title Who was the first 'Lesbian'?

description Was Sappho queer? Or was this Ancient Greek poet just really really good friends with women?
Today on Betwixt the Sheets, Kate is joined by Katherine Horgan to find out how Sappho's poetry has lasted through the centuries, what we can really know about her life, and why she is important in the modern world?
Katherine is researching classical reception in Early Modern English Literature at Harvard, and will be taking on a professorship at Sarah Lawrence later this year.
This episode was edited by Hannah Feodorov. The producer was Sophie Gee. The senior producer was Freddy Chick.
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Speaker 1:
[00:00] Do you want even more shocking and scandalous history? Like why the ancient Greek statues had such small manhoods? Or what went on behind closed doors in the Georgian era? Well, sign up to History Hit where you can see me discover the scandalous side of history as well as hundreds of hours of original documentaries plus new releases every week covering everything from prehistoric Scotland to the Treaty of Versailles. Sign up to join me in locations around the world and explore the past. Just visit historyhit.com/subscribe. Hello, my lovely Betwixters. Welcome back to Betwixt The Sheets. Thank you for dropping by once again. I know that there's an array of podcasts that you could be listening to, and I'm frankly stoked that you've chosen to listen to this one. But before we go any further, I do have to tell you this is an adult podcast. It's spoken by adults, two other adults, about adulty things in an adulty way, covering a range of adulty subjects, and you should be an adult too. Right, can you take all of that off? Can you? Can you? Well, if you can't be off with you, you're just holding things up. Right, for the rest of you, on with the show. He seems to me equal to the gods that man, whoever he is who is opposite you, sits alone and listens close to your sweet speaking and lovely laughing. Oh, it puts the heart in my chest on wings. For when I look at you, even a moment no speaking is left in me. Oh, we've all been there, haven't we? When you're at a party and you see the person that you've got a crush on and they're only talking and laughing with somebody else and it's driving you absolutely insane. Of course, jealousy is a universal experience, but this poem about jealousy, this one, this has been written and rewritten and passed on and translated and retranslated for over two and a half thousand years. This is the work of Sappho and she knew about the Green-eyed Monster only too well. Hello and welcome back to Betwixt The Sheets The History of Sex Scandal & Society with me Kate Lister. Oh Sappho, Sappho, Sappho, Sappho, Sappho, if you don't know her is the OG of lesbian history. She gives us the word sapphic. She lived on Lesbos and gave us the word lesbian. And what with her clearly being so influential in lesbian history, we know loads about her, don't we? Don't we? Do we? No, we don't. We know sod all. What we've got is fragments of her poetry and whispers and rumors and other people writing about her. So how do you go about piecing her life and her work back together? Well, today I'm joined by Sappho scholar, Katherine Horgan, and she is going to help us start to put some of this back and answer some of the burning questions that we've all got about Sappho, about her poetry, about her life, and of course about the girls that she fancied. Right, let's do it. Well, hello, and welcome to Betwixt The Sheets. It's our lovely Katherine Horgan. How are you doing?

Speaker 2:
[03:37] Thank you. I'm well. I'm happy to be here.

Speaker 1:
[03:39] Well, I'm thrilled that you're here because you, well, you're an expert in a lot of things, but Sappho is your girl. It's so bizarre. We haven't done an episode on Sappho just yet. As a first question, there will be people listening going, who? Could you just tell us who is she? And how did you become interested in studying Sappho?

Speaker 2:
[04:01] Yeah. Well, Sappho is an ancient Greek poet.

Speaker 1:
[04:07] Really ancient.

Speaker 2:
[04:08] Really ancient. Sometimes Homer is a useful benchmark. She's just a little more recent than Homer. So she's like in the 600s BC, about 600 years older than Christ is another good benchmark. So she's very old. And she was writing poetry. Well, really she was singing poetry. So she was composing poetry and accompanying herself on her lyre, which is a kind of harp in ancient Greece and-

Speaker 1:
[04:35] Sing a songwriter.

Speaker 2:
[04:36] Yeah. And very quickly became a quite well renowned poet. She was possibly one of the most successfully famous poets ever. 2,600 years is a really long time, you know, to have any kind of transmission, to have people even know your name. And so she became really admired and well renowned. And we still know who she is, which is crazy.

Speaker 1:
[05:00] How did you first hear about or discover Sappho?

Speaker 2:
[05:03] I think that when you're sort of a little girl who loves books, and you start to love books professionally at a certain point, you start going to school and college for reading, Sappho starts to come up as a model of a poet or a model of an intellectual kind of woman. And then as I grew up and became a queer woman, she becomes up quite a lot as a poet who writes love poems about other women. And at a certain point in my dissertation, she just sort of kept coming back as I was doing my studies in English literature. And she became my life's work up until this point. So that's how that happened.

Speaker 1:
[05:42] So Katherine, here's the thing about Sappho, right? Her name has given us the word Sapphic and she was on Lesbos, which is where we get the word lesbian from. As you've already said, her poetry was phenomenally influential. She was so famous. So obviously somebody that was that influential and that's given us words to describe same-sex attraction, we must know loads about her. We must have really detailed accounts of her personal life with which to understand her, right?

Speaker 2:
[06:11] Well, I think that's, I mean, yes, of course, Sappho of the thing that is most famous about Sappho is, of course, how little we know about her. That's mad. Yeah, it's crazy. I mean, honestly, my take on it is actually that we know a surprising amount about her given how old she is. I mean, if you think how little we know even about our own grandparents or great-grandparents a lot of the time.

Speaker 1:
[06:33] That's true.

Speaker 2:
[06:34] I feel pretty good in some ways about what we know about her, but it's true. We don't really understand the context in which the songs were composed or performed. We have some biographical details. We know she has a brother that she's mad at. We know the names of some girlfriends. We know some people who come up again and again. I think the one thing that we do know though, is that we know that people were fascinated by her. We know that she was a phenomenon. She must have been so striking, I think, is what we do know, to have garnered that much attention and that much interest, and people, for thousands of years, think about her and write about her and imagine her. Very quickly, she becomes even sort of a character in drama and poetry, so even beyond the poetry itself. So I think that that's the weird contrast, is that while we don't know a lot about her in particular, we know what people thought about her, and it's less like that those things are facts and more that they really indicate how exciting she must have been.

Speaker 1:
[07:34] It's kind of like William Shakespeare, like considering how influential his work is, we don't actually know that much about him, only in Saffron's case, we know even less.

Speaker 2:
[07:46] Right. It's exactly like that, except add a couple of thousand years on it. Right.

Speaker 1:
[07:52] But the fact that we know about a woman from this period at all, I mean, it's not true that we have no records of women. We certainly know that they were there and there's scholars doing amazing work recovering that history, but even so, that's incredible.

Speaker 2:
[08:05] Yeah. It's unusual. There aren't a lot of them. There are some other women poets who are mentioned, especially in other texts about Greek poetry and things like this. There are other women like Mertis and Knossos and Irina, but we don't really know their names today and almost all of their poetry is totally lost. So Saffo is really the big dog in women's poetry.

Speaker 1:
[08:29] Most of Saffo's poetry is lost. Am I right in thinking that some of it survives even as just a couple of words?

Speaker 2:
[08:35] Yeah. Almost all of Saffo's poetry is lost. Only one complete poem survives.

Speaker 1:
[08:41] That's so frustrating.

Speaker 2:
[08:42] I know. It's so frustrating, isn't it? So frustrating. Only one complete poem survives and some longer ones, but some of the fragments, there are about 600 of them, are as small as one word.

Speaker 1:
[08:55] Catherine, how did they know that Saffo wrote that then if it's from one word?

Speaker 2:
[08:59] Okay. So this is sort of one of those great 20th century archaeology stories. So I'll give you a little overview of what happens. Saffo lives, she sings poems, the girls love her, Saffo dies at some point in the 600s BC. People are copying her poetry. There's no printing press, right? There's no computers. So people are copying the poetry again and again and again. And this goes on for about a thousand years, which is very respectable, very respectable. At some point during that period, so about the 700s AD, so after the fall of Rome, it's gone. We don't know where it goes. Probably fires, wars, people losing interest, changes in fashion, religious intervention. We're not really sure what happens. It crops back up in around Shakespeare's time, in like manuscripts. So we get some quotations from Safo's poetry. We get some quotations and there are only about 60 of those. And that's all we have until about 1914, when a huge number of papyruses, like so the original copied shards, are unearthed outside the ancient Egyptian city of Oxyrenchus in the trash heaps, in the dump. No. Yes. And so the archaeologists have pieced them together based on what surrounds them, based on, you know, the poems that we already knew, what that we had heard, that we were suspicious might have existed. And they pieced them together. And that was sort of the huge explosion of Safo fragments we have today. So it really multiplied what we have now.

Speaker 1:
[10:39] That's incredible.

Speaker 2:
[10:40] Yeah. And that's where we get the sort of iconic image of the fragment of papyrus that you see on the cover of books and things like that. So that's kind of the great lost and found story of Safo.

Speaker 1:
[10:51] Do you think they'll find any more? Do you think there's like an urn somewhere buried with like a load of books by Safo?

Speaker 2:
[10:57] I have to tell you, I pray for this every night. So this is, you know, a prayer I have always in my mind. I think maybe.

Speaker 1:
[11:06] Come on.

Speaker 2:
[11:07] Yeah, come on. Yeah, I want to know what they were. So yeah, but that's sort of what happened, which is honestly kind of impressive that we have anything at all. But I think that all the holes, like they're so frustrating, like you said, that we are very tempted to only think about what we don't have. But it is sort of this really fascinating combination.

Speaker 1:
[11:30] That's true. We will be grateful for what we do have. So what do we know? Because something else that happens when you don't have sources and facts is people are quite happy to fill in those blanks with anything and whatever they fancy. And also a lot of the information we've got about Sappho is people writing about her or later on. So how do you sift through that? What do we know happened?

Speaker 2:
[11:54] Well, I think a lot of... I think the thing that we know is that she existed. Which is, first of all, spectacular, right? That this sort of woman who was so exciting as to inspire so much chatter existed at all, which for me, I think as a queer person, is extremely affirming and exciting. That she was this person who was so attractive and interesting that she had to be talked about. Even when people disapproved of her, which they occasionally and often did, they had to talk about her. It was impossible not to talk about her. So that I feel good about. We also, we have some rough dates, and we know, I think, that everyone thought she was superb at it. People tend to say... Rave reviews. And also we know that from sort of a, like kind of emotional fan kind of level, but also on a critical level, that people have been talking about the excellence and the learning of her poetry for a really long time, since it was composed really. And so I think that we're very used to, as modern people, knowing things. Virginia Woolf has a bank account, right? And the things that we can trace and a mortgage and all sorts of wonderful documentation. But I think that with Sappho, what we know is that whatever she was, she was fascinating. And in that blank space, it gives us a lot of room to imagine. So I think in my view of Sappho, I tend to focus on almost reverse engineering what she might have been based on the way people thought about her. And I think that she meant a lot to people and has always meant a lot to people. So in contrast to what we know, which is quite frankly, absolutely nothing. if you're asking me what we absolutely know for sure, we do not know anything for sure. But yes, I know. But the se- what we suspect about Sappho and what we, in the debate and what we think about, I think the thing that emerges from all of the complicated context is that she was always crossing boundaries. Because it's never clear to pin her down. It's not an easy thing to place her. So she's always sort of crossing boundaries between masculine and feminine, between the religious and the erotic, between all sorts of places. And so as a result, I think people had to keep talking about her because they couldn't figure her out.

Speaker 1:
[14:27] I'll be back with Catherine and Sappho after this short break. How do we know? I guess we don't, but it's not a situation where it's a brand name that's being used, like Hippocrates, because people used to say, oh, these books are by Hippocrates, and then later on scholars went, actually, I don't think they are all by the same guy. I think this is people using the pen name Hippocrates.

Speaker 2:
[15:01] Yeah, there's a lot of that going on in Sappho literature. The deep dive and the deep cut, people argue about whether or not the fragments are authentic, or this fragment or that fragment is authentic. I think that it mostly matters to me, in just terms of tradition and women's poetry and queer poetry, that people were talking about the poetry and its excellence, regardless of whether it belongs to her, is the idea that women can be great poets. In fact, one of the earliest women poets who defines what really Western poetry means for a lot of people is a woman poet, and a queer woman poet who sits at the very beginning of our literary traditions, which we often forget. We think that Shakespeare sits at the beginning of our traditions or something, but actually Sappho really sits there. So we find the origins of poetry actually in queer women, which is stunning.

Speaker 1:
[15:56] How do we know she was queer? If we know so little about it. And you might one day find a diary from Sappho being like, look, I just love boys. I don't know what everybody's on about.

Speaker 2:
[16:06] Well, I think that the thing that's really interesting is that I like the word queer for Sappho weirdly more than lesbian, because calling Sappho a lesbian is sort of like calling, you know, Christ a Christian in some ways that it's like what they became as a movement is not, is so transcends who they were originally. And so I think that Sappho doesn't have a lot of our baggage, right? We as queer people are sort of post-AIDS crisis, post a lot of trauma, post a lot of Victorian oppression. The cultures were different. So what it meant to be queer was different in the ancient world. What it meant to have desire for women as a woman was different in the ancient world, and in some ways alarmingly similar as I explore in my work, and in some ways completely different. So one of the ways we know that Sappho addressed her poetry to women is that some of the best preserved poems we have are directed at women.

Speaker 1:
[17:03] So she's writing to the girls.

Speaker 2:
[17:05] Yeah, she's writing to the girls. And we even know their names at a certain point. The first poem of the collection is The Ode to Aphrodite, which is Sappho's prayer to Aphrodite to help her with a girl who is not returning her affections. And I mean, we've all been there. So we've all been there. So it's but it's sort of this poem where Sappho, Aphrodite answers Sappho at the end and says, Don't worry, Sappho, the one who runs away from you, she will soon run after you. The one you give gifts to, she will soon give them back. So that she is a very important part of the poem that sets the tone for the collection. And then there were many other poems that are addressed to other young women.

Speaker 1:
[17:50] And she's writing in the voice of Sappho, the woman. Because I suppose somebody could argue, like, and this has happened throughout history of like, like people are writing poems and directing it. Some of maybe the voice of the poet is different. It's definitely her. It's definitely a woman.

Speaker 2:
[18:04] Well, I mean, Sappho names herself in the poem. Aphrodite says, who wrongs you Sappho? She says, yeah, we have a name. We know that Sappho is the person who desires in the poem. And people for a long time did argue that that female pronoun wasn't there, but it is. And the fragments that were found at OxyRynchus only confirmed that, that truth. So even more, we have poems, a famous poem to Anachtaria, whose lovely ankles inspire desire in Sappho. And also we have fragment 31, the famous love triangle poem, where Sappho looks at a man admiring her beloved and has a mental breakdown about the desire of that, the female beloved who is explicitly female. So Sappho's writing to girls. That's honestly the best evidence we have about Sappho. And the other thing is, in the ancient world, this is a pretty common observation. So Horace and Ovid and all of these old poets, they take it for granted that Sappho was writing for girls and honestly take it as a model for them writing for girls themselves, right? So these male poets are sort of thinking, well, you know who's really good at getting girls? Sappho. So let's look at those poems and think about them.

Speaker 1:
[19:24] I'm wondering how you think that her work and her sexuality might have been understood in the time. It's very difficult to try and tease it out. I've got a theory about it. I'm obviously not a Sappho scholar like you are, but I've read her work and what we know about her. So it seems like there was a lot of... It's not true that it was great to be queer in ancient Greece. They had their own rules and regulations and things, but they also had an appreciation of same-sex love, but also the idea that women were supposed to be the passive recipient and that sort of lesbianism complicated that. And I wonder if this is... Because she's not talking about sex in her poems. She's talking about love. If that made it a little different for them. This isn't shagging people, which may have meant they'd have to try and understand how dominant and submissive this could work. But this is in the tradition of men loving other men and women loving other women. It's not about sex.

Speaker 2:
[20:23] Yeah. I think that... Well, I can tell you actually that by the Renaissance, which is what my work is about, people understand Sappho's loves as explicitly sexual.

Speaker 1:
[20:33] She's definitely having sex.

Speaker 2:
[20:35] For sure. And they're very clear about it. I have some new translations that I'm working on of Latin writing about Sappho in the 1400s and 1500s that are very, very explicit about how Sappho had sex with other women, which women she was having sex with and which women she wasn't having sex with, and what the communities of women who have sex with other women look like. So by Shakespeare's moment, there is a strong understanding that this is a sexual relationship. And I sort of think that it's one of these things that I wonder if it was an open secret in some ways, I think, in the ancient world. Sappho appears sometimes in these very elite contexts, like you're sort of mentioning the sort of Socrates, very elevated.

Speaker 1:
[21:19] Yeah, because I can't remember who writes about it, but they say that like, oh, Socrates loved his pupils, and Sappho loves her pupils as well. And that was this kind of like, so that's what's going on.

Speaker 2:
[21:29] Yes. I mean, that's an observation that also this critic, Maximus of Tyre, makes in like the fourth century. But I think the thing that's funny about it is Sappho also appears in really erotic contexts a lot of the time. So even though she has this sort of elevated, like 10th muse sort of really heightened status as a literary person, sort of as you were kind of indicating like someone who's like gone above sexuality in some way and like pure desire, there's also this really physical comedic tradition of Sappho and sort of Greek comedy and Roman comedy. People think of Sappho as a sexy kind of lady. So I think that there's this sort of relationship between like the sublime and the ridiculous that really marks Sappho's sublimity as erotic and her eroticism as sublime, you know, that sort of thing that happens all the time. So I think that there is a strong sense of both and of course, there's just a lot of people with different opinions. It's so hard to reconstruct what people thought. But it seems that all the time there was the potential to think about Sappho both ways and often at the same time.

Speaker 1:
[22:37] They weren't mad at her, were they? They weren't, maybe they were. Have you found stuff from the time that's condemning her of just like, how dare you write this?

Speaker 2:
[22:45] Every so often, but the dominant strain is, this is the most excellent poetry ever written. So the dominant strain is about the poetry's excellence. Occasionally, she's in a little bit of trouble with one author or another, but mostly people are interested in how good she is at it because they want to be that good at it themselves. When poets write about other poetry, they're often thinking about how they can be great poets. Sappho is the greatest poet.

Speaker 1:
[23:13] Does she write about sex? Sappho?

Speaker 2:
[23:16] I mean, one wonders. I don't think so. Not in the way that people who write sex manuals write about sex. Not in the way we do. I think she's always more interested in desire itself and the physical experience of desiring another person. I think that she's more interested in the potential of relationships between women and what kind of eroticism emerges from that. I think we see, as you were saying, the sort of women as passive and men as aggressive in ancient Greek poetry, which is true. In Sappho, though, we see these women as sort of reciprocal, you know, as kind of changing places, as the desire is sort of really powerful, but also not necessarily possessive or controlling. I think so even while Sappho takes on a very masculine role of the desirer, the object of desire is also less of an object, I would say, in some ways. You know, there's this sort of the reciprocity of the one who pursues will now be pursued, the sort of like that women switch roles kind of easily in these erotic relationships. And the other thing is, one wonders if she didn't talk about sex simply very much simply because she didn't need to. I think that there's something radical about our conversations about sex that means something in our culture. And I wonder if the impetus was different, if the desire was the more interesting conversation, rather than the sex being the more interesting conversation, which I think for us, because it was so repressed for so long, that's the more interesting point. But I wonder if in a different sort of society, that's less necessary.

Speaker 1:
[24:57] Less interesting to them. Yeah. Is it true she lived on Lesbos? We think so.

Speaker 2:
[25:03] Everybody says so. So nobody says she didn't, is sort of the idea. And women on Lesbos are sort of strongly associated for a very long time with different kinds of sex, from oral sex to women having sex with other women, is sort of thought of as a sort of island of Lesbos kind of thing to do. Throughout the ancient world. So definitely comes from a tradition, like an ancient tradition of sexual thinking in that way. And she lives in one particular town on Lesbos called Matuline. Although there is some debate about exactly where, but people often call her Sappho of Lesbos. That's no one really fights about that.

Speaker 1:
[25:44] In some stories about her, she's married and in some, she has a daughter. What's your thoughts on that?

Speaker 2:
[25:52] I mean, I think that that's sort of part of the mythos of Sappho. So what I particularly study is what I call Sappho's mythography. So all of the writing you were talking about, about that surrounds Sappho. The sort of imaginations of Sappho having a husband and a child. And even sometimes a boyfriend named Seon who comes up. The funny thing about these accounts though, is that in many ways they make her queerer, right? Because the thing about Sappho is that all of them are true at the same time, right? So it's like, if she has a husband in those accounts you're referencing, where she has a husband and a child, she also is the lover of women. The same account says the same thing. So and in the same poem that sort of imagined Sappho's love for this boy, Seon, she talks about her female lovers as well. So there's sort of this accumulation rather than like one or the other. The question isn't like, what are you Sappho? Are you a lesbian? Are you bi? It's more, what aren't you? Right? She sometimes behaves like a man. She sometimes behaves like a woman. She sometimes talks like an old woman, sometimes a young woman, sometimes she's married, sometimes she's not. And so there's all of this like, she's so many things that that's the queerest part of her. Yeah.

Speaker 1:
[27:07] I mean, certainly, I mean, even at the time, it's very malleable, her sexuality, and it's very fluid, isn't it? And it still amazed me that it doesn't seem to have offended her or anybody. And it doesn't seem to have stopped her rise to become the most famous. Maybe, maybe it helped it. Maybe that was how they could try and square it of like, but she's a more masculine woman. So of course, she's really famous.

Speaker 2:
[27:31] Yeah. And it certainly did. That helped a lot. But it's sort of one of these things where one of my favorite things about queerness is when it sort of forces people to accept itself because it plays into dominant tropes. So it's sort of like, you know, people are forced to accept this masculine woman because she is masculine and great, and we want to put her into our traditions, but also she's a woman. And so we have to expand our concepts for her because the queerness actually, it's her queerness that forces us to accept her in some ways because she plays into the normative masculine tropes, even though she's not a man. And so we have this really intense queerness that forces people to talk about her and include her, even when they're trying to exclude her, which is a kind of inclusion, you know?

Speaker 1:
[28:32] I'll be back with Catherine and Sappho after this short break. Was she all, she was clearly a very big deal in her own day. Like you've got loads of writers writing about her saying how great she is. Was that, did her fame dissipate? Did it have a resurgence later on? Has everyone always been pro-Sappho or was there any point, I mean, the Victorians or the Renaissance where people went, hang on a minute here, she's talking about girls, we can't have this.

Speaker 2:
[29:08] Well, yeah, I mean, I think that there's like, you know, fashions of sort of making Sappho a little bit straighter and making Sappho a little bit gayer, right? It goes in and out when you've been around for 2000 years, you go in and out of fashion like everyone else. So it seems like the idea of Sappho is a pretty steady trickle of people sort of knowing that she's famous and that she matters. About her sexuality, there are people who sort of go through phases of kind of expanding on it. For example, John Donne loves in some of his poems to talk about women who have sex with other women, as in his poem Sappho to Phalaenus. So the sort of Renaissance liking of a queer Sappho. And then there's like a slightly later 18th century version of a straighter Sappho, sort of a Sappho who's more of a school mistress, who's an educated lady, you know, who has female students, right? Yeah, there's sort of that vision. And then the Victorians really love Sappho.

Speaker 1:
[30:06] Oh, did they? Now, what did they have to say about Sappho?

Speaker 2:
[30:09] Well, they kind of love this sort of elegant, you know, dark Gothic Sappho, you know, we've sort of, we haven't touched on this yet, but there is the myth of Sappho's suicide.

Speaker 1:
[30:19] Oh, they would love that. The Victorians would love that. Yeah, they'll be all over that one.

Speaker 2:
[30:24] Right. They love a lovesick lady. They love that. And so there is this story throughout that Sappho ultimately committed suicide because of the abandonment of her boyfriend, Faeon. This is one of many stories about Sappho. However, the Victorians really love that elegant, mysterious, missing Sappho, the Sappho of the fragments. They're sort of fascinated by this idea of fragmentation, of loss, of that kind of pining and logging, like in the desire of the poetry. And by the sort of 1860s and 70s, there are some pretty famous translations. In the 1880s, really, there is a famous translation that really strongly asserts that Sappho's poetry is queer. It's sort of been a matter of debate in the early 1800s, the mid-early 1800s, but then there's sort of an English translation that comes down hard on the issue. And this really paves the way for the Sapphism of the 20th century, where we sort of get the idea of Sapphist, lesbian, all of those modern terms that really underpin our ideas of what it means to be queer, a queer woman today.

Speaker 1:
[31:29] When did they start using the word lesbian? Because I love the history of words that they used to describe, particularly lesbians, because it gives you a really strong understanding of how culturally same-sex attraction was understood, and it's usually very badly.

Speaker 2:
[31:45] Yeah, it's a pretty old word. I mean, I can tell you sort of the unpublished version, which is I am working on a paper that records an instance of the word lesbian to describe queer women as early as 1475.

Speaker 1:
[32:00] No. I thought that the OED put it at like 19th century. That's amazing, Catherine.

Speaker 2:
[32:07] Well, this is in Latin. So this is some writing. Yeah, this is some writing in Latin. It counts, but it completely shocked me. I was sort of going through some due diligence things, and I found a commentator who says, you know, lesbian women were famous for this sort of thing, for having sex with other women. So women of Lesbos are having sex like this. So the adjective is lesbian, right? From Lesbos, and it kind of collapses, right? It means women who have sex and relationships like this, and also women from Lesbos do this thing. So it's kind of an oldish idea of women on Lesbos having different kinds of non-normative sex. But it becomes sort of formal to mean specifically queer women or women having sex with other women in the 19th century sort of way.

Speaker 1:
[32:58] Some of my favorite slang, I'm deviating slightly from Sappho now, I should never have said this. No, do it, do it. I think it dates to like the 17th century, and it's playing at flats.

Speaker 2:
[33:10] There's a lot of those. I just worked with this extremely wonderful edition called All the World in The, which is coming out I think this spring with Columbia University Press. It's an edition of queer poetry throughout history in English. Some of the 18th century poems about women having sex with women have some of the truly great euphemisms or dirty slang.

Speaker 1:
[33:39] Is it all grinding? That's the one that seems to crop up the most is grinding and anything that's like that. I think it's this misconception, we probably call it scissoring today, but this idea that women, because there isn't a penis there, that they must be imitating heterosexual intercourse and kind of rubbing on each other.

Speaker 2:
[33:59] Yeah, so that's actually the ancient word for women who have sex with other women is tribad, which comes from the Greek word tribo, to rub. And in some of the Latin I've been working on, Renaissance writers are very clear about what this kind of sex is. But I actually think that it's, a lot of the time people think that there is some kind of dildo involved, you know, just to get right into it, right? There's a lot of like Roman, just let's get into it. The Roman writing has a lot of dildos involved. But with Sappho, that's actually not true a lot of the time. There it is sort of true in some sort of comedic later interpretations. But the idea of Sappho is like, I think that the idea of like women who have sex with other women by scissoring is a particularly important way that we get out of this masculine feminine, who's the man dynamic. I think that with Sappho, that's so unclear that often she's not really a penetrative partner in the way people talk about her. I have an article that I'm going to publish on this. But it's sort of this very interesting, the idea of oral sex, right? And also, which they also talk about, and sex like by scissoring or grinding, is that it doesn't mean that someone is dominant and someone is submissive. Very true. It's this sort of really the thing that characterizes Sappho's relationships, which is this reciprocity, right? This sort of fluidity of roles of genders, which I think makes her really appealing today in our own conversations about gender fluidity and sexual fluidity.

Speaker 1:
[35:31] See, that's a much more generous reading than I've done for historical slang. And the way that they talk about lesbians, the way I saw it was like these kind of male writers look at it and go, well, there's no penis. So like, what on earth are they doing? They're just clearly rubbing themselves on one another. And that seems to be what's happening. There was an Islamic scholar, I think it was like 15th century, he described it as they're clashing shields, but never with a sword, which I always really liked.

Speaker 2:
[35:59] I mean, the thing is, I mean, that metaphor for me, first of all, the way I always think of these male accounts is these women are having great sex and you're just jealous is number one, right? And number two is sort of, I don't, who wants to be stabbed with a sword? It means you die.

Speaker 1:
[36:14] Very few people.

Speaker 2:
[36:16] Yeah, that means you die, right? Well, you know, if you clash shields together, that means you live and I personally want to live. So I think that that's, but I think that there is sort of a like, there is of course like this whole dismissiveness of lesbian sex, which actually allows it to proliferate in some ways, right? Which is, is this sort of, it's almost like, you know, the dismissiveness is a problem. I'm not sort of thinking that that's okay. But my point is, I don't think it really successfully stops anyone, right, from having sex in this way.

Speaker 1:
[36:48] But do you think that that might be why, like, now I'm not saying lesbians haven't been persecuted throughout history. They have been, and violently so, and continue to be. But they haven't in certain places exerted the same level of censor and horror and legal persecution as gay men. Do you think that's this idea of penetration coming down to it and equals?

Speaker 2:
[37:10] It certainly was. I think that there's something about the way gay men can have sex with each other in that particular way that seems, because of the way people define sexual intercourse, and have defined it, I think that allows people to criminalize it. Whereas the very question of whether or not lesbian sex is sex really protects the pleasures of lesbian sexual communions, and in a way it makes it very hard to criminalize, quite frankly, because if you don't think it's possible for a crime to take place, then no one can get in trouble. And so a lot of books, I'm sure as you've seen, on lesbian sexual history talk about the idea of nothingness and nothing, which as dismissive and harmful and abusive as that is, to talk about as a way to talk about other people, is also really protective of women's relationships because they're allowed to proliferate under the radar, which causes a problem if you want to, for example, get legally married, but is less of a problem if you don't want to be prisoned like Oscar Wilde.

Speaker 1:
[38:11] And what I love about that is the idea that all throughout history, there's just been a bunch of men writing laws going, well, they can't be having sex and just a whole load of lesbians going, yep, yep, that's right. We don't know what we're doing. That's right.

Speaker 2:
[38:24] Yeah, that's right. Nothing to see here, right?

Speaker 1:
[38:26] Nothing to see here. That's exactly what it is.

Speaker 2:
[38:29] Yeah, no, just two women, friends.

Speaker 1:
[38:31] Just two women just grinding on each other and wondering where the penis is. That's what's happening here. As friends.

Speaker 2:
[38:38] Yeah, as friends, as you do. Oh dear.

Speaker 1:
[38:42] As a final question then to round this off, it's difficult to say what is Sappho's legacy, but I guess that gets to the heart of what you're doing because so much about her is unknowable. How do we even pin down what her legacy is?

Speaker 2:
[38:56] I think that for me, it's a legacy of imagination. So much about being a queer person is being in some context and trying to imagine yourself differently. That's a really hard thing to do, and it can be a very lonely thing to do. Throughout history, because we know so little about Sappho, other than that she was amazing, that she was queer, and that she was great at writing poetry, that blank almost offers people a structure to imagine in, and they have over time really used Sappho to imagine new things. What does a feminine man look like, what does a masculine woman look like? What is a different kind of sex? What does desire without power feel like? What does desire without control feel like? What could I look like? What could I be like? What could I seem like? Oftentimes, that imagination is not a sad one, but a positive one because Sappho is so successful. There's this idea of queer victory that I think is really inherent in Sappho rather than queer suppression and queer loss, which certainly is a part of Sappho's poetry. But when we look at not just the ways the fragments are lost, but the ways that people imagined Sappho, we see so many contradictions that free us as queer people and that have inspired us as queer people to reimagine ourselves and to reimagine society. In many ways, the society in which we live, where women do get married and there are Instagram accounts devoted to queer women and this is an open thing that we can do here. And so I think that there's this narrative of queer survival and victory and joy in Sappho that you can be queer and the most famous poet ever to live. So I think that that's really what her legacy is for me, is that the fact that we can use her to imagine always will forever let us imagine and reimagine ourselves, which is the invitation of Sappho.

Speaker 1:
[40:55] Catherine, you have been wonderful to talk to. Thank you so much. And if people want to know more about you and your work, where can they find you?

Speaker 2:
[41:02] Well, currently, they can find me at my website, which is, and I'm currently at Harvard finishing up my dissertation and I will begin as a professor at Sarah Lawrence College in the fall.

Speaker 1:
[41:14] Congratulations. That's amazing.

Speaker 2:
[41:16] So you can take one of my classes. You can shoot me an email on my website. And I love, I love to hear from people about Sappho and I love to answer questions. So, yeah.

Speaker 1:
[41:26] Well, thank you so much for coming by. You've been a treat.

Speaker 2:
[41:29] Thank you so much for having me. I love talking about Sappho and you've given me a lovely morning.

Speaker 1:
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