.

Speaker 6:
[51:11] I can't be the best person for no one. If I feel like I'm drained. That's just me, though. If I'm draining, it's exhausting. I can't do this.

Speaker 1:
[51:20] You know why I agree with her a little bit? It's because we sit there and mentally check out, stick around, and we say, okay, how we get out of this? And they make it a year or two to get out of it. And then they still be mad.

Speaker 6:
[51:31] So it's like, you should have said this, but I'm glad they're gonna be mad anyway, regardless.

Speaker 1:
[51:35] That's why I'm agreeing with you, but I'm agreeing with her how we are. But you like, if you're gonna be mad anyway, I should have just got the fuck out of here when I mentally checked out anyway. I tried to ease out the situation.

Speaker 5:
[51:47] And my thing be like, It could all be so simple, but you rather make it hard. Like Lauren Hill said, cause when I say what the issue is and what the problem is, just fix that shit. And I might say-

Speaker 6:
[51:58] But they don't understand it's a thing. And I ain't gonna lie, as a Virgo, I really do be trying to connect with people on an analytical level. I'm very logical. And I be trying to think shit through. I'm like, all right, this is the problem. I have presented the solution. They don't like that shit.

Speaker 1:
[52:16] Well, let me ask you ladies one more question. Do you have anything for these ladies? Do you have any questions you want to ask these ladies, Larry?

Speaker 2:
[52:22] He was wrong about the Aunt Edwards thing. What if he tells you, I don't want the baby?

Speaker 6:
[52:30] I'm going to the clinic. Matter of fact, I'm a provider. I'm prescribing myself for abortion in your name.

Speaker 2:
[52:35] So I was saying, did y'all say earlier that he was out of line and he was wrong because, like, you know, there's still a baby in here.

Speaker 7:
[52:41] But if I tell you, hey, listen, I'm not having the baby.

Speaker 6:
[52:45] This is my thing.

Speaker 5:
[52:46] It's too sad to that.

Speaker 2:
[52:48] I'm going to order the pill. We're going to have the pill delivered to you right now.

Speaker 6:
[52:50] I'm going to take the pill and take the million dollars.

Speaker 2:
[52:53] No, no, no. What?

Speaker 5:
[52:56] Because is he giving her money, saying, this is my thing.

Speaker 6:
[52:59] It's too sad to the story. That's why I'm saying it's too sad to the story. This man could have been in a relationship with this woman.

Speaker 2:
[53:06] Don't have a baby. Don't have no baby with me.

Speaker 6:
[53:08] Well, she's not smart.

Speaker 2:
[53:09] I'll give you $25,000. Don't have no baby. And if you have any money...

Speaker 6:
[53:12] I'm not even having sex because my thing is... I'm having sex and I don't even like you like that. You don't like me like that. Why I'm opening my legs? That's why I tell people, I'm not having sex because I'm bored. And that's why I tell people, love yourself. I'm not out here just having sex with men because, oh, you're Anthony Edwards. Oh, you're him. I'm not doing that shit. That's not gonna do nothing. My thing is, if we was in an actual serious relationship, that's why I'm telling people, it's too sad to the story. Thank God I haven't been in that type of situation because, let me tell you, I got common sense. And my thing is, if this man switches up on me or some shit happens, maybe it could have been a flip side. Like, he had a whole other relationship. He told the truth when she got pregnant.

Speaker 2:
[53:53] I don't want a baby before we get busy.

Speaker 6:
[53:56] We ain't getting busy.

Speaker 5:
[53:57] But why he her all over?

Speaker 6:
[54:00] We ain't having sex. We not having sex.

Speaker 5:
[54:04] But what I'm saying though, as a man though, because look, as you being a man in that position, you got to think smart. Even if she allowing you to, duh.

Speaker 6:
[54:14] She gonna take that money, she did come up.

Speaker 5:
[54:16] So, duh, like you got to think.

Speaker 6:
[54:18] So you wasn't smart from the beginning.

Speaker 5:
[54:19] She not on that. So you can tell her whatever you want to.

Speaker 2:
[54:23] Y'all was saying like, that's fucked up for him. It is.

Speaker 5:
[54:26] Because after the baby here.

Speaker 6:
[54:27] That's a poor mindset.

Speaker 5:
[54:29] But after the baby here.

Speaker 6:
[54:32] That's a poor, that's irresponsible.

Speaker 5:
[54:35] That's irresponsible.

Speaker 6:
[54:36] People need to have better decision making skills.

Speaker 7:
[54:39] No.

Speaker 8:
[54:41] What if she was having fun?

Speaker 6:
[54:43] So you want to nut in me, that means you want my DNA to, and possibly to conceive. Okay, so what's the... Hey, wait, wait, wait, pause. I need to know. What's the motive? Okay. Okay, you're a rich. Okay.

Speaker 5:
[54:58] And you honestly think a rich gonna tell a woman that and she's gonna be like...

Speaker 6:
[55:02] I gotta get into his head and see what's going on with it. Wait a minute, I gotta get in his head and see what's going on with it. You're a rich man, and you tell me you want to nut in me.

Speaker 5:
[55:13] Why do you want to nut in me?

Speaker 6:
[55:15] You're a rich man, and you told me, me. You want to nut in me. My first response is gonna be like, how did you want to do that?

Speaker 2:
[55:24] Because I don't like to pull out.

Speaker 6:
[55:26] See, that is crazy. You're gonna like to pay out then. You're gonna like to pay out. And that's why he had to pay that girl that million dollars. It ain't, but that's why he had to pay it.

Speaker 8:
[55:39] I wish I would stop saying the million dollars ain't nothing.

Speaker 5:
[55:43] He said stop saying that. He said stop saying the million dollars ain't nothing.

Speaker 8:
[55:48] No, it is, Larry. It is.

Speaker 6:
[55:52] He said, no, it is, Larry. It is. It is.

Speaker 2:
[55:56] I'm telling you that I don't want a baby. How am I wrong for that?

Speaker 6:
[56:01] It's a mental illness. Let's just case close. It's a mental illness.

Speaker 1:
[56:04] That's why I got one kid. My pullout game's crazy.

Speaker 6:
[56:08] You don't want no kids with nobody you didn't want to have kids with.

Speaker 1:
[56:11] Exactly. Yeah. Because the whole thing about it is this. Like, to me, that scenario's crazy, because I'm not risking that. I'm rich, and I'm telling you, I'm a nut in you, and I'm just telling you my perspective. I'm gonna give you this pill. Why would you trust a chick to even give her that option? Because now she has all the power, and now the power's not in you. Like, I give the Marlon Waynes family mad credit because the Pops had pullout game was weak, but it worked out for everybody. It did. You know what I'm saying? All them ended up being good. Last question real quick, I'll get y'all ladies' opinion too. Since we're here, and like I said, it's been a few female, male issues. We'll go around this quick. What do you think about, you know, that kind of relationship is kind of over with now, but when Cardi B left Offset to go with Stephane Diggs, still being married to Offset, how did y'all feel about that decision from Cardi?

Speaker 6:
[57:05] Cam, could you get us better scenarios?

Speaker 1:
[57:07] Listen, I'm just telling you, this is the stuff that we've been talking about.

Speaker 6:
[57:10] Crazy. First of all, why would you leave a relationship where you were abused, cheated on, to go be a secondary woman to a man?

Speaker 5:
[57:23] Secondary, what's the second? It's like, how many?

Speaker 6:
[57:26] Shit, what's after secondary?

Speaker 5:
[57:28] Yeah, I don't even know what it was.

Speaker 6:
[57:30] It's like maybe a quad or something, it's in the fourth. Anyway, multiple baby mamas. My thing is this, and this is why, again, I don't have kids yet. I'm thinking, when I have a kid by a man, what will my child gain? I'm not having no kid with no man. I got five, six kids because I'm thinking, if anything, my kid is going to get the last of the bunch, and if we do get on child support, they're going to get the last of the bunch. I don't feel my kids deserve that.

Speaker 5:
[57:56] Well, I've had a bunch of kids too, right?

Speaker 6:
[57:57] Right. And my thing is, it didn't matter from the start, right? But my thing is, it's like, you just basically repeat in a cycle.

Speaker 5:
[58:04] My, you know, my, my, it's real quick. It's, this is where I'm at with that. I don't care how much money you got. I don't care. That don't have nothing to do with your insecurities. It don't have nothing to do with your self-love, your self-confidence. That's how I feel. Like, you could have all that money and you still need to work on yourself. Because if she had did the work on herself, she probably wouldn't have went with him.

Speaker 6:
[58:27] And Cardi B got her own money. So it really wasn't no reason why for her to go with him.

Speaker 5:
[58:32] That's what I'm saying. That's why I say it don't have shit to do with how much money you got sometimes. If you just need to work on you and do some healing within, because you're going to keep on choosing the wrong shit.

Speaker 6:
[58:43] I'm going to stay out of rich folks' business.

Speaker 5:
[58:44] Yeah, she left that one and went right to some more wrong shit. But once again, I was like, yeah, I don't care. They got money, whatever.

Speaker 1:
[58:52] Real quick, let the people know, because you ladies are beautiful, very smart, where could they find you on your Instagram and social media? You say you have a new business. What is it?

Speaker 6:
[59:02] I have a medical spa and wellness center right here in Las Vegas. I'm located in a similar area. It is called Nursi Cosmetics and Aesthetics Wellness Center. You can find me on IG at the beauty NP injector underscore shy. And you can literally find me at Nursi Cosmetics Vegas for my business on all platforms.

Speaker 5:
[59:24] Okay. And I am Jenny. You can find me on IG at jennythinksrich or revamplux. I am a celebrity stylist, hair stylist. I've been doing that for years. I have a luxury.

Speaker 1:
[59:38] Jenny thinks rich.

Speaker 5:
[59:39] Yes. Jenny thinks rich. It's a mindset.

Speaker 1:
[59:41] There you go.

Speaker 5:
[59:41] You know what I'm saying? There you go. I don't like that. And so, and I have a luxury hair extension line. Yes.

Speaker 1:
[59:48] That's what's up. Well, listen, you ladies kind of took the show over today, man. I'm like, yeah, it was dope.

Speaker 6:
[59:54] You gotta come back.

Speaker 1:
[59:55] Yeah, yeah. I know, right?

Speaker 6:
[59:56] I like talking to you.

Speaker 1:
[59:57] Yeah, do y'all stay in Vegas now?

Speaker 5:
[59:59] We do. Yes.

Speaker 8:
[60:00] Oh yeah. Oh yeah.

Speaker 5:
[60:01] We live in Vegas now.

Speaker 1:
[60:03] We gotta do a whole separate show with y'all.

Speaker 6:
[60:05] Yeah, we do, right?

Speaker 5:
[60:05] Because this is something we haven't talked about, because you didn't even talk about old girl who got killed over there. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6:
[60:11] Y'all, that's the next show.

Speaker 5:
[60:12] Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that whole conversation.

Speaker 6:
[60:15] We gotta talk about that.

Speaker 1:
[60:15] Yeah, absolutely, because I was waiting for some more evidence to come back, because they didn't lock homeboy up yet or anything, but.

Speaker 5:
[60:22] They just owed him that. That's it.

Speaker 1:
[60:23] Yeah, yeah. They took his passport. They did very fishy, but we're about to talk business. Thank y'all for sitting. You good? PT and Larry, we appreciate you.

Speaker 8:
[60:33] I wanted to know, like, their attitudes. They said one of them, like, they got the, like, the rap singing. Any of them could sing?

Speaker 5:
[60:40] I think I can.

Speaker 6:
[60:41] I used to try to be a rapper when I was younger. I cannot rap.

Speaker 5:
[60:45] I think I can, but that's the next episode.

Speaker 6:
[60:49] We'll be back.

Speaker 5:
[60:50] Yeah.

Speaker 6:
[60:51] Stay tuned.

Speaker 1:
[60:52] Well, thank you for tuning in, everybody, to Talk With Flee. We'll see you next week.