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Speaker 2:
[02:47] You always ask that question and it's like two students raising our hands.

Speaker 1:
[02:51] Based on what I saw last night, I'd like to make a statement. I don't think that they were hooking up last summer. I don't think that would be, I know I am gullible and I know I am naive and I know I'm way too easy to believe people, but if that scene, when Amanda is FaceTiming Sarah on the bed and West comes in and they have that moment, I don't think that they're that evil. I don't think that it's possible that they could be that evil, that they could be sleeping with each other at that time.

Speaker 3:
[03:24] I agree.

Speaker 1:
[03:25] And then I just I don't. And also the conversation with West and and Sierra at the end, I refuse to believe it. Maybe I am naive, but I'm sorry. I just that would be another level of psychotic psychosis.

Speaker 3:
[03:42] Yeah, I mean, I think Amanda's a lot of things, but she's not like truly evil.

Speaker 1:
[03:46] I don't think that's the same thing.

Speaker 3:
[03:47] I also think production just went back and edited a lot. So we're like, obviously, top of mine. And of course, they did.

Speaker 2:
[03:53] Yeah, I tend to agree with you because I was the strongest. Like, I think there was a crossover and I still have thoughts that there were. But can we just remember Sierra FaceTimed Amanda? So you're saying so you're saying that she wouldn't be that diabolical. You're right, if Amanda had FaceTimed Sierra, but Sierra FaceTimed her.

Speaker 1:
[04:13] I just don't think that you could be that level of evil. I mean, I hope not. I think they were flirty. But I just and then I watch Watch What Happens and Jesse was on and he was saying, I think February. And that to me, I just I don't know. And I'm in no way defending them whatsoever. Obviously, I just based on what I saw last night, I do not think they were hooking up last summer.

Speaker 2:
[04:39] I still have my thoughts. I am less so on that side. But I think the one place I disagree with the whole thing is that it would be diabolical. But what do you do in that instance? If you are hooking up with that person, I'm just saying hypothetically and Sierra FaceTimes you, do you just not answer? Or do you pick up and act like it's normal? But you don't want her to know what's going on. So you pick up and act like everything's normal.

Speaker 3:
[05:04] I just don't think they were hooking up at all.

Speaker 1:
[05:08] I don't think that he would have made the effort to go and chat with Sierra in that way. And I was so sad for her watching that scene when she was still so, this is such a fraught emotional situation. She's once again in tears at his hand. And it is truly Shakespearean watching it play out like this. She said, can we just be best friends again? And they're trying to heal it and knowing what's coming. I mean, it is so depraved what he did. It is so insane to me.

Speaker 2:
[05:45] It was that ending scene, even knowing what happened. I got lost in it for a second and I got really emotional. I was like, oh, that's really sweet and so nice. And then I was like, oh wait, this ends so horribly because he is the fucking worst. Poor decision. Also, do you ever watch Apologies on reality TV, hit pause and then go, here's how they should have apologized. We did that five times last night during all of West's botched apology attempts.

Speaker 3:
[06:16] He's just not very good with his words.

Speaker 2:
[06:17] He is so bad.

Speaker 3:
[06:19] He does not have a way with his words.

Speaker 2:
[06:20] But that is fair. But at some point you're an adult, like practice, look in the mirror, what do you want to say to this person? And he just keeps running in, who starts an apology with this only take 30 seconds?

Speaker 1:
[06:33] Yeah.

Speaker 2:
[06:34] Wrong. Bad.

Speaker 1:
[06:36] Yeah. It was really, yeah. And it was interesting to see Kyle say, oh wow, being without Amanda actually has, is fun without her. Yeah. We didn't also discuss the baseball game of it all this weekend. That would not be my move PR wise. I would not be trying to put on that sort of show at this point in time. And then he came out and had a little statement on his podcast or whatever that show was.

Speaker 3:
[07:09] Yeah.

Speaker 2:
[07:09] It's his podcast.

Speaker 3:
[07:10] It's his podcast.

Speaker 2:
[07:11] With Sophie Cunningham.

Speaker 1:
[07:12] Got it. I, ooh, that was not.

Speaker 3:
[07:18] I couldn't even watch the whole clip. I'm not even gonna lie. He was stumbling over his words too much.

Speaker 1:
[07:23] But the game, I'm like, what are you guys trying to prove? I'm like, oh, we're keeping our heads held high. I'm like, this is not how, this is gonna go. This is not, and I'm not saying like, oh, they should be banished. Like they need to like hide indoors. But that particular show of, you know, whatever the hell it is, is just so distasteful to me. And I think it's so ironic that on the same day that they were doing that, you know, show of whatever it is, Sierra's cover comes out, she looks, you know, ethereal. She looks like a supermodel. She's so measured in what she says. And she's so thoughtful and she's so tempered and classy. And it's just the disparity between the two groups couldn't be bigger, in my opinion.

Speaker 2:
[08:12] So we started the Yankee game, like you said, and two things come out of there. First, where do you land on the clear lip reading of you can act like you like me?

Speaker 1:
[08:24] Crazy if true. That's what I'll say. I don't want to go too into it because it is, what do you call it, speculation, but crazy if true.

Speaker 3:
[08:30] So crazy if true, but lip reading videos piss me off.

Speaker 1:
[08:33] I know, they do.

Speaker 3:
[08:34] Because it's just like, you could convince me, you could have convinced me that he said, like, I have to fart right now and I would have believed it.

Speaker 1:
[08:40] You know what I mean? Well said, well said.

Speaker 3:
[08:42] I really could be convinced about anything.

Speaker 2:
[08:44] What about her tugging on his jeans and t-shirt to clearly sit down when he was up and like rooting for the Royals?

Speaker 1:
[08:51] I mean, look, the only way, if I were, I would never be in their shoes, but if I were in their shoes.

Speaker 2:
[08:56] Yeah, you would have been sitting in a suite.

Speaker 1:
[08:58] Well, that, the only way that I would go out, and it's like the concept that I mentioned by that creator, Tell the Bees, American Cheating. Like, if you actually end up with the person, and I'm not saying they cheated. I know there's no overlap, whatever. But I'm saying if you actually fall in love with the person and end up with them, that is the only way that I would go in public. It was so clear that we were madly in love, and it was completely like, this was end game. They look like they're two people that someone won a date and they were forced to go on a date with a Summer House person to a baseball game. Like there was chemistry, where?

Speaker 2:
[09:39] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[09:40] Romance couldn't find her. Any sort of a vibe or like connectivity void. So the fact that then they thought that it was good to go out and put on that show when it was just so uncomfortable to watch is bizarre. Right.

Speaker 2:
[09:54] And then his apology on the podcast or his statements on the podcast.

Speaker 1:
[09:58] You notice how he couldn't say Sierra's name?

Speaker 2:
[10:00] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[10:01] Didn't say her name. Say her name.

Speaker 2:
[10:03] Like you are talking about, and by the way, he didn't really even defend Amanda that much.

Speaker 4:
[10:08] No, he didn't defend Amanda.

Speaker 1:
[10:09] He just couldn't, he was just like mumbling. And I was like, why don't you say like, I like hurt Sierra. I'm like, we know who you're talking about. Like not saying her name doesn't make it any better.

Speaker 2:
[10:19] And he also, if I'm Amanda, and I hear that, I'm like, could you act like you like me? Could you just simply go on and be like, no, literally, this is real, this is serious.

Speaker 1:
[10:31] No, like act like, yeah. If I was Amanda and I heard that, I would be like, what have I done?

Speaker 3:
[10:36] Was the point of him doing that just to get like the timeline more straight or like what?

Speaker 1:
[10:40] I think, okay.

Speaker 2:
[10:42] They had to say something ahead of the reunion.

Speaker 3:
[10:44] You think?

Speaker 2:
[10:44] They had to say something. They weren't, they are getting destroyed, murdered out there. They are dying. Also, if I had the last day on earth and I needed somebody to speak on my behalf, I would choose a dog to speak on my behalf before West Wilson to speak on my fucking behalf. It would be easier to teach a guinea pig gravity than have West Wilson put together meaningful words that makes people like me or understand me.

Speaker 3:
[11:18] I also think they must have made an exception, they being NBC Bravo, for Ciara to do that because I feel like usually they make them all stay pretty tight lipped and not do any press leading up to, like they can do Watch What Happens Live, but they can't really do a lot of press or other interviews.

Speaker 1:
[11:32] But then I wonder how West got the go ahead to talk about it.

Speaker 3:
[11:34] It was his own podcast though. So they're not going on other people's things and doing interviews. So Ciara must have gotten their blessing, which is awesome, well deserved, but that's how they have to find ways to do that.

Speaker 2:
[11:46] Did you notice Andy last night? Jesse slipped up for a second. I'm not saying he was lying. He just tripped over his word second. Andy's like, y'all better get your timeline straight because the VPR cast didn't one time and I got them.

Speaker 1:
[11:58] I know. Oh my gosh.

Speaker 2:
[12:00] I can't wait for that reunion.

Speaker 1:
[12:01] Good goodness gracious, me too. When is that filming again? I know we-

Speaker 2:
[12:05] Well, Lindsay Hubbard just keeps dunking on everyone who's misreporting it, but nobody will tell us exactly when it's-

Speaker 3:
[12:10] It's got to be soon. There's a couple episodes left of Summer House.

Speaker 2:
[12:13] Three episodes left. Oh, what about West? I reached out to everyone on the cast, texted everyone, and then, what's, KJ? Was like, just check my phone, I didn't get a text.

Speaker 1:
[12:23] Yeah, so wild, so wild. Oh my God. Also, the fact that I like Lindsay and Carl this season is so funny. You just never know with Bravo. Lindsay was in it more. I know, me too. I like her this season, I think she's so funny. And then the last thing I'll say is, oh my God, Mia continues to be just absolutely the best person of the cast, and just that emotional scene with the medium, I was sobbing. And she's so articulate, even in the most vulnerable moments. I'm like, you are a gift to the Summer House cast. She's just everything this season.

Speaker 2:
[12:59] I love her. I love her. I really believe what you have been preaching to the audience every time we talk about this. Don't let the West and Amanda drama bury how good these newbies are.

Speaker 1:
[13:08] Yeah, the newbies are great. And like, KJ and Dara getting into a relationship so seamlessly, it's just like, they're great. They love each other.

Speaker 2:
[13:17] And clearly still together.

Speaker 1:
[13:18] Clearly still together. So that's awesome. Yeah, I think the newbies are great and they shouldn't be forgotten in all the craziness.

Speaker 2:
[13:26] Last question I have for you to wrap it all up. Where is your brain with the West and Amanda of it all? Do you think they are actually dating as West out there? What is your honest opinion from everything you see, what you feel in your bones? What do you think is happening with West and Amanda at this moment?

Speaker 1:
[13:44] I think that all of the energy and like naughtiness and forbiddenness that kind of made it feel so exciting has worn off. And I think it does not feel so good on the other side. And I feel like they are probably going to dig their heels in at the reunion to try and make this less bad. But I don't feel, I mean, screw a lip reader. You could tell from their energy that was off. And yes, I understand it's uncomfortable to have all those eyes on you. But if you are truly vibing with someone or dating them and you are into them, the energy is palpable, the body language is telling. And I just think that it's probably setting in now the magnitude of what they've done. And I mean, they're probably a little bit panicked. West was living the life of Riley before this all happened. He was king of downtown New York, West Village going out with all these girls having a great time, whatever. I'm inferring that from his social media. He seemed like he was having the best time, right?

Speaker 2:
[14:50] Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[14:50] And now he's like, everything in his career, his podcast, his sports reporting, whatever he does has all been eclipsed by this. And it's, this is going to be a hard one to come back from for both of them, I think. So that's my take. We'll see as it goes on, but yeah.

Speaker 2:
[15:09] West made a comeback. The season was his comeback.

Speaker 1:
[15:12] I know, I know.

Speaker 2:
[15:13] Just anyone else in the world except Amanda.

Speaker 1:
[15:15] Well, you keep learning that you keep getting the same lesson over and over again until you learn it. So, all right, let's take a caller. Let's go to Brooke. Hey Brooke, how are you? What's going on?

Speaker 4:
[15:27] Oh my gosh. Hi, Tinx.

Speaker 5:
[15:28] Thanks for taking my call.

Speaker 1:
[15:29] Of course. Good morning. Welcome to the show. What's up?

Speaker 5:
[15:32] Thanks. Okay. So, I have a question.

Speaker 1:
[15:37] Yes. Do we lose her?

Speaker 2:
[15:40] Yeah, we lost her.

Speaker 1:
[15:41] Bummer. Well, let's talk about something else that I'm very excited about, which is that Drake dropped 1 million pounds of ice in downtown Toronto, and said that the date of his new album Iceman is under all that, and people went nuts. They had like flamethrowers, they had ice picks, they set it on fire at one point. You can bet your sweet ass that if I was in Toronto, I would have been out there in my Montclair jacket with a flame torch trying to get the date. I would have been with all those streamers, I'd have been like, get out of the way, I'm doing this. And a streamer found that he located, he said he used a drone, God knows how he did that. He found the date using a drone, then he went to Drake's house and he announced that it's on May 15th, which is very exciting because it's only a few weeks away. I am a Drake fan till I die. I love Drake, I love all iterations of him. I happen to think we would get along very well. I am proud of his resilience. I am proud of his resilience in all of his beefs that he loses. It's okay, Drake, it's okay. I promise. I just think everybody loves Drake, and a lot of people don't admit it. But I had a friend and she was always like, if you were a rapper, who would you be and why? I was always like, I would be Drake because sometimes people make fun of me, but never to my face. And I'm very commercial, just like Drake. And there's some content for every mood, just like Drake. You want to party to Drake? You can. You want to have sex to Drake? You can. You want to feel sad and cry to Drake? He's got songs for that too. And he's very honest and he's very vulnerable. And I like a man who's in touch with his feelings. So I'm very excited for his new album.

Speaker 3:
[17:34] I wonder if he's going to drop any singles first.

Speaker 1:
[17:36] I know, I wonder. I kind of like when there's a single before, because it's like sometimes when I get a whole album just fresh, it's like so overwhelming. So we have Brooke back. Okay, Brooke. Welcome back, Brooke. Hi.

Speaker 5:
[17:46] Yay. I'm so glad I got back.

Speaker 1:
[17:48] Likewise.

Speaker 5:
[17:48] Thank you for taking my call again.

Speaker 1:
[17:49] No. What's going on?

Speaker 5:
[17:51] Okay. So this is sort of a long story, I'll make short. Basically, I have a dear friend and we realized that we had feelings for each other.

Speaker 1:
[18:00] Okay.

Speaker 5:
[18:00] Which was very exciting, is very exciting. We finally decided to go on a date. He actually lives in a different city that I used to live in.

Speaker 1:
[18:08] Okay.

Speaker 5:
[18:09] So the date went really, really well. Great. Shared a lot of promise and we've moved back to our, well, I moved back to my city, he's in his city. So we kind of left it on like a will see mentality, which was totally fine for both of us. He recently, actually yesterday, just messaged and was like, I don't think I can sustain this long distance romantically. There's a lot of other contexts like we had talked about. I do plan to move back to the city that he lives in. So I was looking forward to that a lot and we have a really beautiful connection and there's a lot of respect there. He wants to be friends again, just friends and so do I. But I know you have friendships with people that you've dated before. I'm wondering if you have advice like that transition and how you knew that they were going to be a good friendship versus maybe guys you dated that you didn't want to be friends with. Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[19:03] I think there's always a little bit of a transition period where it's kind of, well, let me start with the good news. I think it's great that you guys have such open communication and that you've talked about all of this because sometimes you maneuver a guy from dating to friendship without even that conversation. So the fact that you guys have just decided on this, I think that's great. And I think it's a beautiful thing because if you have a connection with someone on any level, it's nice to keep that and to foster that. And friendships take many different forms. Sometimes it's just a friendship, sometimes it's people we've dated. But obviously, like you said, you have a really great connection with this guy. So why should you give it up? And I think it helps that you guys aren't in the same city because it's not like you're going to run into him on dates or at bars or whatever. This can be a really lovely friendship. And I would just focus on him as a friend and what he can give to you.

Speaker 5:
[20:04] Yeah, I think that's great advice. Definitely something I needed to hear because it's focusing on the positive aspect. And I think a lot of times when we're disappointed and I still feel disappointed, of course, you want to focus on like the hurt or like what you're missing out. But I do still feel like there's so much more of our story and our friendship and he is such a great guy. And there's so much like love and respect there. So it is good to have that positive spin on it too.

Speaker 1:
[20:32] Yeah, of course, there's always the disappointment. And like sometimes, you know, sometimes I'll look at my guy friends who I've dated, which is like all of them, honestly. And I'll be like, you know, I wish it did work out. It would be so nice and easy if we just ended up together. But then, you know, they'll do something and I'm like, and that's why we're friends and we're not dating. So it's like, it's all good. And I think it's like a really great quality to, I think it's a really great quality to have. So yeah, enjoy him as a friend and keep putting the good energy out there.

Speaker 5:
[21:03] Right. The dream is to end up with someone that is my friend too.

Speaker 1:
[21:06] Totally.

Speaker 5:
[21:08] I think we can have both. He can be in my life and maybe there's a new friend around the corner.

Speaker 1:
[21:12] Exactly. I love it. Yeah. Good for you.

Speaker 5:
[21:16] Well, thank you. Thanks. And have a great rest of your day.

Speaker 1:
[21:18] You too. Thanks for calling. Have a good one. Bye. Bye, baby. Bye, baby. Yeah, you know, I like to date my friends because I like to know what's going on. You know, I like to just see. It's good background knowledge, you know.

Speaker 3:
[21:36] You've also turned a lot of guys into friends. It's not like you're your friend's person then you date them necessarily.

Speaker 1:
[21:40] No, I definitely prefer that. Yeah, exactly. Like, good point Lauren.

Speaker 3:
[21:44] They're not your friend and then you're like, I just want to see. Like, you're complaining about these girls. I just want to know what they're going through. Just experiment with this.

Speaker 1:
[21:52] Oh my God.

Speaker 3:
[21:53] Okay.

Speaker 1:
[21:54] All right. Who are we going to next? Mackenzie. Mackenzie. Okay. Hi, Mackenzie. How are you? What's going on?

Speaker 5:
[22:00] Good. Can you hear me?

Speaker 1:
[22:02] I can. Thank you for calling. What's up?

Speaker 5:
[22:04] I'm going to try to sum this up as best as I can for you. Okay. Right now, I'm going through a breakup.

Speaker 1:
[22:10] I'm sorry.

Speaker 5:
[22:11] We own the house together. We were not married. We were boyfriend, girlfriend. There was an infidelity on both sides in the past. Mine was about four years ago and his is more recent. Right now, he's now asking for space and he's not engaging in decisions about what we're going to do the house and how we're going to move forward. I feel really stuck. We're financially tied together. We also have a joint bank account and animals. Emotionally and practically, he's not participating in resolving it.

Speaker 1:
[22:41] Right. He's just refusing to discuss any solutions.

Speaker 5:
[22:45] Yeah. I had a solution with him with numbers and everything on Monday. He said that he needs space to process this. I'm like, we have things to figure out. We have to figure it out and then you can take your space. It seems like he's just straining me along or maybe he's not serious about it. I'm just not sure.

Speaker 1:
[23:03] Yeah. No, that's really, really unfair and I'm sorry. I think the anxiety of being financially tied to someone who won't even play ball with you is probably very great. I really feel for you. I think the fact that you're being so calm and solution-oriented with him is definitely the right way to go about it but there will reach a point where you have to take bigger action. If I were you, I would set a date for him. I would say, I'm going to give you 10 days to go over this. This is my plan. If you have amendments to the plan, if you don't think it's fair, we can have a discussion. But on this date, I'm going to start moving my stuff out. I'm going to go to the bank and I'm going to start the separation of our accounts with or without you, because we need to move on. Give him an ultimatum in that way. I don't want you to have to take legal action, but you can say, if you're unable to cope with this, I will have to involve third parties because it's not fair to me. I want to move on with my life. I want to start this new chapter and it's simply unfair that you're not going to have these discussions. I would give him an ultimatum and if he doesn't budge, say, I'm sorry, I've got to involve third parties aka a lawyer.

Speaker 5:
[24:18] Yeah, the other weird thing is like, I don't want this. Like I have gotten past it, but he's saying he can't get past it. And he's known for years and bought me a rain and we bought the house together. Now he randomly like says he can't get over it. Yeah, it's just suspicious to me and so I don't want this. Like I want to be with him. I want to make this work and he's the one not engaging in figuring it out. When it's ultimately what he wants.

Speaker 1:
[24:43] Well, then that's even weirder. I mean, how strange is that to say he can't get over it, but then to kind of put you in a bind like this is very bizarre. So I would definitely give him an ultimatum and just be very calm and say, like I said, this is what you wanted. I'm giving you what you want. And there can be a finite amount of time for processing and then we have to keep, we have to move on because living in this limbo is bad for both of you. And I'm sure you are desperate to start this new chapter of your life and to move on even though it's not your choice. So give him an ultimatum and draw a line in the sand and just keep marching forward because otherwise you're going to get stuck.

Speaker 5:
[25:24] Yep, exactly. I have to take the power.

Speaker 1:
[25:27] You have to take the power. Yep, absolutely. Oh, I'm so sorry. Sending you strength.

Speaker 5:
[25:32] I hope it gets better. It will.

Speaker 1:
[25:34] It will.

Speaker 5:
[25:34] I just figured out.

Speaker 1:
[25:36] It will. It will. I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of strength. Good luck, okay?

Speaker 5:
[25:41] Thank you so much. Have a great day.

Speaker 1:
[25:42] You too. Bye. Thank you.

Speaker 5:
[25:44] Bye.

Speaker 1:
[25:46] That's really difficult. And I hate to be preachy after a vulnerable call like that, but you gotta have shit, you know, when you do finances together, even if you're not married, you have to protect yourself, ladies, okay? Read Strangers by Bell Burden. There's so many warnings. You just, I don't care how in love you are. I think it's great. That's amazing. Keep your own fucking money. Have an exit plan. Don't, you're not the, why does everyone assume they're the exception and not the rule? I'm not a negative person at all. I am simply saying no one expects to get divorced. No one expects to have to split finances. No one expects to have to move out. You know, everybody thinks they're going to live happily ever after. And that's great. But there is no reason why you shouldn't have your own money and you shouldn't have a financial backup plan so that if shit goes down, you can say peace, I'm out. Okay, on that very serious note, we are going to go to break. I will be taking more calls right after this. Don't go anywhere. Sonic believes that even the smallest achievements deserve to be rewarded, preferably with a delicious hydrating Sonic refresher made with real fruit and energizing green tea. Canceled a free trial on time? Sip to that with a berry citrus refresher. Remembered your password? Sip to that with a mango peach refresher. Finally booked that oil change? Sip to that with a strawberry passion fruit refresher. Try all new Sonic Refreshers in Sparkling or Still for just $2.99 today. When you're doing it all, you need all the electrolytes. So guys, I am so thrilled because I just started working out again. You know, I am a gym girly. I like to lift my heavy weights and I also like to get my 10K steps a day. That is just what keeps me super happy and I need a lot of electrolytes. You need hydration after doing that. So you need Gatorade, which hydrates better than water itself. With new Gatorade Lower Sugar, you can get the amazing hydration you expect from Gatorade, but with no artificial flavors, sweeteners or colors. With 75% less sugar and all the electrolytes of Gatorade Thirst Quencher, you'll be back at your best and ready to take on whatever comes your way. All Gatorade electrolytes you love. Try Gatorade Lower Sugar today. Elevate your tooth brushing routine with Hello Whipped Toothpaste. It comes in two delish flavors, Mellow Mint Dream and Peppermint Stick. The frosty mint waves and lush foaming experience transforms your daily routine from meh to magical. It's dreamy, creamy, foamy and lush with cavity fighting toughness all whipped together in a countertop worthy tube. It's a luxurious foam that hugs your smile as you brush. It prevents cavities, freshens breath, strengthens enamel and tastes amazing. You guys to know me is to know that I am truly obsessed with my teeth. I love taking care of my teeth and I'm not even being silly. It's just my favorite part of the day. I brush my teeth like three or four times a day. So toothpaste is very important to me. And the Hello Whipped Toothpaste is like a party in my mouth. It leaves me feeling so fresh. The formula is so creamy, foamy. It's just an amazing experience and I love having fresh breath. Experience the joy of Hello's Whipped Toothpaste. You just gotta try it. Buy online or at a store near you. Welcome back to Its Me Tinx Live exclusively on Radio Andy, Channel One Who. By the way, I went to a Drake concert once and it was like, it was like the best day of my life. Like I had the best time.

Speaker 3:
[29:11] Do you remember what album it was?

Speaker 1:
[29:13] God, good question. Maybe honestly, never mind. Or well, it was probably like three summers ago. For All the Dogs? Maybe, but it was- Oh my God. And me and Lucas always talk about it because he says, and he was talking to the crowd and he was like, you know, my mom always said like, why are you complaining? Like your plate is full when you like asked, when you prayed to eat or something. Or like, oh no, no, no, I'm sorry. His mom said a busy life is an exhausting one. Or no, a good life is an exhausting. Wow, really finally got there in the end. Those are all great, I just glitched mantras. Which Drake's mom said a good life is an exhausting one. And then he also said, like, I've heard all these people talking about me, but like no one's ever said it to my face. And I like act like I have all this like beef. I'm like, me too, Drake, me too.

Speaker 3:
[30:06] I don't think anybody's really talking about me.

Speaker 1:
[30:08] Thank God. But yeah, I love him so much. It was really fun. And then we like, yeah, we went to a party after it was really fun. Anyway, okay, let's go to Deirdre. Hi Deirdre, how are you?

Speaker 4:
[30:19] Hi, hi Tinx.

Speaker 1:
[30:21] Hi, what's up? Welcome to the show.

Speaker 4:
[30:23] I just wanted to give a little advice to the person who just called about trying to split from their significant other financially.

Speaker 1:
[30:30] Yes, tell me.

Speaker 4:
[30:31] My advice, because I'm going through something very similar is that she should seek a lawyer now. Everything that she does now is going to affect the outcome, all the correspondence, everything, everything. And he's probably already done it himself.

Speaker 1:
[30:49] That's scary to think about, but I think you're probably right. And you know what? You are right. I mean, I love getting help. Like I am not someone who's afraid to ask for help. So I think I agree with you. It's sad that they couldn't do this amicably, but sometimes you need a third party to just help wade through the mess. So I think it's good advice and I hope she needs it because it otherwise could drag on for a long time.

Speaker 4:
[31:14] Absolutely. Good luck to her and thanks so much.

Speaker 1:
[31:16] Thanks for calling. Thanks for the advice. Bye. Yeah. Yeah, I think she's probably right. I like to be staffed up, okay? I like to hire someone for everything. Like I'm not one to, you know, I like a lot of protection, you know what I mean? So I say get a lawyer.

Speaker 2:
[31:33] You love a good retainer.

Speaker 1:
[31:35] I love a retainer. People on retainer, I don't even remember. Just in case, okay? You know, and I like it that way. Yeah.

Speaker 5:
[31:42] We're Drake coded of you.

Speaker 1:
[31:43] That is Drake coded of me. No, my lawyer, I've been with him since the beginning. I've only ever had one lawyer. And here's the funny thing. I've never met him, but we have like this secret bond and he's the best lawyer in the entire world. He's fast, he's smart. He understands me. He's gotten some really weird calls at all hours of the night for me. And he's, and we've never met and I kind of secretly think we should never meet because it's like some sort of a weird magic. But he's amazing.

Speaker 2:
[32:10] Do you ever run an egg timer like Brandi Glanville used to do when she would call her lawyer and she'd be like, that was only 15 minutes, only bill me for 15 minutes.

Speaker 1:
[32:18] No, he's worth every single penny. And I also think it's good to hire people who are like, they're specialists. Like they have special powers. Like they went to special schools for special things. You know what I mean? Like it's, anyway, that is very Drake of me, but I love him.

Speaker 2:
[32:34] Where did you get me from then? Special radio powers.

Speaker 1:
[32:40] Well, you know how to work the switchboard, so special powers.

Speaker 2:
[32:43] Jessie does that.

Speaker 1:
[32:44] Jessie too. You taught Jessie in my head. Alana, should we go to Alana? Hey, Alana, how are you? What's going on?

Speaker 6:
[32:55] Hi. Oh my God. Is it me?

Speaker 1:
[32:56] It's you, girl. Welcome to the show. What's going on?

Speaker 6:
[32:59] Okay, sister, help me. I have like a friend issue that I just want to talk through. I feel like I'm right. Okay, so I have this friend and like I'll show up to a girls' night and it'll be seven other people there that we did not agree on. I don't know these people. Okay. And it's been fine, you know, and then a couple of iterations, like all the girls don't mesh. And so I was like, okay, WWTD, like what would Tinx do? So very low stick. Had a conversation with her and I was like, hey girl, like, you know, maybe just like, let us know who's going to be there. You know, like we've had some weird nights out. So I just think like, it's the best way forward, completely agreeable, like very low stakes, not a lot of drama at all. Fast forward, there's a group hangout, there's a group chat. So I asked because I'm a rule follower, we've agreed on this.

Speaker 1:
[33:52] Yeah.

Speaker 6:
[33:52] Okay. I said, hey babe, who's all going to be there?

Speaker 7:
[33:55] Crickets.

Speaker 1:
[33:56] She didn't respond.

Speaker 6:
[33:58] Didn't respond, didn't respond, honey. So then we have a brunch. The brunch is already on the schedule. I show up to the brunch. It's just her and I, which is good.

Speaker 3:
[34:07] Yeah.

Speaker 6:
[34:07] Because I was expecting other people. So I ask about it and she's like, yeah, you know, like my husband and I were really annoyed by this because like why, why do we have to tell you who's going to be there?

Speaker 3:
[34:21] What?

Speaker 6:
[34:22] And I swabbergasted because I was like, huh, didn't we agree? We have a couple of martoons perhaps like one or two. I was still here. I did the two-martoon rule. Of course. You know what I mean? Like we were still elucid. So I was like, oh, and then she like proceeded to just say like, why do we need to explain? Like kind of what I said and we kind of like agreed to disagree and like ended the brunch and it was fine. But like there's a vibe. So I don't know what to do. We do have like another group hangout. Sorry, I'm talking a lot. No, you're not.

Speaker 1:
[34:56] I know you're not. I just think it's so weird that she won't just tell you. I just, I like to know who's going to be there because, and this is going to sound bitchy, but it's really not. There's some group hangs that if some people are there, I don't really feel like going sometimes. That's okay. That's not mean or evil. You don't, I'm not one of those people who's like, you have to play with everybody in the playground. Like otherwise you're bad. No, sometimes you're not in the mood for some energies. And also it's just bizarre that she's taking such a weird stand on this. Like it, look, if it's her house, I mean, but even still then, why wouldn't you just tell you? I was going to say if it was her house and she was having a party and she didn't want to list off every single person she invited, okay, I can understand that. But if it's a group hang, there is no logical reason why she wouldn't just be like, oh yeah, I invited XYZ. This is what, you know, it's just, it's weird. Like I don't, I don't really get her, I don't get her motivation for not sharing with you.

Speaker 6:
[35:51] Well, and then I feel held hostage, right? Like, oh, now I have to show up to this thing. I don't know who's going to be there. Then thing one and thing two are there. Both thing one, thing two, they're weird. And now like I kind of have an attitude and I have to drink an extra dirty martini to feel like myself.

Speaker 1:
[36:07] No, I totally, I cannot explain to you how much I feel you. And like, I shouldn't admit this because I'm sure someone will clip it and like resurface it in three years and be like, Tinx is a bully or whatever. Like I had an instance like a couple weeks ago when I was at a restaurant and I was having dinner with my friends and I was, we were locked in, we were having a great time. My other friend saw these people that he barely knew and pulled them over and said, oh, sit down with us. And it put me in the worst fucking mood because I was in, I was locked in, I was having a nice long deep dinner with my friends. We were talking, these people come over, I don't know them, I don't know them. Then I look like a bitch because I'm not talking to them because I'm not in the mood to talk to new people right then. That doesn't mean I'm a bad person. That doesn't mean I'm a bitch. That's just like being honest. And so I completely understand where you're coming from. I don't know if I have any super good advice on this other than to gently call her out. It's also weird that she was like, me and my husband were pissed you said this. It's like, okay, when did your husband get involved? Like, that's kind of strange.

Speaker 6:
[37:14] We'll have a girl's night and the husband will be there like eating some food at the table. And I'm like, wow, what?

Speaker 1:
[37:21] Yeah, I would just proceed with caution and I would limit your group hangs and like just try to keep her at arm's length and put up a boundary because it just doesn't seem worth all this. But I understand where you're coming from and just maybe put her on ice for a little bit. Just keep her at arm's length. You don't have to be her bestie.

Speaker 6:
[37:45] So when we say arm's length, does that mean that I don't go to the sushi date that we have on Friday?

Speaker 1:
[37:50] Is it just you two?

Speaker 6:
[37:52] No, probably not. Probably not. Probably not.

Speaker 1:
[37:57] I don't know. I mean, I don't know how much fun you have with her. I don't know your other social life. If you have a bunch of other friends, I'd say skip it and just say, you're being so weird about that. I would honestly just be kind of direct and be like, dude, you're being so weird about this. I don't know why you can't just be honest about our hangs. Sometimes I'm not in the mood to hang with a huge group and it's rubbing me the wrong way that you're making this an issue. When it's a non-issue, you just need to be honest. I would, me personally, and that's what I would probably say, but again, I don't know the constellation of your friends and your friend group and the other shit you have going on, but yeah, I would probably take a little break and just kind of see how it goes.

Speaker 6:
[38:40] Okay. Okay, thank you. You feel bad for me, right?

Speaker 1:
[38:46] Yes, I totally do. I totally do. Energy is real. Sometimes you just don't want to hang out with certain people and there's nothing wrong with that. You're valid 100 percent and I wish you luck in waiting through this. Okay.

Speaker 6:
[39:01] Well, that's all. Thank you so much. Bye, guys. Bye, everyone.

Speaker 1:
[39:05] Thanks for calling. Bye, babe.

Speaker 6:
[39:07] Okay. Bye.

Speaker 1:
[39:09] I loved her energy. I completely get that. Sometimes I'm just not in the fucking mood. Also, sometimes people who I love are really big energy suckers and sometimes you just literally want to be at a dinner with your friends in silence or whatever. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm not one of those people who's like, you have to be nice to everybody. Not everybody is supposed to get along. Like, use your head, it's just very, you know.

Speaker 3:
[39:33] Maybe you want to know who's all going to be there so you can make plans to do something else later. To 100%. Maybe I won't stay there all night.

Speaker 5:
[39:38] And also, how many martinis are you going to have? Are you going to need?

Speaker 1:
[39:42] Exactly.

Speaker 3:
[39:43] But also, if you were putting something together, say I'm having a birthday and you texted a friend and then she texted you back before she RSVP'd and she was like, who's all going? Would you be a little annoyed?

Speaker 1:
[39:53] Yeah, if it was like a birthday, then yeah, 100%.

Speaker 3:
[39:56] Birthday's different, I guess.

Speaker 1:
[39:58] But it's like, yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I see your point. I mean, that's like the weird thing with Partiful, right? It's like you have to say yes and then sometimes they won't tell you. I'm like, Partiful is...

Speaker 3:
[40:09] Yeah, it's shading.

Speaker 1:
[40:10] I read an article last year that was like Partiful is ruining the vibe because it's made it yet another social platform. You have to RSVP to see who's there and then it just becomes very hedging your bets vibes.

Speaker 3:
[40:23] Totally.

Speaker 1:
[40:23] So I do see it in that point. But I think if it's your good friend, if my good friend is inviting me to a dinner or a group hang, I expect to know who's going to be there.

Speaker 3:
[40:32] Especially if it's a small girl's night.

Speaker 1:
[40:33] For sure, for sure.

Speaker 3:
[40:35] If I'm planning something, I'm being like, yeah, so-and-so-and-so-and-so is also going to be there. I want them to know who all is coming.

Speaker 1:
[40:40] It's just more weird that the other friend is taking such a stand against this. It's like she's making it an issue when it really isn't.

Speaker 2:
[40:47] I feel like the husband is to blame somehow.

Speaker 1:
[40:49] I agree, Chris. You know what?

Speaker 6:
[40:51] There were no problems until the husband showed up.

Speaker 3:
[40:53] Why is he eating when they're having their girl's nights with them?

Speaker 1:
[40:56] When I invite you, your man is not invited unless I explicitly say so.

Speaker 3:
[40:59] Girl's night is girl night.

Speaker 8:
[41:00] He's 100%.

Speaker 1:
[41:02] Alex McCord. Okay. Let's go to Maggie. Hey, Maggie, how are you?

Speaker 8:
[41:08] Oh my God. Is it me?

Speaker 1:
[41:10] Yeah.

Speaker 8:
[41:10] Hi.

Speaker 1:
[41:10] Welcome to the show.

Speaker 8:
[41:12] I told myself I would not intro like that because everyone intros.

Speaker 1:
[41:17] It's okay.

Speaker 7:
[41:18] It's me.

Speaker 8:
[41:19] I'm listening in and I'm enjoying myself. I love the callers that call in. I feel like every time someone calls in, I want to hang out with that girl, like the last caller.

Speaker 1:
[41:27] Yeah. She had good vibes, the last caller. Yeah, I liked her.

Speaker 8:
[41:29] I'm like, can we all get martoons? How do we organize the community getting together? When you're there, obviously, I've been here, Rich on Walk in DC, love the meetups you do, but I'm like, we can also just get together as a community too.

Speaker 4:
[41:42] I want to hang out with you girls.

Speaker 1:
[41:43] I know. We need a martoon society, a nationwide martoon society with martoon meetups. Okay. I'll work on that. I like that idea. I like it. Okay.

Speaker 8:
[41:53] Well, perfect. I am a long time, long time follower since 2020. I actually called in to your show, like right when it was launched, I think like three years ago, maybe during its first year. And at the time I was turning 27, I'm 30 now. And you had told, I told you that it was my birthday. And we talked about like birthday celebrations and things. And you told me that I was entering my sexy womanhood era. And I wrote it, I wrote it in my notes. I've never forgotten it. I tell everybody in their late 20s that like they're entering their sexy womanhood era. I thought it was like such a beautiful way to describe your late 20s. And like now that I'm 30, I'm like, I can't believe that I ever like questioned like my identity.

Speaker 1:
[42:33] It's so crazy, right?

Speaker 8:
[42:35] And we talk about it all the time. Like, I mean, there's a lot of younger callers that call, I mean, I'm 30, like, you know, I'm not old, not my son, not myself, but I just, I thought, I think about it all the time. So I just had to like call in the first day that, and at the same call, it was actually when you're hot sauce Tabasco was launched, and I had to ask if that is ever coming back, because there's nothing I think about more.

Speaker 1:
[42:55] I, girl, I want to, let it be known, I am putting the back call out for Tabasco, let's do it again, let's run it back. I think of every product I've ever made, or any deal I've ever done, I get the most messages. And it's what, it's three years on now, and people still ask about it, I still think about it all the time. This is so gross, but I still have one bottle that's like, I refuse to take out of my fridge, it's like good vibes. And I kept the dress that I wore in the promo ad, because it's like good juju, and I like look it in my closet in LA, and I'm like, I wanna do it so bad. So everybody go tag Tabasco, go write to them, that was the best goddamn hot sauce, it was so good, you could put it on everything, like I still remember eating it on chicken, it was like the best thing in the world.

Speaker 3:
[43:42] The Chipotle deal you did with them.

Speaker 1:
[43:44] Oh my god, it was the best. So everybody go tell them, I am doing the thing you're not supposed to do showing your cards and saying I would 100% do it again in a heartbeat. So fingers crossed, we'll see. I hope something comes of it.

Speaker 8:
[43:56] Me too, I just made chicken salad and I was thinking about it while I was waiting hopefully to talk to you today and I was like, damn, the hot sauce would be so good on this right now.

Speaker 1:
[44:04] So good, oh my god, I miss it. Well, I thank you for your call and I'm so glad you feel so good in yourself and I hope that inspires other younger women to realize that they're just getting started and you really do like start getting sexy like really at 30 I think like even before that it's like you you're hot when you're younger like there's a there's a hotness to youth that is like irreplaceable but there's sexiness like true sexiness comes later for women and it's so exciting and we don't celebrate that enough. So I mean girl you're 30 get ready for the best freaking decade because it's just it's just so nice it's so fun.

Speaker 8:
[44:45] No you're so right thank you so much thank you it's so great to talk to you.

Speaker 1:
[44:48] You too.

Speaker 8:
[44:49] Have a great rest of your day. Bye baby.

Speaker 1:
[44:51] Bye baby. Oh wow all the callers have been really good vibes today I love that. Yeah it's so true I can't believe that I was worried about turning 30 I just I this decade is going too fast and I was talking to Emma yesterday and I was like god time is going so fast because I'm having so much fun and it's like work and play and whatever but it's going too fast I love it so much all right super super quick break I'm going to be taking more calls right after this don't go anywhere for anyone who needs the memo Stella Rosa has mastered the art of being delicious without taking itself too seriously it's semi-sweet has that perfect sparkle and is the one bottle you know will never disappoint whether you're solo or hosting and they've absolutely perfected the character arc you've got Stella Rosa black it's that rich berry packed sip that feels like upgrading your evening first class but for the couch and let's talk about the sparkling Moscato D'osti one sip of that crisp golden sparkle and suddenly the group chat is fun again and your to-do list can definitely wait so you guys dry Jan is over we love that so now I am back to enjoying my favorite drinks which obviously include Stella Rosa and with the weather being cold there's nothing better than a glass of red. If you haven't made Stella Rosa a main character in your life, what are you doing? Join the club at stellarosa.com or look for it at your local retailer. Consider this your sign to stock up and level up your vibe and remember you must be 21 plus to drink responsibly. Spring is here and it's the perfect time for a closet reset, focusing more on quality over quantity. This season build a wardrobe of pieces that are well made, versatile and easy to reach for every day with quints. With quints you get fabrics that feel elevated fits that are well thought out and pricing actually makes sense. Their spring pieces are lightweight, breathable and effortless. The kind of things you can throw on and silly and look put together. So you guys know that I am all about clothes fitting well and you can tell that they have put so much effort into all of the fits of the quints pieces. From their sweaters to their pants to their coats, they are all so luxuriously fit. They look extremely expensive even though they are not super pricey and we absolutely love that. Refresh your spring wardrobe with quints. Go to quints.com/tinx for free shipping and 365 day returns. Now available in Canada too. Go to quince.com/tinx for free shipping and 365 day returns. quints.com/tinx. Long work weeks and busy weekends can leave you feeling and looking depleted. Prolon's five day fasting mimicking diet works at the cellular level to reset and rejuvenate you from the inside out. Supporting sustained fat loss, lean muscle, metabolism, slower aging, and even glowing skin. With Prolon, you get everything you need pre-packaged and ready to go. Each of Prolon's five day program comes with five boxes labeled by day, so you know exactly what to eat. No prep or planning required. Guys, I have been on the Prolon game for a very long time, since way before I became an influencer. And I love it. I really do love Prolon. It is not a long term diet. It is a five day reset. And I just love the idea that within a week, less than a week, you would be feeling so good. For me, the main benefits are sleep improved and lower sugar cravings after. Like after you complete Prolon, for me, my personal experience is like, whole foods taste brighter. So like a strawberry after you do Prolon, you're like, wow, that's really sweet and good. And you're not really craving like the junk food of the world. Ready for your own reset for a limited time, Prolon is offering Its Me Tinx listeners 15% off site wide plus a $40 bonus gift when you subscribe to their five day program. Just visit prolonlife.com/tinx. That's prolonlife.com/tinx to claim your 15% discount and your bonus gift. prolonlife.com/tinx. Welcome back to Its Me Tinx Live exclusively on Radio Andy channel 102. God, I love Drake. I'm gonna listen to Drake all day. Sometimes I'll have a day where I wake up and I'm like, it's a Drake day and I'm just gonna listen to Drake all day and it does put me in a good mood when I'm like bopping around going on the subway and I'm like, it's just Drake themed. I do like to have a theme for my day music-wise, because in New York, you listen to so much because you're walking and on the train, and sometimes I'll do Ariana Grande. I'll be like, it's a themed day and I like that.

Speaker 3:
[49:16] You go through their albums and you listen to them top to bottom. Yeah. I like doing that too.

Speaker 1:
[49:21] It's so fun.

Speaker 3:
[49:21] A Beyonce day.

Speaker 1:
[49:22] Oh yeah, for sure. Let's go to Courtney. Hey Courtney, how are you?

Speaker 7:
[49:28] Hi Tinx, hi team.

Speaker 3:
[49:30] Hi.

Speaker 7:
[49:31] I actually was on like last month, but I'm not going to talk about that, but I just wanted to say, I last time I like thought I was still not on the air. So I'm like, be prepared to say hi when you get on, whatever.

Speaker 1:
[49:44] You're on now, promise.

Speaker 7:
[49:46] Great. Love the Drake in the like brace. I was just like dropping it low in my kitchen by myself.

Speaker 1:
[49:53] We'd love to hear it.

Speaker 7:
[49:56] So I wanted to call in because I've actually been wanting to call about this a bunch of times lately and something else came up before that. So I called in about that instead. But and it kind of goes with what your Friday episode was, which I so loved, like the centering your age to give context. I'm in my late thirties. I'm a little older than you. I'm also single. You know, I have a very full life. Of course, I would love to change that someday. That's right. You know, that's it's not like yes or no. It can be both, as you say. But I wanted to give like a not a different perspective, but like a a another like kind of lifestyle, because I feel like so many of the wonderful callers who have called in and given their take on de-centering their age, like I feel like they live in these like wonderful big cities and they're doing like big fun things all the time. I live in the town I grew up in, so I like it's granted it's not like middle of no where I live like right outside of a city, but like I still live surrounded by like all my family. I see my entire family way too much a week. I love it, but so it's like I am still, wait, I didn't even say why I was calling. I am calling because me and my friends started a mantra, if you will, this is the beginning of the year that goes with the decentering of the age called Party More 26.

Speaker 1:
[51:24] Oh, I love that. So the slogan I can get behind.

Speaker 7:
[51:26] Let me dive into what this means.

Speaker 1:
[51:27] Yeah.

Speaker 7:
[51:28] So it, I think it like encompasses all of your seasonal, you know, themes here, but this one, Party More 26, this is how it started. We were not going to go out on New Year's Eve and we were like, let's just fucking go out. We ended up going out. We were out till 4 a.m. We were in our hometown. We were not, you know, we're not in some, we weren't in Vegas, we weren't in New York. I would have loved to have been, but we're in our hometown. And it doesn't just refer to like going out and drinking, like you can apply this to anything. It's basically just like utilizing your time to like get the most out of your life.

Speaker 1:
[52:02] I love it.

Speaker 7:
[52:04] We just drop it into lines. So like the other day I was like, oh, let me like order groceries and I'll work from home. And I was like, no, go pick up your fucking groceries, go sit in the coffee, go grab a coffee, sit and read for a little bit. I'm like, party more 26, that's me.

Speaker 1:
[52:17] 100%. It's very summer about side vibes. It's very summer about side and I like that. And I really appreciate you calling and saying that because I know like, I think it's important to be aware of like the standpoint that I'm coming from. I understand that not everybody lives in New York and travels a lot and parties as much as I do. Like, and I think that you can do, you can decenter your age, you can have more fun, you can party more, you can make your life what you want it to be and romanticize it anywhere. And so I just, I really appreciate this message. I think it's great. Party more 26. Absolutely.

Speaker 7:
[52:55] And I also, I don't party as much as you, but I definitely party. So I'm not like, you know, saying that I'm sitting home sewing and bringing my crocheting to like a local library. Like I'm still in the street.

Speaker 1:
[53:05] For sure.

Speaker 7:
[53:05] But there's ways to apply the party more, as you always say, like summer outside. And it doesn't just have to be in this like big, beautiful city, which of course I would love it to be. And it's fun to go visit those places, but you can mix like the home life. You can mix being with your friends who are, I'm with my friends who are married and with their kids all the time. You can mix that into having this big, full party more 26 life. It doesn't just have to be like, oh, you're single or, oh, you don't have kids and so you're going to go like do these grins gestures. No, you can like have the big party more in any form.

Speaker 1:
[53:43] Yeah.

Speaker 7:
[53:44] Shout out to my friend Catherine, who started it with me and my cousins, Nina and Emily too.

Speaker 1:
[53:49] Shout out Nina and Emily. I love it. Yeah, no, I think it's great. I totally hear you and I'm proud of you and I love party more 26. Absolutely keep doing it.

Speaker 7:
[53:59] And I just want to admit one thing, because I feel shame about I did my first snarky online comment when West did his podcasting and I commented that he sounds like he talks like he has a slinky in his mouth. And I was like, I cannot wait to hear like the combo between like Amanda and West. It's probably just like long pauses, like long blinks.

Speaker 1:
[54:22] There's a lot of blinking.

Speaker 7:
[54:24] I just can't believe they brought that up. I'm 38. I can't believe I was in the frigging comments being rude. I'm like, what has this done to me? I don't recognize myself.

Speaker 1:
[54:32] Scamanda will do that to you. You know, it really will. Well, I love you. Thank you for calling. Keep doing you. Keep partying more 26. And I know you've inspired others. So I really appreciate it.

Speaker 5:
[54:46] All right.

Speaker 7:
[54:47] Love you guys. You guys are so funny. You're the best.

Speaker 1:
[54:49] Love you. Bye.

Speaker 7:
[54:51] Bye.

Speaker 1:
[54:52] Yeah, I love that. I mean, I think it's like, you know, you can make your life full. I think that's always been broad strokes. What I'm trying to encourage you all to do is to not be dependent on any outside sources for, not be completely dependent on any outside sources for your happiness or your self-esteem. And whatever it is, you can romanticize your life and be the main character and make it so full and enjoy it. And you don't have to live in a big city. You really don't. Like, I know that I understand the standpoint from which I am, you know, talking and preaching all this stuff. I get it. And I never want to glaze over the fact that I understand I'm in a unique position, and I do live in New York and go to parties and whatever. But I think the message still stands. I really do. I wouldn't say it so wholeheartedly if I didn't. And I really like that color, because you can have fun anywhere. Like, you really, like, there's so much fun to be had. It's just not allowing yourself to get bogged down in the day to day. So, yeah.

Speaker 3:
[55:53] Speaking of Summer of Outside, on our meeting, when are we starting to do that? When are we transitioning out into it? I think, personally, we should start a little earlier.

Speaker 1:
[56:05] Lauren, I take your suggestion, and I agree with that. I was actually thinking in my head last night when I was falling asleep after watching Euphoria, which has gotten very weird, by the way. Very weird. And it makes me, am I gonna finish it? Yeah, I'm gonna finish it. Like, the weight, the saturation, it makes me, gives me a headache. It's very depressing. Anyway, whatever, I'll talk about that another time. I think we should start mid-May.

Speaker 3:
[56:30] I'm sold.

Speaker 1:
[56:32] Is that too early?

Speaker 2:
[56:33] No. I was gonna go beginning of May, so.

Speaker 3:
[56:34] I'm ready now, yeah.

Speaker 2:
[56:36] You gotta do mid-May, because it's gonna lead you into Memorial Day weekend, which is truly the first weekend.

Speaker 3:
[56:41] Yeah, I think we need like a really fun, sunny weekend, and then it's just gonna like, it's gonna come to us.

Speaker 1:
[56:47] It's gonna come to us.

Speaker 3:
[56:47] And then we're gonna be like, let's go.

Speaker 2:
[56:49] May 15th.

Speaker 1:
[56:50] Jersey Day. Jersey Day.

Speaker 2:
[56:52] May 15th.

Speaker 1:
[56:52] Exactly. And it goes all the way through September. I hope you guys don't forget that. God, I'm so excited for Summer of Outside. It's the longest season. It's the longest season of all. All right, you guys, that was our show. Thank you so much for listening. I will be back on Friday with another live show. Until then, be good, bye.