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Speaker 1:
[00:00] Do you know what your net worth is today?

Speaker 2:
[00:02] No, no idea.

Speaker 1:
[00:03] If you had to guess.

Speaker 2:
[00:05] Probably like 5 million?

Speaker 1:
[00:07] No.

Speaker 2:
[00:08] 20 million? 5 to 20?

Speaker 1:
[00:10] No, it has to be more than that.

Speaker 2:
[00:12] I will go to my statistics.

Speaker 1:
[00:15] Hold on. Dude, my heart's like speeding up a little bit. You know how much money she makes an hour?

Speaker 3:
[00:20] Oh, this is a slow month.

Speaker 1:
[00:21] In July, she only made 3.4 million.

Speaker 3:
[00:23] How much were you making that very first month?

Speaker 2:
[00:25] I think I was making like 100,000. I think my first month, I made 100,000.

Speaker 1:
[00:30] What was going through your mind?

Speaker 2:
[00:32] Oh my god, I'm gonna buy the entire world. It was just crazy because I couldn't believe that you could even make this much.

Speaker 1:
[00:38] What's one of the biggest misconceptions out there that people say that you're like, oh my gosh, this is not true?

Speaker 2:
[00:42] I don't really care what gets put out there about me because I have thick skin. Obviously people are gonna say what they wanna say and they're gonna believe what they wanna believe because they hear certain things, but they don't know what happens behind closed doors.

Speaker 3:
[00:53] Have you ever done anything that is truly financially irresponsible?

Speaker 2:
[00:56] Yes.

Speaker 3:
[00:57] Which is? Sophie Reign, thank you so much for coming on The Iced Coffee Hour podcast.

Speaker 2:
[01:06] Thank you for having me here.

Speaker 3:
[01:07] You've gone viral so, so, so many times. I've seen you on my feed because of this clip, you're with David Dobrik, you show him your OF earnings.

Speaker 1:
[01:16] Yes.

Speaker 3:
[01:17] How much have you made so far on OF?

Speaker 2:
[01:19] The last time I checked, of all time.

Speaker 3:
[01:21] Yeah.

Speaker 2:
[01:22] Last time I checked, it was 100 million.

Speaker 1:
[01:24] Can we see that?

Speaker 2:
[01:25] Of course.

Speaker 1:
[01:26] I just want to see what that looks like.

Speaker 2:
[01:27] This has been just like a big thing that everyone's arguing online about, that it's fake and everything. I'm going to show you guys here in person that it is real.

Speaker 1:
[01:36] Are you not worried about showing people how much money you make?

Speaker 2:
[01:39] Definitely was a big concern of mine, but at this point, it's out there. I've been trying to prove for so long that this is how much I'm actually making and no one believes me. So I'm on the site and you can see that I'm not faking anything. I'm going here. I will go to my statistics, if it will load. And then this is the last 30 days. I'm going to hit all time and these are the two. So this is the gross.

Speaker 1:
[02:05] There's just, wow.

Speaker 2:
[02:07] And then you can see that it's not a screenshot. It's real.

Speaker 1:
[02:12] Hold on. Dude, my heart's speeding up a little bit.

Speaker 3:
[02:15] Okay. That's just completely unbelievable. From what I can tell, it seems authentic.

Speaker 1:
[02:18] I mean, it's real. I don't see why.

Speaker 3:
[02:21] What are people saying? Why are they saying you're making it up? How can they claim that you're making it up?

Speaker 2:
[02:25] They say that I'm photoshopping it and everything and that I'm lying about how much I make just because I don't know. I want to seem cooler, I guess, but I have no reason to lie. Everything I put out online is intentional. I wouldn't lie to anyone about that.

Speaker 1:
[02:42] Does that worry you though? But showing that much money and then now you become a target to people?

Speaker 2:
[02:46] I mean, not really. I have a really good financial advisor that keeps me in lock, and most of my money is in investments, so I'm not really too worried about that.

Speaker 1:
[02:55] What about the Amaranth situation where someone tried to break in and like steal your crypto?

Speaker 2:
[03:00] I'm not into crypto. I'm not in crypto.

Speaker 3:
[03:02] The idea out there is that you make more than LeBron James. What do you think about that?

Speaker 2:
[03:07] It's honestly unbelievable. I'm waiting every single day to like wake up from this dream because it just doesn't seem real, but we do very different things, obviously, and I think that he's a great basketball player and he deserves as much wealth as he gets, but we're just two top earners.

Speaker 1:
[03:24] So this makes you the top earner of OF?

Speaker 2:
[03:26] I believe so, yes. I mean, obviously, I don't know just because other people don't put out how much they make, but it says like on OF that I'm in the 0.1%.

Speaker 3:
[03:35] What do you think is the biggest misrepresentation of who you are?

Speaker 2:
[03:39] Right now, I think a lot of people believe that I make money off of my friends in the Bop House. That is a big misconception. I don't make money from anyone besides myself. I think that we're all just there to kind of support each other and help each other raise our income. And I think that that gets miscommunicated to the audience that I'm making money off of them because I'll sit there and I'll repost all of their posts. I'll post it like as if it was mine or something, just trying to get more traction on their pages. And that's all I'm trying to do is just support my friends. But people think that I'm making money off of them, and that is not true whatsoever. A lot of people also think I'm pregnant.

Speaker 3:
[04:15] Where did that get started?

Speaker 2:
[04:16] I think I got like just a little heavier. You know, I was eating good one week. And then people said I was pregnant, but I'm not pregnant.

Speaker 1:
[04:23] Do you lean into that sometimes? You'd be like, oh, maybe I am, I don't know.

Speaker 2:
[04:26] No.

Speaker 1:
[04:27] And then it gets, but doesn't that get more traction?

Speaker 2:
[04:29] It definitely would, it definitely would. I was thinking about it, but then again, I try to be as real as I can with my audience. So I was like, just, just, just not a good idea.

Speaker 3:
[04:39] So to earn over $100 million does not mean that you have 100 million, because there are platform fees, and then of course taxes.

Speaker 2:
[04:46] Of course, yes.

Speaker 3:
[04:47] How much do you pay in taxes?

Speaker 2:
[04:48] I pay a lot in taxes. I pay 37% of federal taxes, and I paid 83. I made 83 million last year total, so I paid 37% of that.

Speaker 1:
[05:01] And what do you do with like $40 million left over?

Speaker 2:
[05:04] I invest it. So I have currently, I'm in the process of getting three properties. I have two, about to have a third in Florida, and I invest it in as much as I can. I'm right now investing into my farm. I have cows that I take care of. That's my dream, is I want to own a cattle ranch. So I have 12 cows right now that I'm working with on 20 acres, and that's what I do in my free time.

Speaker 3:
[05:27] I'm just honestly in complete shock and dismay, because these numbers are, they're insane.

Speaker 1:
[05:32] We meet with some of the best, most respected business owners out there who have built their entire career, 30 years.

Speaker 3:
[05:39] Rappers, we have.

Speaker 1:
[05:40] And then they have like 200 million bucks, but it's taken them like 30 years to get that with prudent investing.

Speaker 2:
[05:46] Oh, yes. Oh, yeah. And I think that's like where a lot of the misconception also comes with OF is that obviously everyone thinks that it's an adult site, but it's not an adult site. You can do anything with your content on there. It's just a subscription page. So I know people who like, who have cooking channels on there, and they sell their recipes. And I think that's the great thing about it. You can do whatever you want on there and make a living off of it. And it's just the new digital world nowadays. Like it's constantly evolving and it's just it's I think it's great because people can come on here without having to invest $5 million under this one company trying to get 10% stock or whatever. You can make your own income just being you online.

Speaker 3:
[06:25] I mean, Graham had an OF for a while.

Speaker 1:
[06:26] Oh my gosh, I did briefly.

Speaker 2:
[06:28] Did you do good?

Speaker 1:
[06:29] No.

Speaker 2:
[06:29] Oh no?

Speaker 1:
[06:30] I shared stock tips and like basically what I was buying, what I was buying personally, I was dollar cost averaging into the markets. And I said, hey, as a joke, I'm going to start an only and I'll post what I'm buying on there. And I got a few people that signed up, but they all wanted pictures of me.

Speaker 2:
[06:45] So interesting.

Speaker 1:
[06:46] And then they just immediately unsubscribed.

Speaker 2:
[06:48] Did you send any pictures?

Speaker 1:
[06:49] No.

Speaker 2:
[06:49] Oh.

Speaker 3:
[06:49] Are you sure?

Speaker 1:
[06:50] I'm pretty sure. Some dude wanted Jack's shoes.

Speaker 3:
[06:54] Yeah, a guy offered to buy my shoes. They asked for feet pics like online.

Speaker 2:
[06:58] I mean, there's something for everyone out there. People are constantly trying to find their niche, I think.

Speaker 1:
[07:04] And what were you doing before OF?

Speaker 2:
[07:06] I was a server. I served for two years at a restaurant. It was a little mom and pop Italian place. I hosted, I cooked, I bartend, I served. I was full range. I could do everything there.

Speaker 3:
[07:19] Did you enjoy that life?

Speaker 2:
[07:20] Oh my God, I loved it. I loved it so much. My friend had to beg me to quit so I could focus on social media.

Speaker 3:
[07:27] So why would you then pivot to social media if that was a life that you truly claim to love?

Speaker 2:
[07:32] I pivoted to social media because I saw a lot of my friends doing it, and honestly, I wanted something out of my life because I knew I couldn't serve forever, obviously. That's just not something I wanted to do. And I grew up in a very poor household. My parents were constantly living paycheck to paycheck, and I wanted to make money. And obviously, social media, I was thinking is the way to go because it was right after COVID. Everyone, that's when everyone was blowing up on TikTok and everything. And I was like, you know what? I could do this. Like, I think I would be fine. I have pretty thick skin. Like, I think I could do it. And ever since then, it's been history.

Speaker 1:
[08:04] Did you worry about the stigma with all the time?

Speaker 2:
[08:07] A hundred percent. It was obviously a concern. Like, a lot of people, they know what OF is, obviously. But I think that my main goal here is to try to dissolve that stigma, just because you can do anything on the site. And it's not always like, I don't do any hardcore stuff on the site. And I think that a lot of people have that misconception just because they hear the word OF and they immediately think Bonnie Blue, you know, like stuff like that. But I love the site. You can do anything you want on there. And, you know, there's room for everyone.

Speaker 1:
[08:38] Why did you do so well?

Speaker 2:
[08:39] I think it was a lot of consistency. Another thing that I've noticed, like being around a lot of other girls in the industry is, I don't really care like what gets put out there about me because I have thick skin. Obviously, people are going to say what they want to say, and they're going to believe what they want to believe because they hear certain things, but they don't know what happens behind closed doors. And I know in my heart like what I'm doing, and that makes me happy. So I don't really care about what people say on my behalf online.

Speaker 3:
[09:04] And so you quit the serving job to do OF or to do social media. Okay. So it was directly from that to OF.

Speaker 2:
[09:11] Yes.

Speaker 3:
[09:11] And then why did you?

Speaker 2:
[09:12] I started social media first, and I was posting on TikTok for probably a good two months, three months, just gaining some traction. And then once I had like a big enough audience, that's when I started.

Speaker 3:
[09:23] So how big of an audience did you have?

Speaker 2:
[09:25] It wasn't major. I think maybe like a million followers on TikTok.

Speaker 3:
[09:28] That's pretty good.

Speaker 2:
[09:29] It was great. I'm grateful for everything, and I'm so happy to be where I am today, and it's because of all of my fans. But yeah, I started doing TikToks at first, and then I-

Speaker 3:
[09:42] And then when and why did you decide to do OF?

Speaker 2:
[09:45] Well, my sister was doing OF, and a lot of my friends were also doing it, like my cousin Aisha, she was doing it. And I asked them, I was like, what is it? Because I didn't know what was at the time. They were all doing it, and I wanted to try it out, and I did it, and I fell in love with it. It was a lot of fun. I found self-love doing that, like being on the site. Because at first, this was right after COVID, I was depressed, obviously, and everyone was just stuck inside. It was a crazy time. And I hated myself, and I started OF, and I'm so happy now. I'm so glad.

Speaker 1:
[10:18] What did you hate about yourself?

Speaker 2:
[10:20] I mean, I was in high school, obviously, just like cliche teenager stuff. Like I didn't like the way I looked. And I feel like everyone thinks that about themselves, obviously, but doing this, like I've just found a lot more self-confidence. Like I would never be here two years ago. Like I couldn't not do this.

Speaker 1:
[10:37] Why is that?

Speaker 2:
[10:37] Just because I was insecure, I was scared, but like growing up and being on the website and doing social media, like it really has taught me a lot, and I'm so happy where I am. And I wouldn't change it for anything.

Speaker 1:
[10:50] The other people doing only in the beginning, what were they making? Were they showing you their earnings and saying like, hey, it's been like six grand?

Speaker 2:
[10:59] Not really. I don't think anyone showed me their earnings directly. But I've obviously like I've heard word of mouth, like Cardi B is on the side, she's making $800 million or whatever she's making. And like, I thought that I could take that avenue and make some money. And here I am.

Speaker 3:
[11:16] On the topic of confidence, I'm curious, is it the money? Like to have F you money, does that make you confident? Because a lot of people, it does. So that would be totally reasonable because you have nothing to lose. You can just insulate yourself with your finances. Or is it through all of the failures that you went through in order to get to this point, the hate that you see online, you've had to develop a shell, what would you say it is?

Speaker 2:
[11:36] I honestly think it's the people who truly support me. Like the good comments that I see, I see a lot of people that love me and they comment like, I'm so beautiful or whatever. And I think those comments obviously helped me learn to love myself a little more. But also just growing up, like I'm a little older now, I know a lot more than I've learned so much doing this. I've learned more than I've ever learned in school. Like I never knew about taxes and all that stuff. I know how to do all this stuff now. I have a really great financial advisor who shows me everything step by step, how I should use my finances and what I should invest in and stuff like that. So I definitely think it has a little bit to do with the money. But I also think that it's just I found who I am by posting online because, obviously, in the beginning, I was just doing these little TikTok dances, and now I'm kind of evolving more into my own personality online, and people love that. And I think that that definitely boosted my confidence, just knowing that people are actually supporting me, and they love me for who I am, and I'm just-

Speaker 3:
[12:36] A lot of people, they do not like receiving those sorts of compliments. From some women, yes, sometimes I do surprisingly talk to women. Those women have said to me that they don't like it when they're walking on the street, like, hey, you're beautiful, hey, you look nice today, whatever. What makes this any different? How have you utilized that to gain confidence instead of the other people that sometimes do not like it?

Speaker 2:
[12:55] Well, I think that regardless, people are going to say what they want to say at the end of the day. You can never- If I'm going to walk on the sidewalk, of course someone's going to yell at me. That's just society nowadays. And I think that instead of looking at it in a negative light, you just keep walking and move on with your day. Take the compliment. It's okay. Now, obviously, if it's something crazy like cat calling and like, oh, blah, blah, blah, blah, obviously that's a little crazy. Don't do that. But I feel like it's different on social media also, because on social media, I'm obviously intentionally posting for those compliments.

Speaker 3:
[13:26] You know, Talares, I'm going to get reamed for saying this, but you remind me of Leila Hormozi. And let me justify it, because do you know who Alex Hormozi is?

Speaker 1:
[13:34] Our world. Alex Hormozi is the god of business.

Speaker 2:
[13:38] Okay.

Speaker 3:
[13:38] Business, entrepreneurship, finance, stuff like that. His wife, Leila Hormozi, she came on the podcast. We were talking about being impervious to the world around you. And if people say mean things, you're like, whatever, I'm going to continue to do my own thing. She gave a story where she's walking with Alex. Someone bumps into her and they say, watch out, skinny bitch. And a lot of people can be like, oh, what the heck, and spike their cortisol and get all angry and escalate the situation to a place it doesn't need to go to. Or in her case, she was just like, that's funny, you think I'm skinny.

Speaker 2:
[14:06] Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 3:
[14:06] And so she took it as a compliment. And because of that, the situation ended up resolving itself. And everything was totally fine. And it's just about being impervious to any stimulus.

Speaker 2:
[14:16] Yes.

Speaker 3:
[14:17] Turning anything into a positive experience.

Speaker 2:
[14:18] I agree. And that's what I try to do all the time. Because I think that's the only way I get through things, just because I know what it's like to be depressed and sad. I've been in and out of depression. And I just don't want to live my life like that. Like, why would I try to make myself stressed? Why would I try to make myself feel bad about something someone else said? Because clearly they have something going on in their life that they're... I think that we just need to spread more kindness around, because there's just so much bad shit going on in the world anyways.

Speaker 1:
[14:43] People usually writing the hate comments are always trying to punch up at someone else who's doing better than them. And it's never the people who are doing better than you who are like, oh, I want them down.

Speaker 2:
[14:53] Usually.

Speaker 3:
[14:54] When you decided to do OF right in the beginning, how much were you making that very first month?

Speaker 2:
[14:59] I think I was making like $100,000. I think my first month I made $100,000.

Speaker 1:
[15:04] What was going through your mind? Did you make it $100,000?

Speaker 2:
[15:06] I could not believe it. I genuinely could not believe it. I thought that like, oh my God, I'm going to buy, I'm going to buy the entire world. Like obviously, like I went from having no money to $100,000 in my first month on ONL. And I think that it was really eye-opening. It was just crazy because I couldn't believe that you could even make this much through being on the internet. But I'm just very grateful. And I'm very happy where I am. It was a lot of work.

Speaker 3:
[15:32] So I noticed a lot of bling on you right now. I see the S-R on your fingers. I don't know what watch that is, but I'm assuming that's not fake gold.

Speaker 2:
[15:40] No, it is.

Speaker 3:
[15:41] It's fake gold?

Speaker 2:
[15:42] Everything's from Amazon.

Speaker 1:
[15:43] Really?

Speaker 2:
[15:44] Everything is from Amazon.

Speaker 1:
[15:45] I was about to ask if it was fake.

Speaker 2:
[15:47] No, these are fake. Everything. This is the only real piece I have, I guess you could say. And I got it from Revolve. It was 120 bucks.

Speaker 3:
[15:55] So that's actually so real because no one would ever assume that you're wearing fake jewelry.

Speaker 2:
[16:00] Oh no, I wear fake jewelry all the time.

Speaker 3:
[16:02] So you can get away with it. Just buy all fake and everyone would assume it's real.

Speaker 2:
[16:05] I don't believe in buying real jewelry like that, just because I also lose jewelry no tomorrow. This is not going to exist next week. I'm going to just misplace it and forgot where it was and lose it. So I don't spend a lot of money on good jewelry just because I know I'm going to lose it.

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Speaker 3:
[17:17] But in that first month when you made the $100,000, you said you wanted to buy the world. What did you spend that money on?

Speaker 2:
[17:22] I think my first purchase was like a designer bag. I bought my first official designer bag. I think it was YSL. And ever since then, that's like one of my main things I spend money on is my purse collection. I have a purse collection. And I think it's from like, because growing up, I wasn't able to buy anything I wanted. I didn't have any extra money, obviously, because my parents didn't have any extra money. So we just, I went to school, went to sleep, went to school, went to sleep. We didn't go out and do anything. So I think that having money, I immediately obviously wanted to go spend it. And I did. I bought a lot of purses, which...

Speaker 3:
[18:00] In your first month?

Speaker 2:
[18:01] In my first month.

Speaker 3:
[18:01] How many purses?

Speaker 2:
[18:02] I think I bought seven in my first month.

Speaker 3:
[18:05] And from where?

Speaker 2:
[18:07] I love bats.

Speaker 1:
[18:07] From where?

Speaker 2:
[18:08] Louis Vuitton, Gucci.

Speaker 1:
[18:11] Do they give you a deal when you buy so many of them?

Speaker 2:
[18:13] No, I wish. I wish.

Speaker 1:
[18:15] What, if you buy like 10, you don't think that you would just say, hey, give me a little discount? I'm spending 100 grand?

Speaker 2:
[18:21] You would think.

Speaker 3:
[18:21] How much did you spend that first month?

Speaker 2:
[18:23] Oh, like, I don't know off the top of my head, but it had to have been around 50, like, definitely half of it. I went crazy.

Speaker 3:
[18:31] Did it feel good?

Speaker 2:
[18:32] It felt really good. It felt really good. It was great, just because, I don't know, it was different. I've never had money before in my life, so being able to actually buy something I wanted to buy without having to just want it, it was amazing.

Speaker 3:
[18:48] How quickly did your lifestyle adjust to those earnings? And your mental as well. At what point were you like, okay, I am making this amount of money, this does not feel like it's a dream?

Speaker 2:
[18:57] Honestly, probably around a year ago, it became very real for me because I just bought my first house a year ago. Before then, I was just living in apartments going back and forth. But I bought my first official house, and that's the 20 acres that I live at now. It's my farm. And I think that was the main eye-opener. Oh my God, I can afford a house. I never thought I was going to ever be able to buy a house one day, and now I own two.

Speaker 1:
[19:20] How much was the house?

Speaker 2:
[19:21] My house that I live at currently was 1.3.

Speaker 1:
[19:23] What about the 20 acre one? That's the 20 acres one.

Speaker 2:
[19:28] 20 acres was 1.3, and then I have a lake house that was 2.3.

Speaker 1:
[19:33] How do you ensure that people don't find the address of the house and show up?

Speaker 2:
[19:36] They do.

Speaker 1:
[19:37] They do?

Speaker 3:
[19:38] Do you have 24-hour armed guards, security and everything?

Speaker 2:
[19:41] I do, yes. I do.

Speaker 1:
[19:43] How often do people show up?

Speaker 2:
[19:45] No one has showed up yet, but I've gotten lots of threats to show up, and I've been swatted before at my house. I've had police called multiple times. It's just living in the state of Florida. Everything's public record.

Speaker 1:
[19:57] What's that like, getting swatted?

Speaker 2:
[19:58] Oh, it was terrifying. And the way that it happened too, it was just disgusting because I was just at home. It was late at night. It was like seven or eight or something, and I'm just on my couch. And I get a call from my dad, and he's like, this person is texting all of our family members, like, what's going on? And it was very serious threats. It was very disgusting behavior. And so I'm reading all this. I'm on the phone with my dad. And everything's kind of going on at once. And then at my front door, immediately I'm like, what's going on? So I opened the door, and it's a police officer. And he's like, we got a call. Are you okay? We have to check on you. Your dad called. And I was like, no, I'm on the phone with my dad right now. And then he was like, okay, well, I just have to check the house, make sure everything's good, blah, blah, blah. He came, whatever. He left. And as soon as he left, I got on the phone with my lawyer, because obviously I knew something's happening, like people are leaking my address. And as soon as I got on the phone with my lawyer, my power cut off. So I'm like, oh my God, like I started freaking out. And then immediately my lawyer was like, oh, are you sure that was a real police officer?

Speaker 1:
[21:02] Just what I was thinking.

Speaker 2:
[21:03] And immediately I went to my bathroom. I was like, I don't know why he didn't show me his badge or anything. Like now that I'm thinking about it, I didn't see anything. And it was just all a coincidence. Like my neighbor's power also turned off. It was a real police officer. And then the next day I got a call from the FBI because they already, I filed reports and everything. They knew everything was going on. And I got a call from the FBI asking if I was building my house. And I obviously am not building my house. But yeah, that's been fun. They were on the way to my house. They didn't actually go into my house, but they came to my property.

Speaker 1:
[21:34] Couldn't you buy the property in an irrevocable trust with a lawyer on title, and then your name doesn't show up?

Speaker 2:
[21:40] So these are the things they don't teach you in school. I had to learn that obviously afterwards after I bought my house. And now that I already bought my house, I would have to resell it and then buy it again if I wanted it under the trust.

Speaker 1:
[21:51] Not even. Even if you do that, it's still going to show on title because what people could do is do basically a back search. And they could say, oh, wait a second, she used to live here and now all of a sudden it's in a trust, and she didn't sell it. So for your next house, you could do it completely anonymously.

Speaker 2:
[22:08] Yes. And that is my plan. And I now know all of this. I know ways to protect me because I've also contacted my county to try and get all of my records removed and everything because like just everything is online. And they said that they're working on it, but I-

Speaker 1:
[22:25] They're not going to do it.

Speaker 2:
[22:25] Yeah. I was going to say, I don't think they're doing it. That's whatever. It's fine. It's just it comes with the industry.

Speaker 1:
[22:30] I would highly recommend you set up an irrevocable trust and get everything out of your name.

Speaker 2:
[22:34] I have one now. I do have one now. All of my everything's under it, all of my vehicles. I do have one really nice ring and that's under it. I bought it from Gucci. I don't know what collection it was, but that was the one jewelry that I have not lost yet because I refused to wear it. How much was that? I think it was just a ring and I think it was $14,000.

Speaker 1:
[22:57] That's actually not bad. I thought you were about to say, yeah. Yeah, come on.

Speaker 2:
[23:00] Okay, thank you.

Speaker 3:
[23:01] We had Christine, you probably don't know who she is. We had her on the podcast.

Speaker 1:
[23:04] Selling Sunset.

Speaker 3:
[23:04] She had spent on a ring. She spent $1.3 million or something on a ring.

Speaker 2:
[23:09] Okay. I feel a lot better about my $14,000 ring.

Speaker 3:
[23:11] Technically, you could.

Speaker 2:
[23:13] I technically could. You're right. I feel like that would be silly for me to do.

Speaker 3:
[23:16] Have you ever done anything that is truly financially irresponsible?

Speaker 2:
[23:21] Yes.

Speaker 3:
[23:22] Which is?

Speaker 2:
[23:24] I believe that when I bought my dream car, I should have just waited because I've lost a lot of it. It lost a lot of its value. But you know what? It's okay because it's my dream car. I'm probably never going to sell it.

Speaker 1:
[23:33] What is it?

Speaker 2:
[23:34] It's a Porsche, a 2024 Porsche GT3 RS.

Speaker 1:
[23:38] What did you pay for it? How does it lose that much money?

Speaker 2:
[23:41] I paid $500,000 for it.

Speaker 1:
[23:42] What's it worth now?

Speaker 2:
[23:43] I think it's worth $400,000, maybe $350,000.

Speaker 1:
[23:46] So these really aren't that bad.

Speaker 3:
[23:48] Does that bother you?

Speaker 2:
[23:49] I mean, no, not really, because I know I'm never going to sell it.

Speaker 3:
[23:52] I don't even think that's financially responsible.

Speaker 1:
[23:54] No.

Speaker 2:
[23:55] But I shouldn't have bought it when I did, because I bought it. I should have definitely bought a house first. That was the first thing I bought.

Speaker 1:
[24:01] That was my biggest purchase.

Speaker 2:
[24:03] Because I was like, you know what? I made it. I think this was like six months, maybe a year into doing OF, and I wanted something for myself and I hadn't bought anything big for myself, besides obviously like little purses and here and there. So I bought my dream car and that was that.

Speaker 3:
[24:20] Even your most financially irresponsible thing is not even as close to my most irresponsible financial.

Speaker 2:
[24:26] What's yours?

Speaker 3:
[24:27] Probably my Tesla. I bought a Tesla for $58,000.

Speaker 1:
[24:30] And I told them not to buy it.

Speaker 3:
[24:31] Don't even get started with me right now, Graham, because you told me not to buy a house, and I bought the house and that worked out. So he always thinks he knows what's up.

Speaker 1:
[24:37] You got lucky.

Speaker 3:
[24:38] I bought the Tesla. It was $58,000 when I got it. And now three or four years later, it's probably worth $25,000. So it's halved in value. And I guess obviously the numbers are different, but also the income is different. But still, congratulations. Thank you.

Speaker 2:
[24:55] I love her. She's my baby. She sits in the garage most of the time.

Speaker 3:
[24:59] How many cars do you have now?

Speaker 2:
[25:00] I have my Porsche. I have Cadillac Escalade V. That's my mom car. I have a Raptor R. I have a mini truck. That is like my farm truck. It's like the little Japanese cars. It's the steering wheels on the other side. That is so cool. And then I have two business trucks.

Speaker 3:
[25:19] Is it like the KEI truck? I have a picture of it.

Speaker 2:
[25:22] Yes, yes. It's like the little flatbed. I wrapped it pink. I love her. She's so amazing. That's awesome. That's my favorite car. I had it imported from Japan.

Speaker 3:
[25:32] Yeah, okay, so I actually looked into getting these as well. There's a guy that lives in Salt Lake, and his whole job is like buying these, importing them from Japan, and then restoring them. They're really cheap. You can get one of them for like a few thousand dollars.

Speaker 2:
[25:43] I think I bought mine for two, like 2,000.

Speaker 3:
[25:45] But then you had to pay the import fees and everything?

Speaker 2:
[25:47] Yep.

Speaker 3:
[25:48] I mean, that's still an impressive car collection. It's very diverse, which is nice. And then jewelry.

Speaker 2:
[25:51] Yes.

Speaker 3:
[25:53] To pocket watch, what's up with the jewelry? This is it? This is all you have aside from the ring?

Speaker 2:
[25:58] Yeah, this is it.

Speaker 1:
[25:59] You put on all of your jewelry today in one go.

Speaker 2:
[26:02] I have these little belly chains that I wear sometimes. If I'm in a bikini, it's just that. But literally everything's from Amazon. I'll lose this within a week, and I'll just go on Amazon and buy new bracelets.

Speaker 3:
[26:12] I feel like you would lose it because you bought it so cheaply. But if you got something more expensive like that ring, then you would protect it.

Speaker 2:
[26:17] No. And I've had really nice jewelry before. I used to have Van Cleef bracelets. I used to have Louis bracelets, Louis rings. I used to be decked out in designer. And it's all gone. Every single piece is gone.

Speaker 1:
[26:29] How do you know it's lost and not stolen?

Speaker 2:
[26:31] Because I'm very irresponsible with misplacing things.

Speaker 1:
[26:34] But maybe you put it down and someone else comes and just like, I mean, that is also a possibility.

Speaker 2:
[26:39] That definitely is a possibility. But I believe that there's good people surrounded by me and that no one would try to steal anything from me. I just think I lose it very often because sometimes I'll just take it off, throw it in my purse, and then my purse tips over and it falls out of my purse, and I don't pick it up if I don't see it. I definitely think that that's how I lost a lot of my jewelry.

Speaker 3:
[26:57] Would you say money buys happiness?

Speaker 2:
[27:01] Yes and no. I feel like that is a very fine line. Money definitely has made me a lot happier, but I think that there's a lot inside that people still need to work on. That money just cannot help whatsoever. So I obviously think like, yes, money is nice because you don't stress about certain things. I don't stress about bills or anything, and I think that's very nice, but I also stress about other things that everyone stresses about, family issues, other things, relationship, this and that. So I think that there's a fine line between that, and there's no right or wrong answer.

Speaker 1:
[27:30] What's your biggest stress today?

Speaker 2:
[27:31] Honestly, right now, going to go see my grandparents. I've been meaning to go see my grandparents, and it's been stressing me out because I haven't had time to go. I've been traveling from place to place, and that's really stressing me out. So I think I'm flying home tonight, I'm going to go straight there. I'm not even going to go home. I'm going to just go straight to my grandparent's house because I need to see them.

Speaker 3:
[27:46] Do you have a close relationship with your family?

Speaker 2:
[27:48] I do.

Speaker 3:
[27:49] A lot of people speculate that in order for a girl to do OF, then they have a fractured relationship with their parents and it's sort of like a defiant nature. What do you think about that?

Speaker 2:
[27:58] I don't think that's true at all. I think it's all part of the stigma that people have created for OF people. And I have a really great relationship with my family, like definitely, and I'm not going to sit here and lie at first. It was not good. When I obviously started, I introduced, I talked to my mom and she wasn't happy about it, but I showed her what I'm doing online. I'm being very safe. I have a great group of people around me. And she was supportive after one conversation. Like she just, I think that she just didn't understand it also. And I think a lot of people still don't understand.

Speaker 1:
[28:25] Oh, what about your dad?

Speaker 2:
[28:28] He loves it. He loves it. He doesn't mind at all. Like he knows what I'm doing exactly. They watch my TikToks. My mom actually just texted me earlier talking about my new TikTok that I posted with Tara's world. And they're very supportive. My grandparents know what's going on and everything.

Speaker 1:
[28:43] Did they ever give you an Easter warning of like, hey, these are like the downsides? Or were they overall pretty supportive?

Speaker 2:
[28:50] I think when we had our initial conversation, they definitely had a lot of concerns and they were telling me their concerns. But I could, I told them obviously like, this is not a concern for me. Like this is how I see it and I'm being very safe and I'm surrounded by great people. Like I would obviously never put myself in harm's way if I, you know, if I can avoid it, I'm going to avoid it. But they're all very supportive.

Speaker 1:
[29:09] So why do people have the stigma with, because from my perspective, it's really no different than like a swimsuit model. And those seem to be celebrated.

Speaker 3:
[29:19] Well, hold on a second.

Speaker 1:
[29:20] What?

Speaker 3:
[29:21] I think we need to-

Speaker 1:
[29:21] Are we divergent?

Speaker 3:
[29:23] No, no, no, no. I think when you're saying a swimsuit model, I mean, OF is primarily used for like, you know, it's most of the people use it for that. So I don't want to like technically mis-

Speaker 1:
[29:38] I know, but everyone gets lumped in the same category.

Speaker 3:
[29:40] That's true.

Speaker 2:
[29:40] And I think that's where a lot of the stigma comes from, is like, like I obviously don't do anything heavily, like, like on there. I'm not sure if I was allowed to say it. Everyone just thinks that I'm out here doing like Bonnie Blue type stuff, but really I'm not. Like, I'm just very, I'm very, I keep it very natural on my side. Like, I don't do anything crazy. I love the content I post out there. People love the content I post out there. And I think that the stigma just comes from years of, you know, obviously, and all of these other sites, you know, there's just, there's always been adult content out there. And I don't think that that will ever change in anyone's eyes, but I, you know, I'm here to tell you guys it can. Only if OF is very different. It can be anything you want it to be, like truly, like it's not all content on the site. There's other people on the site.

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Speaker 3:
[31:49] So what would you say are the main reasons why people think you're controversial?

Speaker 2:
[31:54] Well, definitely my income. I think that's very controversial for a lot of people, just because people don't believe it. But it is very real. Another, I mean, definitely just being on the site is controversial. A lot of people think like me posting on TikTok, I'm trying to promote, you know, joining OF. That's obviously not what I'm doing at all. I made multiple videos on the pros and the cons of OF and why you should join it and why you should not join it. But I also think that like it shouldn't have to be the serious discussion. Like it's, it's 2026. Like, you know, the Epstein files are out. Like, who cares? Like, do what you want to do. Like, do what makes you happy. And this makes me happy. And I'm, you know, I'm confident in myself and everything.

Speaker 3:
[32:33] So what are the main pros and cons of starting an OF?

Speaker 2:
[32:36] Starting an OF, I mean, I think my main con was finding confidence. Like, I really, I, if y'all met me like three years ago, I'm a completely different person. Like, I've just gained so much confidence from doing this. Obviously, money is a great con. You can make money on it.

Speaker 3:
[32:51] Like a pro.

Speaker 2:
[32:52] A pro, yes, sorry. Yeah, okay. Is a great pro. All the taxes.

Speaker 3:
[32:55] That's a big con.

Speaker 2:
[32:56] That's a big con also. And some cons are obviously like privacy. Like you get your privacy invaded. I really try very hard to like have a private life and then also post the kind of content I want to post on social media just because everything I do is intentional. And then when I go home, I know that like I can turn my phone off and I can fall back and not have to worry about these people judging me or doing this or that or whatever, just because I keep it very separate. And I think that's a lot of people fail doing that and then they get lost in social media. So I definitely advocate that a lot to make sure that you can fall back on something when it gets too hard online. Because I mean, I can stay here and say all the time that like the hate comments don't get to me, but it's tiring also. Like it's just tiring posting online every single day. Like it's just human nature. You know, like you can't, it's just repetitive. And it's nice that I can go be at my farm, play with my cows and not have to worry about anything.

Speaker 3:
[33:52] What do you say to those who argue there is imbalance of power between the creator and the consumer? Because usually the consumer is going to be sort of intimately involved in the experience. And for them, it may be consensual, but if they're psychologically or mentally disadvantaged in that relationship, because for you, it's a transaction, for them, a lot of the times it can be a little bit more than that. It's like a transaction. It's also some semblance of a relationship. Then there is this sort of like imbalance of power. A lot of money is there to be made in that imbalance of power. What do you say to that?

Speaker 2:
[34:27] I think a lot of it is just miss... A lot of people aren't educated online. I think it's very... There's just so much that happens on social media, and it's changing every single day. And I think a lot of these people, you know, like anything on the internet is dangerous. It's, you know, YouTube can be dangerous. TikTok could be dangerous. It just depends on how you use it. And you have to use it, you know, with intention. And I think that's all I try to do.

Speaker 3:
[34:52] Due to the nature of your content, what is the average fan interaction look like? Because for us, it can be quite pleasant. Like someone, for example, can just be like, yo, what's up, man? Love the pod. You do a great job out there. Awesome. Keep it up. I'm like, oh, thanks. And that's it. Sometimes pictures, sometimes this, sometimes that, but it's usually very chill. I imagine with you, it could be a little bit more unique.

Speaker 2:
[35:14] It's definitely unique. A lot of people think that's what just come up to me and touch me whenever they want to.

Speaker 3:
[35:18] Have people tried that?

Speaker 2:
[35:19] A hundred percent people have. And I think that's definitely a con that I like to say out there. Obviously, these men, they see you online, and when they see you in person, they're obviously going to think that they can do anything. And it's just not okay to just go up and touch someone randomly. I just don't think that's okay regardless if I'm online or not. But a lot of my fan interactions are actually really great. A lot of them just know me from TikTok, and they'll come up, they'll ask for a picture, they'll ask what I'm doing here, how's my day going. I'll normally ask them what's a good place to go around here, because most of the times, they're locals. And it's great. I love meeting new people just because I can get that kind of information.

Speaker 1:
[35:55] Do you travel with security?

Speaker 2:
[35:57] I try to. I definitely try to. I don't, though, normally.

Speaker 3:
[36:02] That would be spooky for me.

Speaker 2:
[36:05] It's crazy. It's definitely crazy, but I take the good with the bad. I'm so grateful to be here and I don't regret anything. I would never change anything. So I'm just happy to be alive.

Speaker 1:
[36:17] Why do you think so many people believe that OXX is harming society?

Speaker 2:
[36:22] Well, I think a lot of it is the stigma. Also, I think anything on the Internet, it can be harmful and the way you use it. A lot of people think that OXX is a site, and it is just not. And I say this in every podcast, every interview I do, it is just such a big platform that you can do anything you want. And I've built a business from doing this. I just think a lot of people, they look at it in a negative light, and I think that it's a lot of misinformation that they have, and they just need to...

Speaker 1:
[36:55] Do you think OXX is harmful?

Speaker 2:
[36:57] I mean, I definitely think it's harmful in certain ways. It depends on how you use it.

Speaker 3:
[37:01] So what would be harmful and a not harmful way of using it?

Speaker 2:
[37:04] I mean, obviously, if you're heavily addicted to porn, it's definitely an issue. I'm Christian, so it's just not good to be heavily addicted to porn. But I also think it's human nature, like obviously, like you can't, I mean, like everyone does it. I feel like everyone has looked at something before. And I just think it's human nature. And I think that we shouldn't deny that.

Speaker 3:
[37:25] That would be a non-harmful way of viewing it as just like casually perusing is what you're saying?

Speaker 2:
[37:31] I mean, not like casually perusing. I think that it's the way that you use it. Everything on the internet is different. I think, you know, if you're going to look at these models in a negative light, obviously, like that's not okay, but I just feel like it doesn't have to be that way. Like it's 2026, like free the tit, like what happened to that? Like, I think that it's fine. And I don't think that it should be a look down on thing.

Speaker 1:
[37:56] What about what Bonnie Blue is doing? Because you brought her up.

Speaker 2:
[37:59] Yes.

Speaker 1:
[37:59] What are your thoughts on that?

Speaker 2:
[38:00] I mean, like, and then here's where the picture comes in, that it's just a giant spectrum. Like you can do whatever you want on the website. And you know, that's what she wants to do. And if she's comfortable with that, and if she's happy, and like, all power to you, like, do that. I would never personally do that. I think it's crazy. But I also like, like if she's happy, I don't see anything wrong with it.

Speaker 3:
[38:19] Are you insecure at all about the potential consequences of the work that you do?

Speaker 2:
[38:25] Like what?

Speaker 3:
[38:26] Like, I mean, inevitably, I'm sure that even in the messages or with some people that have subscribed to your OF, you've probably had a couple choice encounters where in the beginning, like you see that their life is like maybe like normal, and then maybe they can go down like a rabbit hole, and then had a really unhealthy relationship with it. And then years later, they're like, oh my gosh, you know, like paying for absolutely everything. Like you probably experienced this being a creator on the platform.

Speaker 2:
[38:50] Yes. Well, I obviously don't have controls like over other people's actions. We're all adults at the end of the day, we can all make decisions for ourselves. And I think that if you're just not well educated, that's, I can't do anything about that. I'm sorry, I'm posting content out there for that reason, I want people to buy, and I think I'm doing that and I'm successfully.

Speaker 3:
[39:13] So you would say it's up to the consumer to determine what is right and wrong for them?

Speaker 2:
[39:18] 100%. I do believe that, just because I know what values I have and I'm a Christian and everything. And I know what I post out there and everything's intentional. And I think that people online, they obviously they get to invest it into it sometimes. And I think that we need a lot of edu- like we just need to be more educated.

Speaker 3:
[39:39] What does Christianity mean to you?

Speaker 2:
[39:42] I grew up Christian my entire life. I just, I remember like, that was the one thing I had in my life was my relationship with God. And honestly, like we have a great relationship. I know I make mistakes every day, like everyone's sins. And, you know, we're just, we're tight, you know? He's got me. If anything fails, he's got me.

Speaker 3:
[40:02] Do you think that like to juxtapose your job as a creator on OF with some sort of Christianity, like there could be some sort of contention there?

Speaker 2:
[40:11] I don't believe so. I don't look at it like that at all. And I just think like, I think it's just outdated in a lot. It's the stigma that people are just continuously thinking like this, like I truly don't believe that there, that it's not conflicting with my religion at all.

Speaker 3:
[40:25] Have you, like, how would you say that it's not conflicting? And this is not by any means trying to be like any sort of accusatory. I'm agnostic. I'm not even like religious. I'm just trying to understand because I hear a lot of stuff from some Christian friends and then like to think about how that relates to content made on OF. I'm like, okay, well, that seems, there seems to be some sort of dissonance there.

Speaker 2:
[40:44] I think that religion is personal. Everyone has a different experience with religion. I say I'm Christian, but I don't push out my values on other people. I know my relationship I have with God. If I sin, I know that he will forgive me. And if I wasn't meant to be here, I wouldn't be here. He wouldn't have put me in this position. And I know what I'm doing is we're good. I know that if I wasn't supposed to be where I am today, he would make it known because he's done that before in my life.

Speaker 1:
[41:13] And where do you draw the moral line? And where do you draw your boundaries?

Speaker 2:
[41:17] I mean, obviously, when I don't like something, I just won't do it. If I'm uncomfortable, I'm not going to do it. I know my boundaries, but I don't see anything morally incorrect with it or anything, if that's the question.

Speaker 1:
[41:33] Is there anything you see that's maybe morally questionable that's going on with OF? Because I see a lot of creators getting some backlash, and also a lot of publicity for signing up the day they turn 18.

Speaker 2:
[41:47] I mean, they're adults. I think that they can make their own decision on whatever they want to do in their life, because it's their life. Anything on the internet can be harmful in its own ways. It just really depends on the way you use it.

Speaker 3:
[41:59] Where do you draw the line personally, morally, with what you do?

Speaker 2:
[42:03] That's kind of a loaded question. I don't really know how to answer that.

Speaker 3:
[42:07] Maybe there's been an offer presented to you, that you said, no, I'm not willing to do that.

Speaker 2:
[42:12] I mean, it's definitely happened before. I just do what I'm comfortable with.

Speaker 1:
[42:16] Do you think society judges the creators more than the consumers?

Speaker 2:
[42:20] 100%. 100%. I definitely think that the creators get all the backlash. And not the consumers, but also, like, there's so many consumers also. How could you ever blame them because they're the ones buying the content? I think they're supporting me at the end of the day. So, I think it's all right.

Speaker 1:
[42:40] What do you think is the biggest criticism about you that's valid?

Speaker 2:
[42:43] Biggest criticism about me that's valid? I don't know. I really like don't, I don't like read up on myself. Is that bad? Like, I don't look at what other people are saying about me. Like, I could not tell you what the number one story of me is right now online, just because that's another boundary I have. It's like, I don't read what other people are saying about me online because I know in my heart what I like to do and who I am. So, who cares what this person is saying about me? Because obviously, they're wrong. They don't know me for me.

Speaker 1:
[43:10] Did you used to read the comments?

Speaker 2:
[43:12] Oh, 100 percent. 100 percent.

Speaker 1:
[43:14] And when did you stop? Was there a certain thing that happened or something that you read?

Speaker 2:
[43:18] I obviously still read the comments. I don't think anyone can just post and not read the comments, but I definitely have thicker skin now. That doesn't get to me as much. And I think it was probably like a year of doing this. I got really thick skin.

Speaker 3:
[43:34] I think that's important, because even bringing you on this show, we've not really done very much of like OF or anything on this, like in terms of guests we've brought on. We've had on Celeberry, we've had on Kazumi, I think that's it, right?

Speaker 1:
[43:47] Kazumi, we filmed twice.

Speaker 3:
[43:48] Yeah, Kazumi, we had to film twice. The first time we filmed with her, it was too much that we weren't able to post it. We were like, okay, we're probably drawing the line here.

Speaker 1:
[43:55] Yeah.

Speaker 3:
[43:55] Also, my grandma watches the podcast and says sometimes I'm like, okay.

Speaker 1:
[43:58] Our barometer is Jack's grandma.

Speaker 3:
[44:00] It really is. Well, sometimes I just tell her, hey, Gigi, do not tune in to this on-

Speaker 1:
[44:05] He didn't say that in the beginning, though. So Gigi could watch this episode.

Speaker 3:
[44:08] I might. We'll see how this ends up going. But yes, so that's usually our barometer, what we're willing and not willing to post. I know we're going to get a lot of backlash from this. And the way I justify it is I will take criticisms very seriously from people that I know and from people that I trust. People that are online that don't really know the extent of the situation, they may be able to hear us say that this podcast is all about hearing different perspectives and it would be wrong of us to ignore this entire economy of OF. That is something that truly does exist. And for us to turn our heads and say, no, it doesn't. And to explore the morals and the money and this lifestyle is all very interesting.

Speaker 2:
[44:45] It's just something completely new. Like there's nothing, there's never been anything like this. Like I know I have, I've made obviously a crazy amount of money and I can live comfortably now. And it's just, I don't think that there's ever been something like this on the internet, like just that fast, you know? It's pretty crazy.

Speaker 3:
[45:00] But people will cast judgment regardless. And it's contingent upon you and the people that you trust in order to give you like proper criticism. For example, if I asked a few people like, hey, what do you think we're considering bringing Sophie Rain into the podcast? We were also almost going to shoot with Lil Tay. So Lil Tay, you stopped responding to my texts. And your manager. She goes to Jack. Yeah, she actually, she DM'd us first. And she was like, hey, can we do a podcast? And I was like, yes, we'd love to. And then we were in Puerto Rico, we're gonna film with Logan Paul. And then she stopped responding to the texts, as well as her manager. But hopefully one day, maybe one day.

Speaker 2:
[45:30] Surely one day.

Speaker 3:
[45:31] People would say, hey, are you sure that's something that you wanted to do? And I would take the criticism very seriously from the people that we know and trust.

Speaker 2:
[45:37] Of course. I mean, obviously the people that I'm very close with, they tell me, obviously, if they don't like something I posted, or they like something I posted. And I definitely take that into heart, but I feel like anyone online who doesn't really know me, I try not to read anything about it, just because I know who I am. That's all I try to do.

Speaker 1:
[45:54] Where do most people go wrong when they try to replicate your success?

Speaker 2:
[45:58] I think overworking themselves. I definitely have been there, like, just constantly on live or on doing Instagram photos. Like, overworking yourself is not the way to do it, because then you get burnt out, and then you don't like social media, and then you don't want to post anymore. You have to just do what makes you happy, but consistency is definitely key. What I do is I work a week out of the month, and I get all of my content in one week, and then I can be home for the rest of the month and post. I'm posting every single day, but most of the time I am actually traveling just because I'm always going here to go meet this person, and then my cousin's flying here to go here, and I want to go with her. But that's what I do normally, is I just get a whole bunch of content out in one week.

Speaker 3:
[46:39] You mentioned a lot of traveling, and I heard from your friends, the people you brought along here, that you guys flew private.

Speaker 2:
[46:48] Yes, we did fly private.

Speaker 3:
[46:50] When did you start flying private? And how did you financially justify that?

Speaker 2:
[46:53] The first time I flew private was because our flight got canceled, and I really wanted to get home. We were fresh off a two-week Japan trip, and I landed in LA, and our flight got canceled, and there wasn't a next flight, I think the next night or something. And it was me and my friend, me and my cousin, and we were like, you know what, we're not waiting in LA any longer. We wanted to be home, so he's like, I'm going to go, I'm going to try to find PJ Charters. And I was like, I don't know what that is. I didn't know anything about private jets, obviously, like private jet. And so he looked it up, we found one, we went to go home the first time. And this is actually a really funny story. This is my first PJ fly ever. We get there to fly home from my two-week Japan trip, and both tires are flat on the plane. So they're like, oh, there's nothing we can do. You can fly commercial if you want to, or we can try to put you on this plane that's two hours away. And we're like, okay, well, the next commercial flight isn't until tomorrow. That's why we're here. So we told them, drive us to this two-hour place and let's go try to fly out of this private jet because it's not, obviously, I don't own the private jet. It's just other people's private jets that they charter. And so we get into this one plane and we're taking off. It's like 3 p.m. now and everything. And the entire plane shuts off while we're in the air. I don't know what this means, but the pilot said that the pitch in the elevator broke. So we basically couldn't go up and down. We were just gliding in the air after we took off. So I just remember it absolutely crying, oh my god, my first PJ ride and I'm gonna die. I don't know why I ever agreed to this. I should have just stayed commercial. I love commercial, I love first class. And it was fine, we landed, and we weren't able to fly private that day, so we had to wait the next night to fly private. And then after that, I was like, I'm never gonna fly private again. This sucks, why do people do this? Just because I had such a bad experience the first time. Now it's just very convenient. I don't have to go into the airport at all and go through security or anything. You just get right on the plane, and I think time is money, and I feel like I save a lot of time doing that. And also, I've had really bad experiences in the airport with fans coming up to me. I don't like them just because my luggage is out and everything, and I don't like, I've had just really bad experiences.

Speaker 3:
[49:03] What experiences have you had?

Speaker 2:
[49:05] Just people wanting to get too close, people trying to, I've had someone try to look into my bag while I'm taking photos with someone. I just, I'm not comfortable in the airport, especially traveling alone, I travel alone a lot. So I like private just because it's also just a little bit safer for me, just in my experience, just because I mainly travel alone.

Speaker 3:
[49:25] Do you really only fly private now then?

Speaker 2:
[49:27] No, no, no, no. I flew commercial to LA. The only reason why I flew private here to Vegas with you guys today just is because there was no flights early in the morning. I need to get here.

Speaker 1:
[49:38] Are you familiar with JSX? It's like a private airline. You share it with other people, and it is incredible. We take it quite a bit from Vegas to LA.

Speaker 2:
[49:49] Okay. I'm definitely going to have to look that up. Because I was thinking about that this morning. I was like, why isn't there Uber ride share for private jets? But that's basically what that is. See, I'm just not as educated in the aviation industry, I guess.

Speaker 1:
[50:03] So where else do you spend your money?

Speaker 2:
[50:05] Right now, I mean, honestly, I haven't really been spending like crazy amounts. The last big purchase I made was my farm that I now live at. I try to invest as much as I can.

Speaker 1:
[50:17] What are you investing in the most? Any stock tips?

Speaker 2:
[50:22] I wish, I really wish. My financial advisor does all my investing for me, just because I don't know anything about the stock world. I really want to learn just because I do want to invest more. But he is investing in separate things for each of my family members, if that makes sense. So I told him, like, my biggest goal is to make sure my family is also financially stable after I am not on social media anymore. So each of my siblings, each of my parents, they have like their own investment account that gets money put into every year. And then after I'm done doing this, I want to give it to them. And that's like, I guess that's my biggest spender. That's where most of my money goes is like, is into those investment accounts for my family. Just because my brother is about to graduate from college, I want him to be able to buy a house when he graduates. So that's what that's for. I'm hoping, same thing for my older brother. I want him to eventually buy a house soon. I'm hoping that he can use this, but I'm not going to give it to them now just because I want it to sit there and grow.

Speaker 1:
[51:15] Do you think OF is harder than a nine to five?

Speaker 2:
[51:18] Honestly, no, it's not. When I was serving, I remember pulling my hair, actually sitting there pulling my hair just because it was so stressful. But OF is definitely, it's definitely stressful. I can't sit here and lie and say that it's not stressful at all, and it's easy peasy and everything, but it's definitely stressful. But I think that it's as stressful as you make it to be. It's online. You control everything on your own site. It doesn't have to be something that you don't like or makes you stressful. Just do what you like and makes you happy.

Speaker 3:
[51:55] What would you say are the key metrics in becoming successful on OF? Is it marketing, is it beauty, or is it something else?

Speaker 2:
[52:01] I think the number one key thing to do is to have an audience before you drop an OF. That's what I did. I started growing my audience on TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, every single social media platform. I grew an audience at first, and then I dropped my OF. And I think that's something a lot of people don't do is they just come straight onto social media and here's my link. I think that you need to post yourself out there kind of like marketing. You need to market yourself out there. You need to post on TikTok so people can know who you are. Because obviously, if I hear, oh, this person dropped an OF, I don't know who that is. But someone that's been on social media for a year now, who's been getting a little bit of traction, I've seen her in this person's TikTok and I've seen her on this post. Obviously, people know the name, so they're going to try to see. Whatever.

Speaker 1:
[52:45] Yeah. How competitive is it now? Everyone is just dropping OnlyFans.

Speaker 2:
[52:51] I was going to say, everyone's doing it. I don't see it as competition. I think that there's room for everyone and that's the great thing about it, just because you can do anything on there and you don't have to stick to one specific thing to be on the site.

Speaker 3:
[53:07] What about you specifically? Why do you think it's you that is the number one creator on the entire platform making over $100 million? That's just absurd.

Speaker 2:
[53:15] I wish that I had a good answer for this, but I honestly think that I'm very consistent. I stay true to my values. I post with intention and I just am who I am. I'm not trying to fake anything, like this is just who I am.

Speaker 3:
[53:29] So what are the main things that you notice make a difference in that monthly recurring revenue?

Speaker 1:
[53:34] Do you still want to grow it at this point or are you trying to just maintain?

Speaker 2:
[53:38] I think I'm always finding new ways to try and grow it, obviously, just because I think that's the most fun part is challenging myself to try to make more than last month, just to see if I can do it. But that's what I do.

Speaker 3:
[53:52] What's the most you've made in a month?

Speaker 2:
[53:53] The most I've made in a month, I think, was $5 million.

Speaker 3:
[53:57] So what did you do in that month that made you make $5 million?

Speaker 2:
[54:01] Definitely collabs, joining up with other creators and making similar content together. That is a big thing. I think that a lot of people don't also do is collaborations.

Speaker 3:
[54:10] Is that on TikTok or on other platforms? You're collaborating with them there and then that directs the traffic to the OF?

Speaker 2:
[54:15] Yes, yes and no. Collabs on TikTok, it's not so much like I don't post on TikTok and on Instagram trying to get people to find my OF. I post on Instagram for Instagram, I post on TikTok for TikToks, and I post on OF for OF content. I think I try to keep everything very different just because I know I have obviously a younger audience on TikTok, that's just TikTok, and I don't try to obviously persuade anyone to try to find my link on there. And I think that collaborating with other creators is really great because you get a new audience, you get their fans that have never even seen you before, obviously, and it's vice versa. It's a great ecosystem.

Speaker 1:
[54:52] Did you see an uptick in earnings after you did the video with David Dobrik?

Speaker 2:
[54:57] I don't think so. I don't think so. Everything's been pretty consistent throughout everything. I didn't see anything crazy jump up from doing that.

Speaker 3:
[55:05] Where does most of the earnings come from? Is it messages or is it the feed that you post out there?

Speaker 2:
[55:11] It's definitely messages. Messages is where you make the most money.

Speaker 3:
[55:15] And what do the conversations look like in the messages?

Speaker 2:
[55:18] I mean, just literally anything. I talk to so many people on there. Some people are just talking about their day. Some people are talking about their dog, literally anything.

Speaker 1:
[55:27] Could you open up one of the messages and read it?

Speaker 2:
[55:30] I can't do that just because I don't want to invade someone's privacy.

Speaker 1:
[55:34] Maybe they love it, though. They're like, oh man, she read my question.

Speaker 2:
[55:37] Because they got a little shout out. But yeah, I try not to like, I don't want to obviously post anything from the side just because I don't want to out anyone who doesn't.

Speaker 3:
[55:46] Do you personally respond to these messages? Because we've heard from a lot of people that they have agencies or other people that respond to the messages.

Speaker 2:
[55:52] I do respond to a lot of messages. It definitely takes a lot of my time, like flying here. That's all I was doing was responding messages. But I also it takes a village. I also have people that help me. My mom and my sister help me. They know what I do, so they help me message and everything.

Speaker 3:
[56:07] But do people send explicit pictures within the messages?

Speaker 2:
[56:10] Not all the time. Definitely not all the time, but there definitely are some. It's just a wide range. It's a giant spectrum. There's no in between. It's everything. You get crazy pictures, and you also meet someone so great on there.

Speaker 1:
[56:24] What's the craziest thing you've seen or gotten?

Speaker 2:
[56:28] There's just like, it's been so much. I don't know off the top of my head. I truly don't.

Speaker 1:
[56:34] Is there like one that stands out to you? We're like, what was that?

Speaker 2:
[56:38] I mean, actually, yes, there is one.

Speaker 1:
[56:40] There's always one, dude. There's always one that gets involved.

Speaker 3:
[56:42] Dude, that's funny. It reminds me of something I'll share in a sec. This is the craziest.

Speaker 1:
[56:45] I got one too.

Speaker 2:
[56:45] So this was last year when we had the Bop House, and we're at the Super Bowl, okay, and I'm messaging, and I see pictures of my Airbnb being sent to me, and I'm like, what is happening? Like, how are you getting these photos? A fan broke into our Airbnb while we were at the Super Bowl, taking photos inside of our Airbnb and sending them to me through OF. So that was crazy.

Speaker 3:
[57:06] That is pretty bizarre.

Speaker 2:
[57:07] That's the craziest thing. Wow. That's the craziest thing.

Speaker 3:
[57:09] So I had someone request feet pictures from me on Instagram, and I'm gonna be completely honest, I personally don't care. Like, if they asked for feet pictures, I'd be like, sure, like how much?

Speaker 1:
[57:18] Like, if it's all a lot of feet pictures.

Speaker 3:
[57:20] Look, I'm just saying, for me, it's so easy, and I don't see it as anything that's weird, because for me, feet are feet, and what they do with that is completely, entirely up to them. Same thing goes for the shoes. Some guy offered to buy my shoes. I was like, look, if you're willing to buy me a new pair of shoes, I'm fine with it. And I was like, you know what? This is more of a hassle than what it's worth. I don't want to tell him my address to ship these shoes. Anyways, the feet picture. He said he'll send me like 50 or a hundred bucks for a picture of my feet. I said, sure. And I was like, what, just like a picture of the top of my feet? And he was like, no, something like this. And he sent me an example. And I just said, no, I was like, I'm so done with this. I am not doing this. And then I, that's what I said. How in the world is this a foot? And you think I'm going to do this for 50 bucks?

Speaker 1:
[58:00] Yeah.

Speaker 3:
[58:01] Or 100 or whatever it is?

Speaker 1:
[58:02] How much would that cost? Obviously, you'd be clothed.

Speaker 3:
[58:06] Yeah. Oh, I would be clothed?

Speaker 1:
[58:08] Yeah, clothed.

Speaker 3:
[58:09] So I'm clothed in a slatted. Dude, that would turn into a meme. Like, I would be like, imagine someone asked me for an actual foot picture, and that's what I send, assuming that that's a foot picture. Like, that just makes me look clinically insane. I would probably do that.

Speaker 2:
[58:27] I mean, with AI now, you can. Five hundred thousand dollars?

Speaker 1:
[58:35] Five hundred grand?

Speaker 3:
[58:35] It's a lot. What would you do it for?

Speaker 1:
[58:38] We're talking me clothed?

Speaker 2:
[58:40] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[58:40] Just in that position?

Speaker 3:
[58:41] Yeah, but you're all bent over and arching your back.

Speaker 1:
[58:46] It would be hard to say no if someone is like a hundred thousand dollars and it's a private photo.

Speaker 3:
[58:50] What is that going to do for you in your life?

Speaker 1:
[58:52] It's a hundred grand. It's easy.

Speaker 2:
[58:54] Yeah, a hundred thousand just for taking a foot picture.

Speaker 3:
[58:57] It's just not going to change my life. Well, in a very privileged way, that will not change my life. And so for me to-

Speaker 1:
[59:03] It's such a low effort thing.

Speaker 3:
[59:05] If it's a picture of my feet that's different, then that is such a compromised state. For me to sit like that, it is so vulnerable. What if someone walks in when I'm taking the picture? How do I explain that?

Speaker 1:
[59:17] They'll high-five you. How do you explain it? Someone's paying me a lot of money for this photo.

Speaker 3:
[59:21] If I do it for a hundred grand, I think you would, dude. I would be silly not to. I would not be able to do it for $100,000 and not spend it on something. I would not do it for a hundred grand just to throw it in an investment account. You would need something. I would have to get something in return. I am not donating that $100,000. I'm going straight into an used Audi R8 or something. It has to be.

Speaker 2:
[59:46] That's a good choice.

Speaker 3:
[59:47] Maybe I'll donate a little bit.

Speaker 1:
[59:48] What actually goes on behind the scenes when you're doing your week of working?

Speaker 2:
[59:54] So like, for instance, I was in LA for a week. This past week, I came here strictly to just get collabs. I flew in. First day, I didn't do anything just because that's my travel day. I don't like doing anything on the travel day. And then the second day, I woke up, and I don't remember exactly what I did in the morning, but I get ready. That's the first thing I wake up and I get ready. And then I'll go grab coffee, and then I'll get Snapchat content for it or something, getting coffee. I vlog everything, like every single part of my life, while I'm working, while I'm in that zone. And I'll just go to these different places, and I'll take pictures of me there, and I'll do this just for Snapchat. And then I'll make TikToks while I'm there in these places. I'll get two or three TikToks at a location that I'm at. And it's really funny because I'll ask, if a fan comes up to me and they know me and they take a picture with me, sometimes I'll be like, you want to be in my TikTok with me, so it's different and they love it. Every single time they say yes, it's great. I love meeting people on the street that know me. And then I collabed with Breckie Hill. That was really awesome. She came over to my Airbnb, but she's also on the site. But we just did TikToks together and we got an Instagram post and that was that. And then I went to bed and I wake up and I do it all over again. I'll go somewhere, get some Snapchat content, I'll do TikToks halfway through. And then I collabed with Ari, I collabed with Tara's World while I was here.

Speaker 3:
[61:11] Who's Ari in Tara's World?

Speaker 2:
[61:13] Ari, I'm going to totally butcher her last name, Kitskyo? I mean, I don't know. She's also a TikToker and she's on the site. And Tara's World, she's on TikTok and also on the site.

Speaker 3:
[61:23] Most of the people you're collabing with are on OF.

Speaker 2:
[61:25] Yes, yes. But these, we were just making TikToks. We didn't make any content for the site.

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Speaker 2:
[63:49] Yeah.

Speaker 3:
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Speaker 2:
[63:50] Like when I know I'm going to be somewhere for a week, I don't really like take a break. Like I was just telling this to someone I don't remember who. I've been to LA I think seven times now. I've never seen the beach. I think I've seen the Hollywood sign once.

Speaker 3:
[64:04] Are you enjoying the life that you live?

Speaker 2:
[64:06] Oh yeah, I love it. I love it so much. Because I know when I go home, that's what I really enjoy is being at home.

Speaker 1:
[64:11] Is going home.

Speaker 2:
[64:11] Is going home and like not doing anything. I love that so much. And I think that's something I look forward to. But I love meeting new people. I had such a great time in LA. Like I met literally, I met so many new people and made so many new connections. So now next time I come to LA, like I'll have already stuff lined up for me. You know, it's great.

Speaker 3:
[64:28] In your downtime, what do you do?

Speaker 2:
[64:29] In my downtime, I'm just on my phone, on social media. Just scrolling. Pokemon is another big thing I do. I love playing games on my computer. I have a PC at home or I'm taking care of my farm animals. I have two goats, I have a donkey, and I have 12 cows. So I'm either outside with them or I'm doing something around my house because they don't tell you about being a homeowner. You got to do everything yourself. Like I don't know why I just I didn't think about that. But I've always got something wrong with my house too. Like my stove's broken right now. My house has been leaking propane for like the past three weeks. So that's fun, but.

Speaker 1:
[65:04] So how much is real in terms of the marketing versus how much has I played up for the marketing? Because I saw that that NELK interview, I saw people giving you some crap about the age thing, saying you were like 21 and 23.

Speaker 2:
[65:19] I think a lot of it is honestly real. And I think that the only thing that isn't real is those little things that people have pointed out just because when I started doing this, the number one thing that I can remember that everyone told me back at my job, when I had conversations with my friends trying to start it, protect your privacy was the number one thing I heard. Don't put out your real name, don't put out your real birthday, don't put out your real age, don't put out anything real about you so people can find you and come to you. Because on the site, obviously men are wanting to have sex with me. That's why they come to my site. And I think that a lot of people don't think about that, that it can be very dangerous posting all of this stuff out there. And I try to be as safe as possible just because I don't want to, I mean, I obviously don't want to put myself in any bad predicament. And I think that it's just my number one main privacy concern, and that's why I do that.

Speaker 1:
[66:10] Has doing this affected the way you see relationships?

Speaker 2:
[66:13] Oh, yes. 100 percent. I'm still looking for a boyfriend. I don't have a boyfriend. I think it's really hard for me to find a boyfriend now just because everyone knows me, and every time I try to go on a date, they know who I am. But-

Speaker 1:
[66:24] How are you looking for people?

Speaker 2:
[66:26] I mean, just obviously like going out, and I'll meet someone, and I'll talk to them, and then they're like, oh, I know you and Sophie, right? And I'm like, okay.

Speaker 3:
[66:33] Would you ever date a fan?

Speaker 2:
[66:34] It depends. It really depends. I'm just waiting for the right time, obviously. I don't really have, I know this is going to sound really bad to say, but I don't really have standards. I'm not looking for someone who's beautiful and six foot five and has a great personality. I just want them to make me happy and laugh, and that's all I care about.

Speaker 1:
[66:51] Do you think your earnings would go down if you have a boyfriend?

Speaker 2:
[66:55] I don't think so, honestly. I don't think so. I really, truly don't.

Speaker 1:
[67:00] I think they would.

Speaker 2:
[67:01] You think so?

Speaker 1:
[67:02] I think some of the appeal is that you're single.

Speaker 3:
[67:05] That there's a chance.

Speaker 1:
[67:05] That there's a chance.

Speaker 2:
[67:06] Yeah, I guess that makes sense.

Speaker 1:
[67:07] It could be me. So I think as soon as you get a boyfriend, I think a lot of people are going to say, oh shit, now I'm unsubscribing.

Speaker 2:
[67:14] That definitely makes sense. But I do know a lot of creators who have significant others in the space and they're still very successful.

Speaker 3:
[67:20] Do they keep it a secret?

Speaker 2:
[67:21] No, not most of them, no.

Speaker 3:
[67:24] So what has this taught you maybe about men that could conflict with how you see relationships?

Speaker 2:
[67:32] Obviously, I don't want someone who's heavily on social media just because I don't want them to already have an opinion formed about me without meeting me. So I think that's my biggest concern, and I'm just waiting for the right person to come.

Speaker 1:
[67:45] Would you ever date a guy who asks you to quit?

Speaker 2:
[67:49] Honestly, probably. If it's truly true love and I really am in love with this guy and he doesn't like what I'm doing, I probably would.

Speaker 1:
[67:57] Even if you're making like 40 or 50 million dollars a year consistently, and the dude is just like, I can't handle it. I don't want you to do that.

Speaker 2:
[68:04] Probably. Yeah. Just because another thing I'm doing with my money is I'm trying to also create new income sources. I'm starting up a business. It's not great yet, but it's-

Speaker 1:
[68:15] What's the business?

Speaker 2:
[68:16] It's a construction business.

Speaker 1:
[68:17] Construction?

Speaker 2:
[68:18] Yes, it's a construction business.

Speaker 1:
[68:19] That's not what I would expect.

Speaker 2:
[68:21] Well, in my little town that I live in, there's no construction business. It's kind of like a barn. You build barns. That's the great thing. You can take this and do other avenues. So I think that that's what I would do. I would just obviously put my attention on to something else. I really want to own a bakery one day. I feel like that would be really cool.

Speaker 1:
[68:38] Do you think it skews your mind though to make so much money and then go to a bakery?

Speaker 2:
[68:42] No.

Speaker 1:
[68:43] And then look at the P&L and like, oh man.

Speaker 2:
[68:46] I have a lot of pride in my work ethic. I love having something to do. I think that I would just do it just to have fun. Like honestly, I would do it for fun. And I really want to like have it be like some profitable or non-profitable place, essentially. Like that was something I was thinking about. I was like opening a bakery for homeless. And like they can just come in and get a free meal if they wanted to. Obviously, I'm not making money from it, but like I don't need more money, you know? Like I'm perfectly comfortable where I am right now.

Speaker 3:
[69:16] Have you noticed in dating that have there been any instances where you started talking to a guy and then they realized that you did OF and then they had a problem with that? Like has that been an obstacle in talking to guys?

Speaker 2:
[69:27] No, I've only ever like doing like since being on the site, I think I've gone on like three dates.

Speaker 3:
[69:32] And how did you meet these people?

Speaker 2:
[69:34] I think one of them was at a casino somewhere. And then it was just like in random places like where I travel. It was never online or through social media.

Speaker 1:
[69:43] And they would just come up to you, talk to you, not knowing who you are.

Speaker 2:
[69:47] Well, sometimes they play it off. Like they don't know who I am. And then I see that you're following me on Instagram. Like that's just don't lie to me.

Speaker 1:
[69:54] Are these just like normal people or are they like successful on their own?

Speaker 2:
[69:58] Or like just normal people out in the wild, I guess you could say. I don't really go on dates.

Speaker 1:
[70:04] Have you noticed that guys maybe get insecure when they see how much money you're making and feel like, oh man, like I could never live up to that.

Speaker 2:
[70:10] I've never noticed that personally. No, not me personally. But I could definitely see how that could be an issue.

Speaker 3:
[70:19] Do you think that there could be any sort of psychological impact on your brain, having millions of people constantly praising you and telling you how beautiful you are and paying for pictures of you? There's this thing online called Pretty Girl Syndrome, where it could lead to a girl seeing the world for not what it truly is because they've been sort of white-gloved their whole life.

Speaker 2:
[70:43] I definitely think that is a possibility for a lot of people. Me personally, no, like I said, I grew up very poor. Me and my family, we were low, low class, and I've seen obviously the ugly and I've seen the great side. So I think that I'm proud of like my maturity. I know what's right and what's wrong. And like obviously I am very successful and I'm very blessed. And I used to not be, and it's hard, that balance, but I love that I used to live like that because I could see it and I experienced it.

Speaker 3:
[71:16] So on the pretty girl syndrome, what would you say are the main problems with today's modern men and modern women?

Speaker 2:
[71:22] Education. I think a lot of us are not as educated as we should be. And that goes for both men and women. I just also think that the school system sucks and that's something that we should work on. Let's see.

Speaker 3:
[71:37] Like if you just look to your friends out there that you've had over the past decade, what have been some consistent patterns you've recognized? We're like, oh, this maybe could be improved. Same goes for men.

Speaker 2:
[71:48] Attention span. A lot of people don't have an attention span anymore, I've noticed, from TikTok. But not really anything. I don't ever look at anything negatively. I only see the positives in life. I really try not to.

Speaker 3:
[72:00] So that could be something right there.

Speaker 2:
[72:01] That is true.

Speaker 3:
[72:02] Is that some people look about the negative of something when they should be seeing the positive.

Speaker 2:
[72:07] That is true. I also just believe that why am I going to try to find something that will make me unhappy? I try every single day to be happy because I know what it's like to be unhappy. And I don't ever want to feel like that ever again. It sucks. It really does. So I just try to live every day like, you know, not a lot.

Speaker 1:
[72:24] What do you think is the longevity of your career? How long do you expect to do it for?

Speaker 2:
[72:28] Honestly, I'm going to just keep going until people forget about me. Like, I love posting online. Like, I think it's so much fun. And I think one day that people aren't going to know who Sophie Rain is anymore because the new generation will come in and there'll be this new big platform that comes out. Now everyone goes to that. And I think that that's perfectly fine. Like, I think, you know, everything evolves and everything happens for a reason and change is good. So I honestly, I give myself probably another two to three years before something big else happens online and.

Speaker 1:
[72:54] What do you think about AI creators?

Speaker 2:
[72:57] Obviously, AI is very bad. AI sucks because it's affecting climate change. And I think it's stupid. Like, I truly think it's, I don't know why we're doing that.

Speaker 3:
[73:06] What do you mean by it's affecting climate change?

Speaker 2:
[73:08] Well, because generative AI, it uses gallons.

Speaker 1:
[73:11] It uses a lot of electricity. But so do private jets.

Speaker 2:
[73:14] That is true. That is very also true. And I know that is very bad. And I'm trying to do less on my PJ. But I also think that, like, you have PJ who's only, you know, not everyone can fly a PJ, and then you have AI. Everyone is currently using AI, right?

Speaker 3:
[73:28] So you think AI is bad insofar as it affects climate change?

Speaker 2:
[73:31] Yes. 100% uses millions of gallons of water a day. And I think that, you know, it's 97 degrees here and it's March.

Speaker 3:
[73:38] Do you think that we should completely stop our production of AI?

Speaker 2:
[73:41] I think that there's good AI and I also think that there's bad AI. I think generative AI is awful. Obviously, like, have you seen, have you all seen the fruit Love Island thing that's going on right now? It's a whole AI, like, TV show of just these fruits and it's like Love Island. And everyone has like millions of likes and people are just sitting here, like, eating this content up and then like, What's wrong with that, though? It's because it's generative AI. It's harming society.

Speaker 1:
[74:05] Why? I just, I think everything is going to AI. So my whole thought is that in 10 years, you're not going to be able to differentiate between you and AI.

Speaker 2:
[74:15] Oh, I think that that's now.

Speaker 1:
[74:16] Yeah, I see these videos of these dudes that are just like dancing. And then like split screen is like some attractive woman at the bottom. And then like some dude with a belly is just like kind of dancing at the top. You have no idea. And they're making, I remember one where apparently-

Speaker 3:
[74:31] Dr. Mike?

Speaker 1:
[74:31] What?

Speaker 3:
[74:32] Have you seen the Dr. Mike ones? Oh, God. Okay, what were you saying?

Speaker 1:
[74:35] No, I remember one where some lady lost her following because it was exposed that she was actually a man the entire time, but was using like the facial.

Speaker 2:
[74:44] AI?

Speaker 1:
[74:44] Yeah.

Speaker 2:
[74:45] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[74:45] And she looked like someone-

Speaker 2:
[74:46] I don't agree with. I don't agree with any of that stuff. But I think that we can use AI in great ways for research and stuff like that. Like Gemini, I think is the new AI on Google. I love Gemini. I think that's great. But it's not as harmful as, you know, I just think everything is going to AI.

Speaker 1:
[75:04] I think movies are going to AI.

Speaker 2:
[75:05] I think so too. I think that it's inevitable.

Speaker 1:
[75:07] Podcasting at some point, maybe we could be replaced and it knows us well enough that we could have this whole conversation. AI.

Speaker 2:
[75:14] Have you seen like that thing where you can put in like a topic and it creates a whole podcast on it?

Speaker 1:
[75:20] Yeah. So far they suck.

Speaker 2:
[75:21] Okay. I haven't tried it out personally.

Speaker 1:
[75:23] We've used a lot of the AI features. A lot of them are really bad.

Speaker 2:
[75:26] Yeah. Well, give it a year and I'm sure it's going to take over.

Speaker 1:
[75:29] Yeah. This is the worst it's ever going to be, is what Chris Camillo would say. Like right now, as good as it is, it's only going to get better.

Speaker 2:
[75:36] Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1:
[75:37] But do you think that's a threat to people who want to make a living on OF?

Speaker 2:
[75:41] I mean, 100 percent. I definitely think that there's concerns about it just because now there's, you have someone making AI content who isn't a real person putting out false content because it's not a real person. And I just think that it's unfair to people who are actually online and who actually are posting on social media and not an AI character.

Speaker 3:
[76:05] What do you think of the syntax that they were considering implementing in Florida?

Speaker 2:
[76:09] I think it's ridiculous. I think that it's a little silly and it was honestly like, it sucked to hear that just because syntax isn't some taboo thing either. Syntax exists. It exists in states like New York and I think California has syntax on stuff like alcohol and cigarettes. Stuff that has proven to have harm on your body. I think that syntax on someone online is a little silly just because like anything on the Internet can be harmful, but I just don't know. I don't understand the point of it. I really don't.

Speaker 1:
[76:41] So he wanted, it was a 50 percent tax, right?

Speaker 2:
[76:43] 50 percent tax on my income and he claims that he was going to give it back to teachers. And I agree. I definitely, like I said earlier, I think that we should put more of our money into schooling and investing into teachers. But I think that there's way better ways than attacking one creator, because I've only been the only one ever called out. Yes. He says that he's going to tax everyone in the state of Florida on OF, 50 percent. And I don't think that he puts an account because there are people on OF, just doing it to make grocery money for that week, you know?

Speaker 1:
[77:12] I remember you liked my Twitter post.

Speaker 2:
[77:15] Which one?

Speaker 1:
[77:16] I made the argument that he was giving you a lot of publicity.

Speaker 2:
[77:19] Yes. I definitely, I mean.

Speaker 1:
[77:21] I randomly saw like, wait a second, she liked this post.

Speaker 2:
[77:23] I mean, he went from the bottom of the polls to second running after talking about me. So like, it definitely, I think it's a whole publicity stunt.

Speaker 1:
[77:30] Do you think you were benefiting him by responding to him? Or do you think he was benefiting you by drawing attention to you and maybe some people are like, oh, let me check this out.

Speaker 2:
[77:37] Honestly, it's probably, it goes both ways. I think that I was also benefiting him. I think he was benefiting me at the same time, just because, you know, whenever you talk about someone, you're going to go check out who they're talking about. But I just, I think the whole idea is a little silly and that he's not as well educated in the new modern social media world, just because, like I've been explaining here, like, OF, it's a huge platform and you can do anything you want on there. It doesn't have to be content. And I think that that gets, you know, mistranslated with a lot of people because there's people, you know, doing OF just to make side money and you're going to tax them 50% of that when they have another job. And I pay taxes also. It's not like I don't pay taxes. I paid my fair share in federal taxes last year. And I mean, I would be more than happy to pay extra taxes if it meant going to the teachers. But I know it's not going to. I know it's not going to. And like also, like, there's definitely, you know, other, you know, bigger people that you could tax. Like, there's multiple billionaires who are paying zero dollars in taxes.

Speaker 1:
[78:36] Like a lot of that's unrealized gains, though.

Speaker 2:
[78:39] Whatever that means. But I don't know what that means.

Speaker 3:
[78:41] It's so funny, because you're going to be defending the billionaires. You're going to be defending, like, the OF people.

Speaker 1:
[78:46] I think the billionaires add so much economic benefit that if anything, I think we should have an opposite tax rate. The more money you make, the less you pay in tax. Imagine that. Or if you make a certain amount of money, if you could prove that you pay out a certain amount or create a certain amount of jobs, like economic output, you could reduce your taxes by less to say, hey, you hire 10 people.

Speaker 3:
[79:08] That's a hard thing to measure. Technically speaking, it's not a bad idea because dollar to dollar, you're going to be helping out the gross economy more. But I don't even know.

Speaker 2:
[79:17] I mean, I also think that, I believe that I also help out the economy a little bit because I saw a tweet from Fishback saying that, I think it was about the billionaires being taxed and that they actually put stuff into the world. They create jobs and stuff. And it's not like I'm not doing anything. I pay photographers every single week to come take photos of me. Local photographers, I rent out studios to go do the... I'm putting money back out there. It's not like I'm keeping it all to myself. And I also, I employ people. I have a whole business now that I run behind the scenes. And that's another thing. I wouldn't have been able to do that without being on OF. And I think you can become an entrepreneur from this. I'm using it as a gateway essentially to try and do bigger projects.

Speaker 3:
[79:59] When people ask you, what do you do for a living? What do you say?

Speaker 2:
[80:02] I say social media.

Speaker 3:
[80:03] You say social media as opposed to OF.

Speaker 2:
[80:05] I just say social media because I do social media. I do TikTok also. I'm on YouTube. I also do Snapchat. It's not just OF I'm on. I'm on the entire Internet.

Speaker 3:
[80:14] Part of me thinks it would be interesting if you said you ran a construction company.

Speaker 1:
[80:19] Or a bakery.

Speaker 3:
[80:20] Well, she actually does run a construction. I like the construction company.

Speaker 2:
[80:23] Thank you. Thank you. Yeah. It's not anything great. Yeah. We've been running for a year. I do it with my family and my dad helps a lot with it. But we just do little local jobs and we just can't keep up with it right now because we can't find anyone to work. Unfortunately, we have really good people that work for us currently. But we want to expand, but we can't expand because we can't find people to work.

Speaker 3:
[80:43] So explain the Bop House.

Speaker 2:
[80:45] The Bop House was created by me and Aisha. We made the Bop House so we could essentially live together and support one another. So we had this idea that us and our friends should get together. We got into this house. And basically the whole idea for the Bop House was to support one another. We obviously are all doing the same thing, we're all on the same site, and we're posting TikToks together. And it also is a giant ecosystem. We bounce off each other. We all post a TikTok with everyone in it, and they get traction, and they post a TikTok with me in it, and I get traction, you know? It's I feed you, you feed me type of thing. And it was great. It worked out awesome. Like I had such a great time. We haven't been together recently, but I think we're going to go on a group trip somewhere soon, so we can make more content together.

Speaker 3:
[81:30] Do you live in the, no, you don't live in the Bop House.

Speaker 2:
[81:32] I don't live in the Bop House.

Speaker 3:
[81:32] But people do.

Speaker 2:
[81:33] Yeah.

Speaker 3:
[81:33] Who owns the Bop House?

Speaker 2:
[81:35] It's not, I mean, right now, it's not a thing anymore because we were just renting it, and the lease was up, but we all collectively like paid the rent every month.

Speaker 3:
[81:43] How much was the rent?

Speaker 2:
[81:44] I think the total amount was $60,000.

Speaker 3:
[81:47] 6D?

Speaker 2:
[81:48] Yeah, six zero, $60,000.

Speaker 1:
[81:51] Big house in Florida, right?

Speaker 2:
[81:52] Yes, it was a penthouse in Miami. It was awesome. I had a lot of fun. We lived there for probably like six months out of the year, all together, all at once consecutively.

Speaker 3:
[82:02] Was it a good investment? Like you saw a clear return on that expense?

Speaker 2:
[82:05] I definitely think so. I think so. I think it was a great investment. People definitely like grew their pages a lot from that, and that's all that mattered to me. And yeah, I would do it again if I had the opportunity.

Speaker 1:
[82:17] What do you think about what Jack Doherty is doing?

Speaker 2:
[82:20] What is he doing?

Speaker 1:
[82:21] So my understanding is he has a house, he gets these creators on, and the criticism is that he advertises towards a lot of young kids.

Speaker 2:
[82:30] I think I have him blocked on everything.

Speaker 3:
[82:31] Why is that?

Speaker 2:
[82:32] Because I just can't stand him. Him and people like Clavicular, I just can't stand those guys.

Speaker 1:
[82:37] What don't you like about Clavicular? Did you see when he got frame mocked by the ASU frat leader?

Speaker 3:
[82:42] Did you see that?

Speaker 2:
[82:43] Like if you told that to a Victorian child, I think that they would just have a heart attack. What does that even mean?

Speaker 1:
[82:48] Did you see it?

Speaker 2:
[82:48] No, I don't see him get frame mocked? No, what is that?

Speaker 1:
[82:51] This is going to be a first. Jack, can you pull it up? You're going to see him get frame mocked by the ASU faculty. That is crazy.

Speaker 2:
[82:57] I cannot stand Clavicular or Jack Doherty. They're just like, I don't know. They're just, I don't think that they have great morals.

Speaker 3:
[83:06] Frame mocked.

Speaker 2:
[83:07] What does frame mocked mean? Like the guy looks better than him?

Speaker 3:
[83:11] There's a frame of the video where this guy, I don't know what his name is, but he's frame-mogging him because his shoulders look huge and Clavicular looks honestly a little bit nervous.

Speaker 1:
[83:24] Suboptimal. Subhuman.

Speaker 3:
[83:26] Subhuman in this image because he's getting framed.

Speaker 2:
[83:28] Y'all are very well versed into this Clavicular guy.

Speaker 3:
[83:30] How does that make you feel? Not that we're well versed, but that he got frame-mogged.

Speaker 2:
[83:33] Oh, that's how I feel.

Speaker 3:
[83:37] Was it heartbreaking?

Speaker 2:
[83:38] Oh, yeah, it was heartbreaking.

Speaker 1:
[83:40] Did you see the group that tried to avenge him?

Speaker 2:
[83:42] No, but I did see the video of him hitting some guy with his car, and that's why I don't like him.

Speaker 3:
[83:46] I think he ran over the guy.

Speaker 2:
[83:47] Oh, like, completely ran over?

Speaker 3:
[83:49] That's what it appeared to me. What did that make you feel?

Speaker 2:
[83:51] I just, you know, don't hit people with your cars. I don't think that's cool.

Speaker 1:
[83:56] I saw another crazy clip. Some girl slapped him really hard, and then he had his security pull her aside and press charges, call the police.

Speaker 3:
[84:03] Where'd that go?

Speaker 1:
[84:05] Believe he's suing her.

Speaker 2:
[84:06] Wow. He also has a hat that has very derogatory terms on it.

Speaker 3:
[84:10] What does it say?

Speaker 2:
[84:12] The N-word.

Speaker 3:
[84:13] Oh, wow.

Speaker 2:
[84:13] He loves wearing that hat during his dreams.

Speaker 1:
[84:16] What's your thought on the whole Man-o-sphere space?

Speaker 2:
[84:18] Man-o-sphere?

Speaker 3:
[84:19] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[84:19] Like the Andrew Tates, Fresh and Fit, Justin Waller segment of the Earth.

Speaker 2:
[84:25] I don't like it. I obviously just, I think it's a little silly to try to put those values out there, but they're killing it in the game, and I think that it's great that they're online and they're, like I said, they're killing it. They've gained a lot of traction. I don't like them personally, but I would never wish downfall on any of them.

Speaker 3:
[84:43] And so Jack Dougherty, though, you're not a huge fan of him.

Speaker 2:
[84:46] I'm not a huge fan of Jack Dougherty. I've never met him. I've just obviously heard things, and kind of like the same thing with Clavicular. I don't like him because he did bad stuff that I've seen online, but I've never met the guy. But yeah, I just don't like them, simply.

Speaker 3:
[84:59] What about the Island Boys?

Speaker 2:
[85:02] The Island Boys?

Speaker 1:
[85:02] They were on OnlyFans for a million dollars a month.

Speaker 2:
[85:06] Did they have blonde hair?

Speaker 3:
[85:06] They're the brothers.

Speaker 1:
[85:08] The Island Boys. The Island Boys.

Speaker 3:
[85:10] Yeah, the ones with the candle stick hair. Yeah, those ones.

Speaker 2:
[85:14] I don't think I've ever seen a video of them actually talking, but I mean, they're cool, I guess. I like their tattoos.

Speaker 1:
[85:21] Would you quit only for an extra 100 million dollars?

Speaker 2:
[85:24] An extra 100 million dollars, would I quit only? I would be stupid not to. Are you joking? 100 million?

Speaker 1:
[85:31] Really? I feel like if you just make that in another year and a half, two years, you're RLY.

Speaker 2:
[85:35] I mean, 100 million right now. Am I being taxed on the 100 million?

Speaker 3:
[85:39] I would say, let's just say after taxes, it's 70.

Speaker 2:
[85:42] Okay, then probably not. But if I'm getting the full 100 million, no tax.

Speaker 1:
[85:46] 70 no, 100 yes, you would quit.

Speaker 2:
[85:48] Yeah, because that's three digits, better than two digits.

Speaker 1:
[85:51] Do you know what your net worth is today?

Speaker 2:
[85:53] No, no idea.

Speaker 1:
[85:55] If you had to guess.

Speaker 2:
[85:57] Probably like 5 million, 20 million?

Speaker 1:
[86:01] No, it has to be more than that. I don't know.

Speaker 2:
[86:04] That's why I pay someone to do all of my financial stuff for me. I don't know anything about this world.

Speaker 1:
[86:08] I was going to guess it has to be 50.

Speaker 2:
[86:10] Okay. I was like 5 to 20 was my guess somewhere.

Speaker 1:
[86:13] It has to be higher than that.

Speaker 2:
[86:15] I pay a lot like in taxes, though, so I don't know if it's-

Speaker 3:
[86:17] Yeah, but if you made up-

Speaker 2:
[86:18] I don't have that much.

Speaker 1:
[86:19] If you know, we do the math. I'm basically taking your total income, subtracting taxes, subtracting living expenses and other discretionary spending. Then I'm adding in the fact that you've been investing the money, an extra 15 percent over the last two years, which is on the conservative side of things. And that takes me to 43.

Speaker 2:
[86:40] Okay.

Speaker 3:
[86:41] The thing is that people, and we've noticed this on the podcast, will spend so much time. Like Togi. You know who Togi is?

Speaker 2:
[86:49] Wow.

Speaker 3:
[86:50] People will spend, and now people are going to just think that we're name-dropping. You guys know who Togi is, right?

Speaker 1:
[86:56] Togi. Okay, Togi.

Speaker 3:
[86:59] Okay.

Speaker 1:
[86:59] I like Togi.

Speaker 3:
[87:00] People are just going to think that we're name-dropping, but it makes sense in the context. He will spend so much effort making as much money as possible. And if he just spent 5 to 3 percent of that effort to understand investing and understand savings and budgeting and net worth and appreciation growth, stuff like that, then he'll earn more spending, in that 3 percent of time he spends learning that, than if he were to spend that working. And the same thing would go to you. If I ask you what's your net worth and you're saying between 5 and 20, that shows to me that you have no idea what's going on financially, which is like insane to me, because if you're grinding so, so, so hard to try to get to some place financially, like you could just spend a little extra time, or even trade the time and work a little bit less, but spend a little bit of time understanding your finances, and that you'll make more money doing that, and it's not even close, like 5 times more money doing that.

Speaker 2:
[87:55] I literally have considered like taking a college course online.

Speaker 1:
[87:58] You don't need to do that.

Speaker 3:
[88:00] Like literally find someone that's financially literate, and talk to them, talk to the money guys, talk to Graham, talk to me.

Speaker 2:
[88:07] I need to, because I really want to learn, and I want to learn.

Speaker 3:
[88:10] Even after this podcast, we can go over it. Like in 10 minutes, you should have a basic understanding of where you're at, because if you're saying between 5 and 20, imagine after you've grinded for 5 years, and you learn that you have $10 million, what are you going to say? Where did it all go, right? Like why did I grind so hard? Well, that could be the reality. You don't know how much these people, these money people that are working with you, are taking. Would you be able to say what percent they're taking? That's the thing. And they could be taking some crazy percent, where if you just spent a little bit more time finding someone else or seeing what they're investing in, what if they're investing in really bad stuff?

Speaker 2:
[88:49] See, I don't know any of this.

Speaker 1:
[88:50] Just get a third party fiduciary to look it over for you.

Speaker 2:
[88:54] Fiduciary?

Speaker 1:
[88:54] Yeah. Someone who's on your side.

Speaker 3:
[88:56] Or just a friend.

Speaker 1:
[88:56] A third party.

Speaker 3:
[88:57] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[88:58] Who has no financial interest in how you're doing.

Speaker 2:
[89:01] Okay.

Speaker 1:
[89:01] Just to look it over and say, hey, thumbs up, this is good, or hey, these things are questionable. Like we had on another person who had a very successful career, thought they made all this money, and then realized, wait a second, the person I trusted with my money ended up squandering all of it, and I owe taxes that I don't have.

Speaker 3:
[89:20] He was actually negative net worth after it was RJ. Mitty, who was on Breaking Bad, like a main star on Breaking Bad, and he was like a severe financial duress.

Speaker 2:
[89:33] So I definitely, I need to open a book or something.

Speaker 3:
[89:35] Well, someone needs, you don't need to open a book. It's so simple. It's actually so simple.

Speaker 2:
[89:39] It's not though, like you guys are saying it's simple to know it.

Speaker 3:
[89:42] I will explain to you in five minutes, not now after the podcast, or maybe we could, yeah, we should just do it after the podcast. But anyways, it would be so worth it to spend just a small percentage of your time instead of working to just understand your finances.

Speaker 1:
[89:54] I want you to understand it.

Speaker 3:
[89:56] You're good.

Speaker 1:
[89:56] You're good for the next month.

Speaker 3:
[89:58] It's a few basic principles.

Speaker 2:
[89:59] I feel like I'm like 50-50 with it. Like I kind of understand it.

Speaker 3:
[90:01] It really sounds like you're like 595. When it's five to 20.

Speaker 1:
[90:06] Five to 20. I could see like 15 to 20. Okay, fine. Because market fluctuations and maybe valuations, but five to 20 is big. When you're making this much money, it shouldn't be less than 25. If it were less than 25, you'd have some serious concerns. I would say we actually got to figure out like, where is it going?

Speaker 2:
[90:25] Yeah, see, like I just, I don't know.

Speaker 1:
[90:26] Who's controlling it and what are they doing with it?

Speaker 2:
[90:31] I don't know. I obviously like, I don't want to like talk about it too heavily on the podcast.

Speaker 3:
[90:34] Yeah, we'll discuss more later. What would winning look like to you in 10 years?

Speaker 2:
[90:38] Winning to me look like in 10 years, I want to be on my farm still. Like I want to take care of my animals. Like that's what I want to do. I eventually want to have like horses. I want to have a big cattle herd. And that's what I want to do. I want to wake up every day and like kind of be a farmer, I guess. Like I, that's what my grandparents did. So my grandpa did. I watch, I grew up watching him do that. He raised pigs his entire life. And like, that's just kind of what I want to do. I love, I love being, you know, in the Southern, I guess you could say.

Speaker 1:
[91:08] Did you get fish?

Speaker 2:
[91:09] I love fishing.

Speaker 1:
[91:10] Koi.

Speaker 2:
[91:11] I have koi actually.

Speaker 1:
[91:12] Really?

Speaker 2:
[91:12] I do. I have, they're not koi. They're koi goldfish. I probably have like 50 of them in my pond out front.

Speaker 1:
[91:18] So what you should do, go to Japan, and they have these entire koi farms, and you could go there and actually pick out your koi.

Speaker 2:
[91:24] And aren't they like $100,000?

Speaker 1:
[91:26] They can be.

Speaker 2:
[91:26] I was going to say, aren't they like super expensive?

Speaker 1:
[91:29] It depends on the size and the type of koi.

Speaker 2:
[91:32] Jake Paul, he bought koi fish?

Speaker 1:
[91:33] He did.

Speaker 2:
[91:34] I saw that.

Speaker 1:
[91:34] Yeah.

Speaker 2:
[91:34] Like a big gold one or something. Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[91:37] So I've seen the fish that were there, and I've seen them at like 50 to $100,000. But honestly, the ones that are like 5 to 10 look 90% the same thing. And it comes down to all, it's like the scales and the marbling.

Speaker 2:
[91:49] It's crazy. Like who has, I don't know, who has time to count the scales on a fish? It's just insane.

Speaker 1:
[91:54] And it's the lines. They want really distinct lines and colorations that don't bleed into one another. Because once they bleed into one another, the value goes down.

Speaker 2:
[92:03] You've done your research on that.

Speaker 3:
[92:04] Oh, he loves fish.

Speaker 1:
[92:05] I spent a whole day with the koi farmers in Japan, and they taught me everything about koi. It's actually really sad. I'll tell you now that I gotta say it. The amount of fish that they kill, because they only want the ones that have certain colorations. And that's like a small percentage of the fish they breed. So they breed hundreds of thousands of fish, but they might only keep a few hundred of them.

Speaker 2:
[92:31] It's kind of like Pokemon cards.

Speaker 1:
[92:33] They call them calling. They call the fish. They don't kill, it's calling.

Speaker 3:
[92:38] Why do they call it that?

Speaker 1:
[92:40] Less harsh than killing fish? In fairness, I think some of them are ground up, and I think they're reused for something. But to get that one fish, that one fish is probably one in a hundred thousand. When you really think of like that is the show fish. And then those fish will end up breeding. But the offspring, they could be any color. And so it's only a small, but you see them in different sizes. And apparently, when they start off small, when they start off small, they'll change coloration as they get bigger. So there's also a chance you spend $5,000 on a fish. And then by the time it's three times the size, it's color changed and it's worthless.

Speaker 3:
[93:21] Hold on a sec. We have to understand this private jet.

Speaker 2:
[93:23] Okay. Yes.

Speaker 3:
[93:23] Okay. Because your manager chimed in. And he said the amount you spend on private jets is unacceptable.

Speaker 2:
[93:28] I guess. I don't like, I don't know. Whenever I travel, I don't count it, I guess, just because I love traveling. That doesn't count.

Speaker 1:
[93:37] That's girl math.

Speaker 2:
[93:38] That's girl math.

Speaker 1:
[93:39] That's girl math.

Speaker 2:
[93:40] That's girl math. But I did spend, like, I don't even want to say this because it's so embarrassing. I spent $78,000 on a private jet to bring my entire family onto a vacation. And I think that that was valid. That's something I wanted to do.

Speaker 1:
[93:55] You could afford it. I think if anyone could get a private jet, it's you, and actually justify it.

Speaker 2:
[94:01] Thank you.

Speaker 3:
[94:02] If anyone could. Anybody in the entire world, yes, it would have to be. It's good because the safety is increased. Also, if you are spending your money in any way, taking your family on a vacation is the best.

Speaker 2:
[94:13] Yeah, we had so much fun. I think the last time my mom has flown anywhere was years prior to that. So her first experience back flying was on a PJ. It was just so much fun. That's all I want to do is I just want to spoil them. That's seriously all I want to do. But I'm slowing down on my PJ spending. Yeah, the one here was AK.

Speaker 1:
[94:38] How often do people ask you for money? It's like, hey, could you just buy me this now?

Speaker 2:
[94:42] Quite often, actually. Quite often.

Speaker 1:
[94:44] What's the most ridiculous request you've seen?

Speaker 2:
[94:48] A house.

Speaker 1:
[94:49] How much?

Speaker 2:
[94:51] A million.

Speaker 3:
[94:53] That's not even like a cheap house.

Speaker 2:
[94:55] I know, but it was like someone that I'm not close with.

Speaker 3:
[94:57] I feel like if you're going to ask for a house from someone, you're not just going to go to a million. You're going to be like, oh, can I have a condo?

Speaker 2:
[95:02] Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 3:
[95:03] You know, like $250,000.

Speaker 2:
[95:04] This is someone that I used to talk to, and they're a family friend, and we were really close, whatever. But I don't talk to you anymore. You're asking me for a million dollars.

Speaker 3:
[95:13] Did you cut it off with your day ones?

Speaker 2:
[95:15] No, I still talk to a lot of them, honestly. I still do. They're all very nice and supportive. There's been a couple of people that obviously I should have just said no way back then, but I hate saying no to people. I don't know. I spend a lot of my money on giving money to other people. One of my old coworkers, I bought her a house. I did actually buy her a house. It was $300,000, and I just bought her a new car. And my friend, who I used to go to school with, I send him money every other week just because me and him were tight. He was there for me whenever I didn't have any friend in high school. And shout out.

Speaker 1:
[95:59] Why didn't you have any friends in high school?

Speaker 2:
[96:01] Oh my God. Are you kidding? No. I was just so like this. And I was a weirdo. I really was one of the weirdo kids. I wore- let me just show you a picture of me in high school. I didn't talk to anyone. I didn't have friends. I wasn't interested in things that people were interested in. I wasn't interested in Pokemon. That's all I did was like- I had a little Pokemon backpack and I got made fun of it in middle school. I like that kind of stuff.

Speaker 1:
[96:29] Are you going to show up to your high school reunion?

Speaker 2:
[96:32] Probably not. Probably not. Who would I go see?

Speaker 3:
[96:36] Did you?

Speaker 1:
[96:38] No. I was out of town.

Speaker 3:
[96:40] Would you have?

Speaker 1:
[96:41] Yeah, I would have. I see a lot of the people on Facebook. I like keeping tabs of people. And just when they post a photo, I'm like, oh, this person really went downhill.

Speaker 3:
[96:52] That's what Graham always says.

Speaker 1:
[96:54] It's insane because you see two types of people.

Speaker 2:
[96:56] This was me and my friend in high school.

Speaker 1:
[96:58] No way.

Speaker 2:
[96:58] Yeah, that's me.

Speaker 1:
[97:00] No way.

Speaker 2:
[97:00] That's me.

Speaker 3:
[97:02] How did you lose all your weight?

Speaker 2:
[97:04] I started eating a lot better.

Speaker 3:
[97:06] Do you take ozembic?

Speaker 2:
[97:07] No, never taken ozembic.

Speaker 3:
[97:08] You never took any?

Speaker 2:
[97:09] I don't like needles.

Speaker 3:
[97:11] People were curious.

Speaker 1:
[97:12] That is unrecognizable.

Speaker 2:
[97:13] I know. Isn't it insane? Isn't it actually genuinely insane? Have you talked about this before? Not really. No, but there's pictures of me from high school. People that go to my high school now, currently, they go in the yearbook and take photos of me.

Speaker 1:
[97:24] What motivated you and how did you do it? Where did it start?

Speaker 2:
[97:28] I think it started after high school serving. I was putting in step serving. I couldn't say no to people. I had always pulled doubles. I'd always say yes if someone was calling out and they'd come to me, and like, can you work for this person? I'd always say yes. So I was working 38-hour weeks every single week. And I really genuinely think it was just walking so much, because before then, I didn't do anything in high school. I didn't have any extracurricular activities. I was never on a team. I never did anything. I was just there. What about diet? McDonald's was my favorite place to eat at.

Speaker 3:
[98:03] What would you order?

Speaker 2:
[98:06] Chicken nuggets. 20 chicken nuggets was my OG order, but now I don't eat McDonald's. Anything else? And fries and a coke and an apple pie, because I like the apple pie at McDonald's. It's so good. But I had a really bad diet. I love fast food, and now I have a way better diet. Obviously, I don't eat fast food 24-7, because that's what I used to eat 24-7. But yeah, and it's been, this photo was taken in 2017. Wow.

Speaker 1:
[98:34] This honestly shocked me.

Speaker 3:
[98:35] Yeah, honestly, it's just impressive.

Speaker 1:
[98:38] Thank you. Yeah, it really is.

Speaker 3:
[98:39] Like from a holistic view of your life, it seems like you kind of have everything dialed down. Like you came with two people that you're very close to, and that's really nice.

Speaker 2:
[98:48] It takes a village. Surrounding yourself with people is like the number one thing I recommend, like surround yourself with people you know are going to support you.

Speaker 3:
[98:54] And you're being generous with the people that have been generous to you, which is really cool. You're not like spending your money on lavish things. The only thing would be like figuring out where you're at financially, because that would be like a better use of your time than honestly even working at this point. But yeah, I mean, you seem like a pretty well-rounded person, yeah.

Speaker 2:
[99:09] Thank you.

Speaker 1:
[99:10] I appreciate it. I feel honestly, I feel bad for the amount of hate that I just see in the comments.

Speaker 2:
[99:14] It's okay.

Speaker 1:
[99:15] But because it doesn't make any sense to me.

Speaker 2:
[99:16] It doesn't make sense, but like-

Speaker 3:
[99:17] Well, the main thing people are going to hate on is the fact that like they see the whole OF sphere as something that's very unethical. And so like that's where the hate's coming from.

Speaker 1:
[99:26] Then hate the people who buy it. That's what I think. It wouldn't exist if people weren't buying it.

Speaker 2:
[99:33] That is true. I guess you got a point there. I think it goes both ways.

Speaker 1:
[99:37] I think if they put half of the attention they put on that into their own life, I think that would be beneficial for them.

Speaker 2:
[99:45] I think that if I get, if James Fishback becomes governor and if I get taxed 50 percent, I also think that the consumer should be taxed 50 percent.

Speaker 3:
[99:53] I think that- Well, it would probably go back to them.

Speaker 2:
[99:58] Right?

Speaker 1:
[99:58] I don't know how that would work. Because an alcohol tax, cigarette tax, gas tax is paid by the consumer. And then, of course, they bake it into the price. But it's really the consumer that ends up paying.

Speaker 3:
[100:10] Either way. Sounds like you're doing a great job. The only thing is the finance stuff and definitely work on your pool game. That needs honestly, it's really-

Speaker 2:
[100:19] What did you all say? Do this hand?

Speaker 3:
[100:21] Yeah, you go and you start playing pool and the very first shot, this is your pool cue, this is the ball, and you go like this. You twinked it, it went over the top seat.

Speaker 2:
[100:33] Does it make sense now though?

Speaker 3:
[100:34] I don't know, it made a twink sound.

Speaker 2:
[100:36] I never played sports, I'm not athletic, I've never been to the gym. I don't do it, I don't know.

Speaker 1:
[100:42] You don't go to the gym either?

Speaker 2:
[100:43] I've never been to the gym day in my life.

Speaker 1:
[100:45] Why?

Speaker 2:
[100:45] I think I went, actually, this is really funny. I went once and I was trying to best bench press, is that what this is called? Just the bar and I threw out my shoulder. So I've never been.

Speaker 3:
[100:54] The bar is pretty heavy, it's 45 pounds.

Speaker 1:
[100:56] Honestly, you would do really well, go to the gym with Togi. That video would do so well. Yeah, I'm sure.

Speaker 2:
[101:07] I was supposed to go to-

Speaker 1:
[101:08] Or Steve will do it.

Speaker 3:
[101:09] Oh, Ilya's gym?

Speaker 2:
[101:10] No, LA something.

Speaker 3:
[101:12] LA Fitness?

Speaker 1:
[101:14] LA Fitness.

Speaker 2:
[101:16] Ryan Garcia.

Speaker 3:
[101:17] Young LA.

Speaker 2:
[101:17] Young LA. Is that what it's called? Is that a gym?

Speaker 3:
[101:20] Yeah, well, I think it's like a brand, honestly. Okay, yeah, a brand of a gym.

Speaker 2:
[101:24] That was going to be my first official time in a gym.

Speaker 3:
[101:26] Yeah.

Speaker 2:
[101:27] Wow. So, I don't work out. I'm not athletic. I never played sports in high school.

Speaker 1:
[101:31] But why not work out? You just don't like it.

Speaker 3:
[101:33] It seems like it'd be high ROI.

Speaker 1:
[101:34] It seems like that would be one of the best things that you could do for like an hour a day to work out.

Speaker 2:
[101:38] I've been telling myself for three years to get into the gym and work out because I do want to tone, but I don't know. I'm just comfortable where I am. I'm happy with myself.

Speaker 3:
[101:47] Diet is much more important. They spend a lot of time working out in the gym, but not very much on the diet.

Speaker 2:
[101:53] Yes, diet was 100% more important. I mean, I haven't worked out and you saw I've lost so much weight just from eating better. So, yeah. All right.

Speaker 3:
[102:02] Well, that's it, guys.

Speaker 2:
[102:03] Thank you.

Speaker 3:
[102:03] Thank you so much for watching. Thank you for being available and for making this happen. Thank you guys very much for joining over there. Thank you, Brandon, for listening in.

Speaker 2:
[102:12] And also, sorry, I was shouting out Brandon for listening in.

Speaker 1:
[102:16] Shout out Brandon. And also, if you want to see the Members Edition, the full thing, click the join button, really helps support the channel.

Speaker 3:
[102:23] Thank you guys so much for watching. Until next time.

Speaker 1:
[102:25] See you.